"In love with straight best friend" ever work out?

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    Sep 15, 2012 8:14 AM GMT
    Just curious. Has anyone ever heard of these situations having the "fairy tale" ending? I.E. Previously straight best friend ends up bisexual and develops/returns feelings and relationship works out?

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    Sep 15, 2012 9:43 AM GMT
    no. your screwed! it'll never ever in a million years ever happen!
  • calibro

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    Sep 15, 2012 12:17 PM GMT
    have you ever turned out to be bisexual and got together with a girl who liked you?
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    Sep 15, 2012 12:18 PM GMT
    calibro saidhave you ever turned out to be bisexual and got together with a girl who liked you?


    /thread.
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    Sep 15, 2012 12:38 PM GMT
    Come On guys..! at least we can point him in the right direction..

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  • onefortified

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    Sep 15, 2012 1:02 PM GMT
    No. It does not and will not work.
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    Sep 15, 2012 1:14 PM GMT
    It's ok to dream. lol
  • starboard5

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    Sep 15, 2012 1:59 PM GMT
    No, this will never work out. Went through the same thing when I was exactly your age (and also rowing crew, as did he.) I even told him, eventually, and he wanted us to stay friends, but it ended up being sadness and misery for the next two years. If your feelings for him are anything more than infatuation, the best thing you can do for yourself and him is part on friendly terms and never see him again. Not trying to sound harsh, just telling it plainly and hoping you won't hurt yourself.
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    Sep 15, 2012 2:20 PM GMT
    "Straight guys, all of them, should die."
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    Sep 15, 2012 2:29 PM GMT
    shortstuffs said"Straight guys, all of them, should die."


    Hey..!! My dad is straight..so is yours.. icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 15, 2012 2:46 PM GMT
    if that does happen then they weren't really straight to begin with? were they?

    a STRAIGHT guy feels the same way about penis, that we feel about vagina, it just not a body part that gets us all revved up.
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    Sep 15, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    yes, I've met many many many gay men who were able to convert their straight best friends into their boyfriends. don't give up, don't be afraid to be forward and aggressive, and don't take no for an answer. oh and get physical if you have to.
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    Sep 15, 2012 2:55 PM GMT
    most men are straight in the world. most men vomit at the idea of penis or fcking their bro, they love women- what straight guys are you meeting lmao
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    Sep 15, 2012 8:14 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidyes, I've met many many many gay men who were able to convert their straight best friends into their boyfriends. don't give up, don't be afraid to be forward and aggressive, and don't take no for an answer. oh and get physical if you have to.

    If they were able to do that, then those friends weren't straight to begin with. I feel that if anyone can be "turned out" or "converted," then they either were already bi-curious or already had some bisexual tendencies.
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    Sep 15, 2012 8:21 PM GMT
    el oh el
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    Sep 15, 2012 8:22 PM GMT
    As gay men we all go through this at least once in our lifetime. My first love was a straight skater when I was in High School. He was perfect and the first guy I really felt something for, a great friend. A friend was all he was, a bit touchy and called me his little buddy. I thought it was more, being the stupid kid I was back then.

    Seeing him date a girl and kiss her was such a piercing pain in my heart, agony to say the least.
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    Sep 15, 2012 8:24 PM GMT
    Let's see.. Gay and Gay = +. Straight and Straight = +. Straight and Gay = -

    Nope, it's not going to work.
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    Sep 15, 2012 8:38 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidyes, I've met many many many gay men who were able to convert their straight best friends into their boyfriends. don't give up, don't be afraid to be forward and aggressive, and don't take no for an answer. oh and get physical if you have to.

    hahahahaha

    and take a bottle of chloroform with you
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    Sep 15, 2012 8:41 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    AvadaKedavra saidyes, I've met many many many gay men who were able to convert their straight best friends into their boyfriends. don't give up, don't be afraid to be forward and aggressive, and don't take no for an answer. oh and get physical if you have to.

    hahahahaha

    and take a bottle of chloroform with you


    nothing says happily ever after like unconscious penetration!
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    Sep 15, 2012 8:42 PM GMT
    calibro saidhave you ever turned out to be bisexual and got together with a girl who liked you?


    +1
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    Sep 15, 2012 9:47 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    lilTanker said
    AvadaKedavra saidyes, I've met many many many gay men who were able to convert their straight best friends into their boyfriends. don't give up, don't be afraid to be forward and aggressive, and don't take no for an answer. oh and get physical if you have to.

    hahahahaha

    and take a bottle of chloroform with you


    nothing says happily ever after like unconscious penetration!

    mmmm and a bowl of ice cream after!
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    Sep 15, 2012 9:49 PM GMT
    Unless you two happen to be CSI characters Nick Stokes and Greg Sanders, the whole "in love with my straight best friend" thing never ends up with said two people getting together.
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    Sep 15, 2012 10:13 PM GMT
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    AvadaKedavra saidyes, I've met many many many gay men who were able to convert their straight best friends into their boyfriends. don't give up, don't be afraid to be forward and aggressive, and don't take no for an answer. oh and get physical if you have to.

    If they were able to do that, then those friends weren't straight to begin with. I feel that if anyone can be "turned out" or "converted," then they either were already bi-curious or already had some bisexual tendencies.


    Preach
  • easterndude69

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    Sep 15, 2012 11:02 PM GMT
    It depends, but I wouldn't get my hopes up if I were you as the odds are not in your favor. Sexuality can be quite fluid, and many deemed straight guys like to experiment with the same sex every now and then. It depends on the guy, but I think the guy would have to at least have thought of another guy in that way or thought or wondered about what sex or messing around with guys would be like. I don't think it just comes out of the blue. Many guys like to experiment, but most prefer to experiment with other men whom they know are straight; I guess it's an area where they feel comfortable which gay men don't provide in their eyes. Sometimes, there will be straight men who don't mind experimenting with other gay men. Still, even then it's a very bumpy road. I'm not going to say you should avoid those kinds of situations altogether; you never know if something good might come out of it if you play your cards right. It could work, but the chances are very slim. It's usually met with an outcome of lots of drama and misery. Theoretically, though, I think it could possibly work out under the right circumstances. Many gay men start out leading straight lives until they start to question or explore themselves. I feel that if someone's trying to find themselves that another one could help them out and possibly attempt to show them the way for them if they're that curious. Be very cautious if you do experiment in this area, however. It can cripple quality friendships and leave alot of misery and scars in your life for good if things don't work out well. Rest assured, it's not at all an easy area to explore. But if it does work out in the end, the other guy must not be straight.

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    Sep 15, 2012 11:35 PM GMT
    How is lusting after someone who does not and could not be into you a fairy tale?
    Maybe one of the old-school sadistic fairy tales where the monster devours the hero and there is no "happily ever after," then maybe.