Game: What kind of guy would you date?

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    Sep 22, 2012 8:13 PM GMT
    Okay, I'm sure there are other proximal threads created and no one may look at this thread buuuuuut I'm gonna make it anyway. ;D Feel free to ignore this thread if you don't want to participate. icon_smile.gif

    SO, what sort of guy would you date? Skinny guys? Beefy guys? Tall guys? Short guys? Guys as light as you or lighter? Guys as dark as you or darker? Biker men? Preppy men? Hairy men? Smooth men? Be silly, be serious, whatever it is, just Be specific. icon_smile.gif

    [!] Don't say stuff like "masculine" or "hot" unless you're able to define what that is! Also, please refrain from using words like "straight acting" here too. icon_smile.gif

    Aaaaaaaaaaand go! icon_biggrin.gif

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    Sep 22, 2012 10:30 PM GMT
    Awww.. don't be shy people. :3 I won't confiscate any penis pumps if you tell me what you want or don't want in a person. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 22, 2012 10:31 PM GMT
    I like:

    college-educated, likes to travel a lot, cultured, and goes to the gym

    Any race, generally around my age/stage in life
  • RaggedyMan

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    Sep 22, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    The bad boy. Ill settle for the entrepreneur icon_smile.gif awesome if he was both
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    Sep 22, 2012 10:33 PM GMT
    sanjose408 saidThe bad boy. Ill settle for the entrepreneur icon_smile.gif awesome if he was both


    What's a bad boy? :3 Explain yourself mister! ;B
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    Sep 22, 2012 10:42 PM GMT
    The army guy, that comes home from being away and we don't leave the bedroom for days icon_cool.gif
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    Sep 22, 2012 10:44 PM GMT
    Right now I'm aiming for two types. Sometimes I wonder if I should open my options, but I figured I like what I like. I shouldn't have to change them to find the right guy. No one is perfect but I can damn well try to find one that is perfect for me!!!!

    Guy #1: WHITE (there I said it), muscular/athletic,30's, small town/farm boy raised, military or law enforcement background, TOP, mildly hairy is fine, rough around the edges yet charming & sweet, but can still kick the shit outta anyones ass.


    Guy #2: WHITE (there I said it again), muscular/athletic,30's, European background, educated, mildly hairy is fine, TOP, refined, likes the finer things in life, intimidating and can kick the shit outta anyones ass....

    Tim Kruger is a perfect example...

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  • chaotic1

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    Sep 22, 2012 10:58 PM GMT
    I tend to go for alpha males.

    I'm a sucker for muscles, but I'd take definition over bulk any day.

    Abs are hot.

    I'll take humor over intellect.

    Confidence rather than ego.

    I like guys who are big loyal teddy bears who can make me laugh.
  • synestheticxs...

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    Sep 22, 2012 11:07 PM GMT
    Anybody into 'straight acting'
    Affliction
    Tapout
    Partying
    Grindr
    Chest pics EVERYWHERE

    ..Can go to hell. Since that basically leaves reasonable, well rounded men, I'll say anyone who is well.. Reasonable and well rounded. Affectionate, faithful; call me an old fashioned boy I guess.
  • rdberg1957

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    Sep 22, 2012 11:19 PM GMT
    There is a distinction between what I desire in a sexual partner and what I desire in a life partner. If I were to be concerned only about who attracts me sexually, I would find a smooth, younger, thinner man of whatever ethnic background who has a bit of sweetness about him. I certainly like men with masculinity, but I also associate sweetness with a bit of the feminine.

    What I want in a partner is a man who is able to reflect on his own behavior (responsible, ethical, etc), who is bright, articulate and passionate about living. Ideally, I would like a man who has a substantial intellect, a warm heart, and who shows me great affection.

    None of the above takes into account the reality that I am actually 55 years old and no matter how much I work out, I still have less power to attract the men I desire. So the next step is to reconcile fantasy with reality. I'd like to date a decent guy who takes pretty good care of himself whether he is hairy or smooth, younger or older. Someone who has at least some interests that I have (physical activity, understanding the world, understanding ourselves) and shows up when he says he will.
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    Sep 22, 2012 11:22 PM GMT
    rdberg1957 saidThere is a distinction between what I desire in a sexual partner and what I desire in a life partner. If I were to be concerned only about who attracts me sexually, I would find a smooth, younger, thinner man of whatever ethnic background who has a bit of sweetness about him. I certainly like men with masculinity, but I also associate sweetness with a bit of the feminine.

    What I want in a partner is a man who is able to reflect on his own behavior (responsible, ethical, etc), who is bright, articulate and passionate about living. Ideally, I would like a man who has a substantial intellect, a warm heart, and who shows me great affection.

    None of the above takes into account the reality that I am actually 55 years old and no matter how much I work out, I still have less power to attract the men I desire. So the next step is to reconcile fantasy with reality. I'd like to date a decent guy who takes pretty good care of himself whether he is hairy or smooth, younger or older. Someone who has at least some interests that I have (physical activity, understanding the world, understanding ourselves) and shows up when he says he will.


