What is too Slutty?

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    Aug 18, 2007 6:50 PM GMT
    Hey guys,

    Recently someone told me I had slutty behavior because I like to go out and take wild "boys gone wild" pictures. I just like them as good coversation pieces. Anyway one of my friends said it was slutty.

    So I was wondering what do you guys consider slutty?

    Can guys even be slutty? Is it a negative trait?

    What behavior do you consider slutty?

  • GQjock

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    Aug 19, 2007 12:41 PM GMT
    When you wake up with someone else's underwear on
    ...that's slutty
    When you wake up with NO underwear on .. when you know you had them on the night before
    ...that's slutty
    When people call you at work and say what a good time they had with you all weekend long and you have no idea who they are?
    ...that's slutty
    and when the trailer trash cigarette smoking neighbor of your's with six kids running around naked outside starts giving you lovelife advice?
    ...that's slutty
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    Aug 19, 2007 6:51 PM GMT
    mmm that is real slutty,

    Going out and having sex in your car, then going back in the club looking for more that's real slutty.

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    Aug 22, 2007 7:31 AM GMT
    sorry, I still don't understand what is slutty?
    because English is not my native language!
    Could you explain it in detail?
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    Aug 22, 2007 7:35 PM GMT
    I tend to think slutty can mean a number of things:

    - Promiscuous behaviour

    - Lack of personal hygiene, ie, wearing the same clothes on more than one day running.

    - Not taking care of your appearance

    - Slovenly.

    - Having sex in a nightclub's toilets.


    But mostly I think it means you have trouble keeping your dick in your pants.

    *** Some of my best friends are sluts when it comes to sex.

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    Aug 22, 2007 8:24 PM GMT
    Pretending not to know what slutty means in order to get some dirty talk from strangers? That's slutty.
  • Laurence

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    Aug 23, 2007 7:24 AM GMT
    Redhead said about being too slutty..

    'But mostly I think it means you have trouble keeping your dick in your pants.

    *** Some of my best friends are sluts when it comes to sex'

    Haha. Bit like the kettle calling the pot black I think there Red.

    I think sluttiness is mainly subjective. One man's slutty is another's way of life.

    Enjoy being slutty guys - everyone else is just jealous.

    Lozx
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    Aug 23, 2007 8:45 AM GMT
    What precisely is a "boys gone wild" photo anyway?
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    Aug 24, 2007 3:44 AM GMT
    Boys gone wild photos are pics of guys in compromising positions, ex: with there cocks out.
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    Aug 24, 2007 6:11 AM GMT
    Gay men everywhere are doing themselves a disservice by using this word. It goes hand in hand with effeminate and womanly behavior that I find so confusing about some gay guys. Real men do not measure their self worth against a Virgin Mary/Never Been Kissed/Barbie doll fantasy. What exactly is the insult here? That you that you don't have sexual purity like the freshly driven snow? This is really not a manly pursuit, and if you get hung up worrying about being a slut, you'll dilute your manly energy. To call a man with a cock and balls a slut is so blatantly wrong on so many levels, it is astounding, so if I were you, I'd let this one roll off my back and quit trying to be like Doris Day.
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    Aug 24, 2007 9:25 AM GMT
    Oh, poo. Another gender dysmorphia forum cunningly disguised as a forum about sluttery.
  • Laurence

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    Aug 24, 2007 10:15 AM GMT
    Yes, I agree with Colm. Let's get the subject back to slutty.

    What's the sluttiest thing you've ever done?

    I'll start (gosh there's loads..)

    Met a guy in an afternoon club, went back to his for sex (he lived nearby) went back to club, the ice had hardly melted in my drink. Had a nice dance, met another man, went home with him (finished drink this time).

    Felt good at the time.

    Lozxx
  • zakariahzol

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    Aug 24, 2007 12:48 PM GMT
    I am slutty. Last weekend I have sex with 5 guys between Saturday and Sunday. I am not ashamed of it. They want it , I want it. Dont worry , safe sex all the way.
  • iHavok

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    Aug 24, 2007 1:46 PM GMT
    Personally, and this might just be me trying to justify my lifestyle, but I believe "slutty" and "promiscuous" are totally different things.

    Lying to get sex is slutty.

    sleeping around is just promiscuous.
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    Aug 24, 2007 1:48 PM GMT
    slutty... mmm, let me think (***) getting out of bed at some stragers home while another guy from the previous weekend calls me to have brekky to thank me for the weekend before, then me making the excuse to leave saying "ah, a friend wants to catch up, so I better leave now". well, that was one of my finer moments anyway!
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    Aug 24, 2007 3:45 PM GMT
    "Too slutty" is someone getting laid more than you are.
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    Aug 24, 2007 5:47 PM GMT
    I'm curious to know how you use these photos as conversation pieces? For me, a conversation piece is something you put on your coffee table or desk...

    Do you wander up to guys in bars and say "Oi, look at this mate" ?

    I think my most sluttiest activities have involved corrupting twinky monogamous vanilla boys... something intrinsically nasty about deflowering ;-)
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    Aug 27, 2007 3:09 AM GMT
    Well sort of, lol When it's 1:30 at night guys are willing to do anything.Usually I'll introduce myself and compliment the guy. Then ask to see it.
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    Aug 28, 2007 4:43 PM GMT
    SLUTTY is not enjoying the sex you are having with the person your with and then promptly finding someone else that day to really bang you into submission!
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    Oct 04, 2007 7:46 PM GMT
    Damn, I am a bloody prude.

    I think something is wrong with me, I can't get with another guy until I get to know them a little bit. I guess I am more relationship minded.

    Having said that, worst thing I did was cheat on my BF who I was already in process of breaking up, with my previous love, who was leaving and last time I would get to see him.

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    Oct 04, 2007 8:00 PM GMT
    Slutty for some people is having any casual sex! For me if you are having sex with a different person every weekend all year, then you would probably fall into my slutty category. I don't really care about whether people are being slutty or not, I met one guy who had had sex with at least 1,000 people, he was a great guy! For me personally though I have always been relationship oriented, having casual sex 3 or 4 times a year was a big number when I was single.

    By the way that behaviour you described would not be considered "slutty" in my books.
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    May 03, 2008 6:55 AM GMT
    Great stories guys! I agree with brianhawk alot being slutty is about lying. I also think slutty is having more sex even if you even don't want it.
  • joeindallas

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    May 03, 2008 7:07 AM GMT
    This is off topic but here goes. A member of Real Jock and myself have a disagrement if some pics of him were published without his consent. I saw the Magaize Think it was called Jocks. It was published in 2002 or 2003. Theme was him being a Cowboy. He admits to taking the pictures at a freinds place in McKiney Tx, but never allowed the pics to be published. If anyone can tell me the Publication and date I would appreciate it. The members name is BigSETXjock and his real name is Jim Walker Thnaks if you can help out. E mail him if you also saw the pictures. He has one posted on his profile
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    May 03, 2008 8:47 AM GMT
    I define "too slutty" as waking up in a strange house - crawling around gathering up my clothes and trying to find the front door so I can get the hell out of there before the sun comes up / or the guy wakes up - and I have no clue what his name is!

    (A long, long time ago I did shit like this - and so did many of YOU!)
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    May 03, 2008 9:25 AM GMT
    Too slutty is going to an underwear beach party with a group and finding out the twink who came with you has given the host a "Thankyou" blow job less than 10 minutes later.

    Shortly after landing a great accounting job with Coca Cola and moving to Atlanta he caught a bad case of alcoholism and had to move back in with the parents.