Not into Oral, Never have been, Likely won't ever be!

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    Sep 17, 2012 10:22 PM GMT
    Anyone else dread the almost expected ritual of someone going down on you when you meet up? I do. I'm just upfront about it and say "let's skip that."

    It's extremely uncomfortable for me in a bad way. It certainly doesn't turn me on, and it is not arousing to me. I also don't understand why it turns people on.
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    Sep 17, 2012 10:42 PM GMT
    bluey2223 saidI also don't understand why it turns people on.

    Possibly because it meets 2 of the basic criteria for good sex:

    - it feels great to get
    - it looks hot

    I can't explain why you don't have those responses yourself.
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    Sep 18, 2012 12:59 AM GMT
    That happens to be one of my favorite things!! I guess it's just different tastes.....
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    Sep 18, 2012 1:10 AM GMT
    I guess it's me and rimming... I cannot do that, ever.
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    Sep 18, 2012 1:12 AM GMT
    bluey2223 saidAnyone else dread the almost expected ritual of someone going down on you when you meet up? I do. I'm just upfront about it and say "let's skip that."

    It's extremely uncomfortable for me in a bad way. It certainly doesn't turn me on, and it is not arousing to me. I also don't understand why it turns people on.


    What is it about it that you don't like?
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    Sep 19, 2012 12:54 AM GMT
    People's throats are too small and therefore feel uncomfortable rather than pleasurable. I feel like it's just jamming your hard dick into a hard wall. Not good for it. I feel teeth everytime. If it's not one of the last two things, it is actually sucked, and I feel the blood getting unnaturally pushed around in my penis in an uncomfortable way (I have had hickies on my tongue and my ear lobe, and I DO NOT want one on my penis). It also just doesn't feel like it is arousing enough to put up with all that--the physical stimulation isn't enough nor is the concept of it even arousing. I also don't like the fact that it makes it uncomfortable to jerk yourself off after that because of the saliva residue making it sticky. Add to all this the fact that when they jam your hard dick into their throat, it opens up your urethra and allows whatever bacteria they have in the back of their throat to culture on the inside of your urethra. I've had two UTIs before and do not want anymore!