Hot lists

  • monstapex

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    Sep 19, 2012 9:37 PM GMT
    I can see it for a buddy list,but should you have to ask or chat with a member before you add them to your hotlist?
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    Sep 19, 2012 9:44 PM GMT
    My profile automatically debits $1000 from each user that hotlists me without saying hi first. icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 19, 2012 9:44 PM GMT
    No.
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    Sep 19, 2012 9:45 PM GMT
    What?
    You should at least know the person before buddy listing them, hence "buddy" list. You wouldn't just consider strangers in real life your friends, and it's the same on here.
    You can hotlist whoever you want, whenever you want, because that's just like giving them a compliment. You don't have to ask someone if they want a compliment.
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    Sep 19, 2012 10:27 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidAbsolutely not. And also don't expect a conversation to start because you hotlist someone. I choose to thank people who give me that honour, but many don't and I think that's fine. The hotlist is for you and you alone (and maybe for other guys who think you're hot to see if they are within your target range). It has absolutely nothing to do with the guy being hotlisted, imo.


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    Sep 20, 2012 12:37 AM GMT
    hotlist away! icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 20, 2012 12:43 AM GMT
    sashaman saidhotlist away! icon_lol.gif


    ok. thx!
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    Sep 20, 2012 12:47 AM GMT
    If someone hotlists me I immediately thank them and occasionally make small talk.

    However if someone hotlists AND buddy lists me at the same time I'm more likely to simply reply to the hotlist with a polite thank-you and leave it at that.

    The third scenario is when someone hotlists, budlists AND sends a message that sounds like it was typed by a horny teenager who just chugged a quintuple-shot espresso drink...then I either send no reply or, if the message is sufficiently creepy or weird, I block the sender.

    The people on my Buddy List are folks who I've actually had extended conversations with.
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    Sep 20, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    bostonsam saidI don't even know what the hot list is!


    What is the hot list? What is a Southbeach? So very many things to learn. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 20, 2012 2:03 AM GMT
    showme said
    bostonsam saidI don't even know what the hot list is!


    What is the hot list? What is a Southbeach? So very many things to learn. icon_rolleyes.gif


    An IDIOT SAVANT is someone who knows more than we would expect of him.

    What do we call someone who pretends to know less than he does?
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    Sep 20, 2012 2:08 AM GMT
    showme said
    bostonsam saidI don't even know what the hot list is!


    What is the hot list? What is a Southbeach? So very many things to learn. icon_rolleyes.gif


    Glad I'm not the only one who blatantly sees through this bozo account.
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    Sep 20, 2012 2:11 AM GMT
    Omg, I had no idea!

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  • RaggedyMan

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    Sep 20, 2012 5:44 AM GMT
    If he's hot I click hotlist. Its like an ice breaker icon_smile.gif icy-hot if you will. It shall be known as the "icy-hot list button"
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    Sep 20, 2012 5:48 AM GMT
    hot list = you're hot; buddy list = we've chatted & i want to stay in touch
    generally speaking - but sometimes i get lazy & just hot list (my way of bookmarking a nice profile)