Five signs to signify whether a guy is interested or not

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    Sep 21, 2012 1:43 AM GMT
    hey guys i have a question

    What would you guys consider the 5 most reliable signs or cues that a guy would show if he was truly interested in you besides him coming and saying it straight out " yea i like you " lol

    thanks in advance guys icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 21, 2012 1:58 AM GMT
    hes very focused on you.

    He finds you funnier then most

    Hes always trying to be closer to you

    He smiles at you a lot but does it all in a shy way

    when you start taking his clothes off he helps
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    Sep 21, 2012 5:53 AM GMT
    First time I saw my BF. was in the locker room at the gym , he was so damn hot and I just blatantly ignored his checking me out cause I'm honestly very shy.. later that week I saw him out with his friends. now we laugh about it and he still tells me "you little runt, you ignored me and put on your dress shirt and puffed up as you walked past me" I was so into him that I was at a loss as to what to say or do.... so I guess ignoring a guy is 1
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    Sep 21, 2012 6:20 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidhes very focused on you.

    when you start taking his clothes off he helps


    Ill only buy this 2.icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 21, 2012 6:30 AM GMT
    1. touches you when he can.
    2. smiles at you.
    3. asks you questions about your life/you/ your family.
    4. cooks a meal for you.
    5. wants to make weekend plans with you.


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    Sep 21, 2012 6:37 AM GMT
    It's all about the eye contact and body language. Is his body turned towards you? Is mirroring you?
    Gestures that emphasize his arms are another way a guy will show his interest.
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    Sep 21, 2012 10:33 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidhes very focused on you.

    He finds you funnier then most

    Hes always trying to be closer to you

    He smiles at you a lot but does it all in a shy way

    when you start taking his clothes off he helps




    Well i get all except the last one lol .. i would certainly love that

    I am asking because this guy is supposed to be "straight" but i keep getting serious vibes from him
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    Sep 21, 2012 10:49 AM GMT
    If it's someone you already know, then he'll remember seemingly insignificant details about you. Either he's into you or has a damn good memory, hah.
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    Sep 21, 2012 10:58 AM GMT
    I have a very effective way to find out whether a guy really is straight or gay. Watch the way he looks at other people in a cafe or some place similar. If his eyes seem to go mostly for guys, then he's very likely to be gay/bi. If they seem to go mostly for girls, then he's most likely straight.

    This video should explain it better

    http://youtu.be/KVMCfIfakJQ

    Good luck!
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    Sep 21, 2012 11:25 AM GMT
    CAroom saidI have a very effective way to find out whether a guy really is straight or gay. Watch the way he looks at other people in a cafe or some place similar. If his eyes seem to go mostly for guys, then he's very likely to be gay/bi. If they seem to go mostly for girls, then he's most likely straight.

    This video should explain it better

    http://youtu.be/KVMCfIfakJQ

    Good luck!


    i did that already he checks out girls mostly but glance at guys once in a while ... especially at swim meets
    the weird thing is is the looks and "friendly touches" that he gives they are different from everyone else ...

    2 examples

    we swim together he checks me out in my speedo at least 20 times before we finish training lol haha he does side glances quick looks and 1 or 2 long looks

    i never noticed any of these things until i started looking back lol

    when we talk and he wants to tell me something important arm around my neck and talks directly into my ear ... by the way gives me chills when i feel his breath on my neck .. or if i look at him with his arm still around me .. his face is directly in front of mine inches apart close enough to kiss and he gives me this intense look .. another chill done spine moment lol haha

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    Sep 21, 2012 2:34 PM GMT
    Swimstar said i did that already he checks out girls mostly but glance at guys once in a while ... especially at swim meets
    the weird thing is is the looks and "friendly touches" that he gives they are different from everyone else ...

    2 examples

    we swim together he checks me out in my speedo at least 20 times before we finish training lol haha he does side glances quick looks and 1 or 2 long looks

    i never noticed any of these things until i started looking back lol

    when we talk and he wants to tell me something important arm around my neck and talks directly into my ear ... by the way gives me chills when i feel his breath on my neck .. or if i look at him with his arm still around me .. his face is directly in front of mine inches apart close enough to kiss and he gives me this intense look .. another chill done spine moment lol haha



    I can imagine that this can be a bit tricky. It could be a cultural thing to put an arm around another man and getting very close to him to talk. We do that a lot in my culture, and that doesn't really mean that we're interested in each other. I know that, because two guys holding hands and kissing on the cheek in Syria (where I'm from) and some other countries isn't considered gay. So I guess you'll have to look into the norms of the culture he grew up in.

