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    Sep 17, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
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    Sep 17, 2012 8:43 AM GMT
    Op..sometimes ..You have to slow down and realize there are Mathematical elements to sex..
    Example..Your height..The length, girth and curve of your penis.. the speed, angle and depth of your strides..based on the sexual position.
    then you have to factor in your partner in this equasion!..

    ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
    With all that said.. personally i think you are nervous as hell during sex..
    Get yourself some Trojan XLs..relax..Start slow..and enjoy!..
    btw..your'e a freak ! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 17, 2012 9:22 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidOp..sometimes ..You have to slow down and realize there are Mathematical elements to sex..
    Example..Your height..The length, girth and curve of your penis.. the speed, angle and depth of your strides..based on the sexual position.
    then you have to factor in your partner in this equasion!..

    ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
    With all that said.. personally i think you are nervous as hell during sex..
    Get yourself some Trojan XLs..relax..Start slow..and enjoy!..
    btw..your'e a freak ! icon_biggrin.gif


    Wise words

    Not every position will suit each partnership that's the beauty of discovering someone new. Take your time and practice.
    I find at first get the guy to the edge of the bed and allow him to move back onto your cock, with you standing behind, it will help feel more in control and possibly ease in without many issues.
    Also bigger condoms will help immensly
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    Sep 17, 2012 10:00 AM GMT
    try using a little less lube.

    Also a good bottom.. well he keeps it tight hahaha which doesn't always help while your still learning the ropes to being a top. He'll need to relax more.

    Also while it's fun with the bottom on his back and you bending down to make out with him it's not conducing to remaining inside him especially if you don't have great back flexibility it'll pull your hips away from him. So stay more upright.

    In doggy position, I've found I slip out more then I push the bottom forward with my hands of his hips when I start pulling back.. heh ya think your cocks HUGE but it aint... it does finish at some point hahaha again more relaxed he is the better.

    With the issue about staying hard, that sounds more like nerves, you like toping but are you worried about anything? if you are let it rest, the bottom is probably enjoying it.
    Gawd knows I've done some pretty wild and weird stuff and experimented and they've been pretty upfront telling me if they liked it.
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    Sep 17, 2012 10:01 AM GMT
    oooh and try different lube, that super slick stuff aint so great...
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    Sep 17, 2012 8:44 PM GMT
    Your dick is not the problem. You've been hooking up with some very loose bottoms.
  • Koaa2

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    Sep 17, 2012 9:55 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidoooh and try different lube, that super slick stuff aint so great...


    I just discovered Uberlube, works great and not sticky and hard to clean up like regular silicone.

    http://www.uberlube.com/#!about

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    Sep 18, 2012 2:23 AM GMT
    You're welcome dude.. this thread is giving me a chub!... icon_wink.gif
  • DR2K

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    Sep 18, 2012 7:18 AM GMT
    It's not really the size of your dick, moreso inexperience.
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    Sep 18, 2012 7:52 AM GMT
    brboi21 saidAlright so I hooked up with another dude tonight and was going to top him, and I thought with a wider condom, it would help. I tried several times, and usually when they try riding, it works, but it didn't this time. My dick kept going from 100% to like 75%, and then 50%. I think it's nerves. I did take my time rimming and fingering him (with two fingers), so I don't think it was being he had a too tight hole. Disappointed, but we had a great time anyway.


    Also when a guy is riding you make sure he doesnt just plonk himself down on you (like so many do) make him keep his weight on his legs and not you, restricted blood flow etc.


    Just find a guy who wants to practice, its difficult to find a boyfriend but fuck buddies are everywhere. Practice !
  • Koaa2

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    Sep 18, 2012 4:50 PM GMT
    Drive out to Palm Springs next week and I will volunteer to practice with you! Have fun and relax.