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  • RaggedyMan

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    Sep 22, 2012 11:23 PM GMT
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    sanjose408 saidThe bad boy. Ill settle for the entrepreneur icon_smile.gif awesome if he was both


    What's a bad boy? :3 Explain yourself mister! ;B


    going against the grain. somebody with confidence who can back it up anyway they know how. not afraid to speak his mind. a uniform would be nice icon_smile.gif oh and tattoos, a man with tattoos is sexy. not too many to hide those arms though. mmmmm
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    Sep 22, 2012 11:30 PM GMT
    My don't date list is shorter than my date list. I don't find myself attracted to overweight to obese sized guys, negative shit storms, the sky is falling drama queens, hard drug addicts, or guys who play so hard to get that they'll let you close enough to appreciate what you have to give them. That's all I can think about right now...icon_neutral.gificon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 22, 2012 11:38 PM GMT
    I am pretty open. Most of my relationships for whatever reason have been with latin men who were intellectual, hipster, artsy, sophisticated, charming. Physically I like guys with darker features and my height or taller.
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    Sep 22, 2012 11:42 PM GMT
    A hairy, defined, passionate Mediterranean or Latin man in his mid to late 20s with a bubble butt and a job that pays equivalent to or more than mine is aiming for perfect.
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    Sep 22, 2012 11:45 PM GMT
    I'm attracted to a variety of body types and such... granted I would want to be physically attracted to the person, but for me - it's more about the other types of connection...

    Kindness
    Humor
    Intelligence
    Charm
    Confidence without cockiness


    I am not looking for someone to complete me, but I am looking for someone to compliment me (no, not tell me how pretty I am or validate me) - by that I mean someone who can balance me out. If I am angry and dramatic - then he's calm and sane and when he's flaming out - I am the stabilizer. I think that can exist in a good relationship. A balanced give and take. - I may not be explaining it well.

    But that may be more of a life mate than a date.
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    Sep 22, 2012 11:46 PM GMT
    I would like a guy who is well educated! I want to be able to talk about philosophical things, economics, politics, etc, but also be able to talk about last nights episode of the X-factor. Someone with strong convictions and beliefs. Logical and able to discuss things without getting mad. Not afraid to get dirty: camping, working on our cars, doing yard work for my mom, and doing habitat for humanity. Well traveled or has a desire to travel. Not afraid to try new things! I don't mind if he doesn't want to eat escargot as long as he has tried it first, lol. And, of course, takes care of his body, mind, and spirit.
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    Sep 22, 2012 11:52 PM GMT
    A guy who...
    ....takes pride in himself and his surroundings..If he doesn't treat himself well, how is he going to treat ME?

    ...is educated. I don't mean a PhD, but someone who can discuss much much more than Britney Spears latest CD. Enjoys philosophical discussions on politics, the arts, etc.

    ..has a wicked sense of humor and is not always politically correct. I suppose he must be around my age as I see life through the eyes of someone who came of age in the 70s and can relate to that culture. If you don't care for classic non-radio disco, it ain't gonna work lol

    ..is over the party scene and has never been to a white circuit party. And if you're my age and STILL go to things like that....pass.

    ..is a non-smoker, non-druggie.

    ..can enjoy a Saturday night of dinner and a movie either out or at home, but a night at the bars every so often is fun.

    .. is good looking and in shape helps.

    ..is the kind of guy you can be proud of to take home to meet the family.

    ..won't make me be an outdoors king of guy. The outdoors is what you pass through to get to the cab, much like Orange County is what you pass through to get to San Diego.
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    Sep 23, 2012 12:21 AM GMT
    synestheticxserenade saidAnybody into 'straight acting'
    Affliction
    Tapout
    Partying
    Grindr
    Chest pics EVERYWHERE

    ..Can go to hell. Since that basically leaves reasonable, well rounded men, I'll say anyone who is well.. Reasonable and well rounded. Affectionate, faithful; call me an old fashioned boy I guess.


    You tell 'em sweets! ;D I'm an old-fashioned boy myself-- with a twist. icon_twisted.gif
  • Relyks132

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    Sep 23, 2012 12:45 AM GMT
    Id want a guy with an attractive face, active body and no douchy attitude...

    I know thats asking for the impossible
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    Sep 23, 2012 12:58 AM GMT
    Relyks132 saidId want a guy with an attractive face, active body and no douchy attitude...

    I know thats asking for the impossible


    What kind of faces do you find attractive? :3 What is a douchy personality? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 23, 2012 1:02 AM GMT
    ParadiseLost said
    Relyks132 saidId want a guy with an attractive face, active body and no douchy attitude...

    I know thats asking for the impossible


    What kind of faces do you find attractive? :3 What is a douchy personality? icon_biggrin.gif


    show me a bunch of faces then ill point out which i find attractive...

    as for the douchy attitude... when they're on their good behaviour, that is they're worst behaviour... note that i did not say BEST behaviour, just good

    I completely forgot to mention that they should be somewhat smart, not like bac of science smart but common sense smart
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    Sep 23, 2012 1:20 AM GMT
    i want an outgoing, sexy, sweet guy thats taller than me, crazy funny, and who isnt so dramatic.
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    Sep 23, 2012 1:43 AM GMT
    huhwhat saidI am pretty open. Most of my relationships for whatever reason have been with latin men who were intellectual, hipster, artsy, sophisticated, charming. Physically I like guys with darker features and my height or taller.


    You described me!!! Minus the height part...

    (stop laughing cranky/jp and yourname)
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    Sep 23, 2012 1:46 AM GMT
    ConQuest saidI'm attracted to a variety of body types and such... granted I would want to be physically attracted to the person, but for me - it's more about the other types of connection...

    Kindness
    Humor
    Intelligence
    Charm
    Confidence without cockiness


    I am not looking for someone to complete me, but I am looking for someone to compliment me (no, not tell me how pretty I am or validate me) - by that I mean someone who can balance me out. If I am angry and dramatic - then he's calm and sane and when he's flaming out - I am the stabilizer. I think that can exist in a good relationship. A balanced give and take. - I may not be explaining it well.

    But that may be more of a life mate than a date.


    I understood you just fine and I agree. IMHO, for a relationship to work you need balance. Like I have said before, it's like PB &J. They are different but fit so well together, and there tasty!!!

    I'm looking for my other half too. I need a responsible, stern, somewhat serious man to balance out those quailities that I sometimes lack.