How do I approach guys?

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    Sep 17, 2012 3:20 AM GMT
    Yeah, I don't know if one of those threads has come up yet, but I do need some advice. Right now I'm on my college campus, and a few of my friends know I'm bi but I want to know how I approach guys, or flirt with them I guess.

    Even though it is awkward asking girls out it is easy for me, since I'm around them 24/7, but I don't have many relationships with gay guys on my campus so what do I do??

    P.S. (We do have a Straight Gay Alliance Club on our campus)
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    Sep 17, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    Flirting is just checking a guy out, but a little more subtly than a straight guy does to a girl. Make eye contact for a second longer than you normally would, but be cool about it. If he just looks away, he's not for you. If he hangs for a second, with you, he MIGHT be for you, but you'll have to approach him and strike up a conversation. Be friendly, reaffirm the eye contact, and you'll find out pretty quickly if he is interested - it's in the vibe.

    GSLs usually have some kind of social event during the year that is meant to get people together just for fun. That might be a good time to check it out. My experience is that people other than the "regulars" come to those events, and you may find some of the jock types show up to those, rather than in the office.

    If you are open and accepting, you'll find a lot of people interested in you. Best of luck!
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    Sep 18, 2012 1:13 AM GMT
    Corvin..try this..don't look at it as approaching / flirting with guys..

    ..Look at it as making contact with an interesting gay/bi guy..that you would like to become friends with..maybe more..!
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    Sep 18, 2012 7:19 AM GMT
    Thanks guys for the help. Wish me luck.
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    Sep 18, 2012 5:53 PM GMT
    With a touch of charm and debonair

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    Sep 18, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    JR_RJ saidWith a touch of charm and debonair

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    Mmmm.. you could floor me with that any day of the week with that technique. ;)

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    Sep 18, 2012 11:30 PM GMT
    ParadiseLost said
    JR_RJ saidWith a touch of charm and debonair

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    Mmmm.. you could floor me with that any day of the week with that technique. ;)


    A bit classy, silly, wise and slightly irreverent.