    Though glancing at guys and checking you out, definitely are signs that he's into men...or at least just curious.

    Perhaps you could try flirting with him in an indirect sort of way, and see what his reaction might be. That's all I've got.
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    Sep 21, 2012 9:10 PM GMT
    Hunny, he's straight and comfortable straight at that.

    Brush aside the crush and keep him as a friend.

    I've been through it, I know how it feels.. but it's not gonna happen!
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    Sep 21, 2012 9:18 PM GMT
    jprichva saidI wouldn't have any idea.

    ^^^^ This for me tooicon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 21, 2012 9:25 PM GMT
    Swimstar said Five signs to signify whether a guy is interested or not
    1. Upon first meeting, he's the one who says hi first.
    2. He buys all your drinks.
    3. He invites you to the parking garage for a quickie.
    4. Security catches y'all and asks you to leave or stop (in that order), at which time your new man knows another garage that's more private.
    5. Y'all hookup again a few days later for dinner and drinks which you pay for this time, and y'all end up dating for at least a year, if not more.

    <-- How I met current bf. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 02, 2012 12:08 PM GMT
    Ok guys this a completely different guy than the previous this one however this one is confusing because i dont if he wants to find out if im gay to fool around or just tease me about it...

    he is completely different from the previous only similar thing is that he is straight ... he may be open/curious but im not sure ... when he is around me .... he is so damm forward but i dont know if i can trust him to let him know im gay .. im not out yet

    this guy hits my ass when ever he gets a chance .. he even complimented my butt, when we shared a room together 2 months ago he grabbed my dick and balls playfully, once we were alone he stood in front me naked, jumped on my back naked and stroked my face with his hands whispering something in my ear i cant remember right now icon_redface.gif lol haha but when the other room-mate was coming in the room scrambeled to put on his clothes lol haha ... doesnt mind being naked around guys has no problem touching me and hugging me and he is always in my prsonal space lol his face is usually inches away from me when he talks to me lol
    and he gives these intense looks i mean really intense dont get me wrong i look back to lol then he winks and continues on his way
    i try to return the looks and small touches n hugs but i dont know what to do ... i dont know if i can trust him with me being gay ive only told a few people .. he has asked me quite a few times if i was gay ... he is the only person to keep asking me that question ...

    so what do you guys think is he trust worthy enough to tell and see if we can fool around ... i dont think he is gay just really comfortable and playful lol

    thanks in advance guys icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 02, 2012 12:34 PM GMT
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    he does atm
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  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 19, 2014 9:44 PM GMT
    Just ran across this thread. Hey OP! Ever figure out if the first guy was gay? Or the second one?
  • BloodFlame

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    Nov 20, 2014 5:36 AM GMT
    He sounds like he may be bisexual secretly. I say secretly because he's probably never got intimate with a guy but is curious or open, just in a subtle way.

    Anyway, as far as a guy not being interested, the biggest sign is he doesn't make an effort to talk or converse with you. Biggest sign in my opinion.
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    Nov 21, 2014 7:22 PM GMT
    Swimstar saidOk guys this a completely different guy than the previous this one however this one is confusing because i dont if he wants to find out if im gay to fool around or just tease me about it...

    he is completely different from the previous only similar thing is that he is straight ... he may be open/curious but im not sure ... when he is around me .... he is so damm forward but i dont know if i can trust him to let him know im gay .. im not out yet

    this guy hits my ass when ever he gets a chance .. he even complimented my butt, when we shared a room together 2 months ago he grabbed my dick and balls playfully, once we were alone he stood in front me naked, jumped on my back naked and stroked my face with his hands whispering something in my ear i cant remember right now icon_redface.gif lol haha but when the other room-mate was coming in the room scrambeled to put on his clothes lol haha ... doesnt mind being naked around guys has no problem touching me and hugging me and he is always in my prsonal space lol his face is usually inches away from me when he talks to me lol
    and he gives these intense looks i mean really intense dont get me wrong i look back to lol then he winks and continues on his way
    i try to return the looks and small touches n hugs but i dont know what to do ... i dont know if i can trust him with me being gay ive only told a few people .. he has asked me quite a few times if i was gay ... he is the only person to keep asking me that question ...

    so what do you guys think is he trust worthy enough to tell and see if we can fool around ... i dont think he is gay just really comfortable and playful lol

    thanks in advance guys icon_smile.gif

    You're living in a Carribean island culture - quite different from the US, Europe or Australia, where 99.9% of the guys on this site live. Touching people and personal space are completely different there than for the rest of us. We can't say. Except there is a lot more clostedness and bi-behaviour there than here.