Talking about drugs.

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    Sep 20, 2012 1:06 PM GMT
    I have a friend who i suspect might be occasionally doing coke and MDMA on the weekends. I've avoided the topic since he knows I don't like drugs and I feel like he might get upset if I ask him about it.

    But after much thinking i've come to the conclusion that if he's doing any hard drugs even if its just once every two weeks, its a friendship breaker. How should I approach this topic so I get an upfront answer? I want to hear it from his mouth so it's easier for me to break things off.
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    Sep 20, 2012 1:19 PM GMT
    I want to word it perfectly. Something that doesn't sound judgy. I want him to feel comfortable telling me.
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    Sep 20, 2012 6:27 PM GMT
    is friendship an all or nothing thing for you?

    is it only illegal drugs that bother you? or abusive patterns regardless of legality?

    do you offer up friendship contracts in advance so people will know if they qualify before saying hello?

    i'm sayin....if someone is a junkie....you can see signs in their behavior. and if you don't want to be part of it.....don't participate. no one is forcing you. if anyone attempts to force you THAT is a friendship breaker. if you ARE his friend, and you think he's being self destructive...you COULD say something just to make him aware you are aware....