McQueen saidFat and ugly guys are somehow immune to self-esteem issues and will chase anybody they find attractive and will feel a sense of entitlement for that person to reply to them.
Ugh...that is a horrible thing to say. Plus the generalization is horrid aswell.
Your situation is ironic if you re read what you state. Almost interesting how the guys who like you arent what you go for, while the guys you go for, sometimes dont seem to be interested and honestly if they don't approach you first most of the time, then they arent that interested, at least not as much as you are. Unless shyness comes into play.
Honestly, I think you should re read what you wrote and I think maybe you should give those guys a shot.
If you don't even get to know people, you may miss out. Life is not what we want alot of time and if you ask people about their soul mates, you will find it is not who they originally thought they would be with,
Maybe if you open yourself up more and look beyond your "type" you may find a bear is a great guy and he may give you everything you want, need, desire and much more.
Why don't you give them a chance?