why the fuck do i still hold on..........????

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    Sep 22, 2012 1:03 AM GMT
    to this guy?

    This guy who labels himself as being "coldhearted,"...

    Sends mixed signals,...

    Plays dumb when I ask him straight up questions (on how he feels)...

    Posts fucking FaceBook pictures of him making out with another guy...

    still thinks that we are just "friends" after all the shit i've done for him and how much of a connection we have....

    why oh why??

    any kind words? wisdom? advice?

    *this sucks*


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    Sep 22, 2012 1:05 AM GMT
    You definitely summed it up. No advice needed.

    Break up with him. He seems to want to be a "celebrity" and not a decent boyfriend so fuck it. Don't put up with someone who is not concerned about you.

    Hope this helps icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 22, 2012 1:07 AM GMT
    Getting the hang of being melodramatic I see!
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    Sep 22, 2012 1:07 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidGetting the hang on being melodramatic I see!


    +1
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    Sep 22, 2012 1:18 AM GMT
    Hi youngRJ1,

    Please consider this, "This guy who labels himself as being "coldhearted,"...

    You're finding out the accuracy of his self-description.

    " Plays dumb when I ask him straight up questions (on how he feels)...

    It's very painful to be passively rebuffed this way. It's been my experience that very often relationships fade away on these fellows. Relationships require nurturing or they die.

    I think you should quietly disengage. There is better love out there.

    warmly,

    -Doug
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    Sep 22, 2012 1:40 AM GMT
    meninlove said Hi youngRJ1,

    Please consider this, "This guy who labels himself as being "coldhearted,"...

    You're finding out the accuracy of his self-description.

    " Plays dumb when I ask him straight up questions (on how he feels)...

    It's very painful to be passively rebuffed this way. It's been my experience that very often relationships fade away on these fellows. Relationships require nurturing or they die.

    I think you should quietly disengage. There is better love out there.

    warmly,

    -Doug

    Good lord Dougy, You took forever getting to the point!

    HE DOESN'T WANT YOUR CLINGY DESPERATE ARSE!!!

    Would have taken you a lot less time
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    Sep 22, 2012 1:43 AM GMT


    Except that what you're saying is not what I said, lilTanker. icon_wink.gif

    The opposite really.

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    Sep 22, 2012 1:54 AM GMT
    meninlove said

    Except that what you're saying is not what I said, lilTanker. icon_wink.gif

    The opposite really.


    oh it was the same... I just came from a different direction icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 22, 2012 2:03 AM GMT
    youngRJ1 saidSends mixed signals,...

    Posts fucking FaceBook pictures of him making out with another guy...

    Posting facebook make-out pics with another guy is not a mixed signal - it's a very clear signal of his view of your relationship. If you're looking for exclusivity, possibly leading to love & romance, then look elsewhere. Sorry. icon_sad.gif
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    Sep 22, 2012 2:13 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    meninlove said

    Except that what you're saying is not what I said, lilTanker. icon_wink.gif

    The opposite really.


    oh it was the same... I just came from a different direction icon_razz.gif


    lol, not the same, but it's fine if you think so. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 22, 2012 2:55 AM GMT
    He told you up front he's "Cold Hearted"??
    Trying to "Warm him up" is not working..!

    Till this guy sends you clear signals....Do not invest in this circus!!
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    Sep 22, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    love yourself more ... and him less
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    Sep 22, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    dump his ass.
    Find a new man. Make it happen boo