Sexual activity and your city.

  • demasi

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    Sep 16, 2012 2:15 AM GMT
    How do you feel when you find a guy you met has been involved with someone else you know?
    Does it put you building something with that person?


    Personally, it makes me feel pretty uncomfortable. But i'm not really sure why.

    Some times it feels like everyone has slept with everyone.
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    Sep 16, 2012 6:46 AM GMT
    matt saidHow do you feel when you find a guy you met has been involved with someone else you know?
    Does it put you building something with that person?


    Personally, it makes me feel pretty uncomfortable. But i'm not really sure why.

    Some times it feels like everyone has slept with everyone.

    My second ex turns out had sex with my fourth and fifth exs in the past so I would say everyone has fucked each other here.
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    Sep 16, 2012 7:44 AM GMT
    Went through it...Awkwadrd..!
    Even worse if you are not so fond of 'that other' person..ewww! icon_confused.gif
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    Sep 16, 2012 8:25 AM GMT
    DADT
  • Guycicle

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    Sep 16, 2012 9:11 AM GMT
    Here we have a saying "We don't date; We recycle!"
  • FitGwynedd

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    Sep 16, 2012 9:14 AM GMT
    Try living in rural Wales. It is kind of good because word gets around about a specific individual people should not sleep with.
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    Sep 16, 2012 11:03 AM GMT
    Guycicle saidHere we have a saying "We don't date; We recycle!"


    LOL! Actually, I don't think it is that uncommon. When you think about it, many of us have a fairly small circle of those we routinely hang out with and, with gay men being a smaller percentage of the population than straights, the pool of potential dating partners tends to be smaller.

    Shortly before my partner and I got together, I briefly dated one of his close friends. It never seemed to bother them. Although the first few months I wondered if they compared notes when it was just the two of them hanging out together. icon_lol.gif

    So to the OP, not only may it be a little awkward for you, but the other guys as well. Doesn't mean it isn't worth pursuing. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 16, 2012 11:08 AM GMT
    I like to be pretty choosy with who I date and sleep with. It seems like everyone in the gay community in my town pretty much knows each other, and I like being at least a little mysterious.
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    Sep 16, 2012 1:05 PM GMT
    huhwhat saidI like to be pretty choosy with who I date and sleep with. It seems like everyone in the gay community in my town pretty much knows each other, and I like being at least a little mysterious.


    Yeah, no one knows me. icon_neutral.gif I only have three exes, one of which lives in Okie. The other two are opposite sides of DFW. No way they'd date each other either.