Why do I only attract heavy set guys, bears, and muscle men?

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    Sep 21, 2012 2:38 AM GMT
    I like compact slim/defined guys the most, but they seem to not go for me at all.

    If I approach them first, they seem to be very receptive but why do they never approach me like larger guys do?

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  • mcwclewis

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    Sep 21, 2012 3:01 AM GMT
    Location, maybe?
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    Sep 21, 2012 3:20 AM GMT
    #youngguyproblems
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    Sep 21, 2012 3:25 AM GMT
    Fat and ugly guys are somehow immune to self-esteem issues and will chase anybody they find attractive and will feel a sense of entitlement for that person to reply to them.
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    Sep 21, 2012 4:43 AM GMT
    Don't knock ... at least you are attracting someone icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 21, 2012 4:46 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidDon't knock ... at least you are attracting someone icon_biggrin.gif


    EXACTLY! Besides I always thought you were very attractive deki icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 21, 2012 4:47 AM GMT
    mcwclewis saidLocation, maybe?


    LOL, location of what!! icon_wink.gif
  • mcwclewis

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    Sep 21, 2012 4:51 AM GMT
    Maybe it's just that bigger guys are less intimidated?
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    Sep 21, 2012 4:52 AM GMT
    Twinks only go for money, everyone knows this icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 21, 2012 4:56 AM GMT
    Claystation saidTwinks only go for money, everyone knows this icon_biggrin.gif


    Umm....+no..+Probably+one+of+the+best+pa
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    Sep 21, 2012 4:57 AM GMT
    I attract muggers.

    I'd take your bears anyday
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    Sep 21, 2012 4:59 AM GMT
    msuNtx saidI attract muggers.

    I'd take your bears anyday


    ermagerd! somebody rummaged through my car tonight! I feel so special!
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    Sep 21, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
    msuNtx saidI attract muggers.

    I'd take your bears anyday


    Really? I would've thought you'd be more into the "car thief" type
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    Sep 21, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
    McQueen saidFat and ugly guys are somehow immune to self-esteem issues and will chase anybody they find attractive and will feel a sense of entitlement for that person to reply to them.



    Ugh...that is a horrible thing to say. Plus the generalization is horrid aswell.


    Anyway,

    Your situation is ironic if you re read what you state. Almost interesting how the guys who like you arent what you go for, while the guys you go for, sometimes dont seem to be interested and honestly if they don't approach you first most of the time, then they arent that interested, at least not as much as you are. Unless shyness comes into play.

    Honestly, I think you should re read what you wrote and I think maybe you should give those guys a shot.

    If you don't even get to know people, you may miss out. Life is not what we want alot of time and if you ask people about their soul mates, you will find it is not who they originally thought they would be with,

    Maybe if you open yourself up more and look beyond your "type" you may find a bear is a great guy and he may give you everything you want, need, desire and much more.

    Why don't you give them a chance?

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    Sep 21, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 said
    msuNtx saidI attract muggers.

    I'd take your bears anyday


    ermagerd! somebody rummaged through my car tonight! I feel so special!


    Don't got to be a dick about it.
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    Sep 21, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
    I'll take the muscle men off of your hands. oooh! or a muscle bear. mmmmm musclebears...
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    Sep 21, 2012 5:11 AM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA said
    McQueen saidFat and ugly guys are somehow immune to self-esteem issues and will chase anybody they find attractive and will feel a sense of entitlement for that person to reply to them.
    Ugh...that is a horrible thing to say. Plus the generalization is horrid aswell.
    You've clearly never been on manhunt chat.
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    Sep 21, 2012 6:12 AM GMT
    McQueen said
    JamieJfromtheA said
    McQueen saidFat and ugly guys are somehow immune to self-esteem issues and will chase anybody they find attractive and will feel a sense of entitlement for that person to reply to them.
    Ugh...that is a horrible thing to say. Plus the generalization is horrid aswell.
    You've clearly never been on manhunt chat.


    Actually I have... heh.
    Deleted it two days later.
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    Sep 21, 2012 6:15 AM GMT
    msuNtx saidI attract muggers.

    When I skimmed past your post, I initially thought you said something else

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    Sep 21, 2012 6:22 AM GMT
    bitch, quit complainin'
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    Sep 21, 2012 6:28 AM GMT
    It is every single gay man's responsibility to approach guys to whom they are attracted. Heavy set guys, bears, and muscle men have this down, and so should you.
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    Sep 21, 2012 6:30 AM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 said
    msuNtx saidI attract muggers.

    I'd take your bears anyday


    ermagerd! somebody rummaged through my car tonight! I feel so special!


    Uncalled for.
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    Sep 21, 2012 6:31 AM GMT
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    RoadsterRacer87 said
    msuNtx saidI attract muggers.

    I'd take your bears anyday


    ermagerd! somebody rummaged through my car tonight! I feel so special!


    Uncalled for.


    but...somebody actually did rummage through my car icon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 21, 2012 7:48 AM GMT
    msuNtx saidI attract muggers.

    I'd take your bears anyday


    I´ll mug you any time, babe.
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    Sep 21, 2012 8:01 AM GMT
    METAMORPH said
    msuNtx saidI attract muggers.

    When I skimmed past your post, I initially thought you said something else

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    I fucking hate naggers icon_mad.gif