What would you say my sexuality is?

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    Sep 24, 2012 12:58 PM GMT
    Ok im a straight(atleast i believe so) 19 year old, and ill try to make this short(might be lengthy) but i was searching forums on google and what not and was searching if a straight guy had sex with a gay guy blah blah blah is he gay and stuff. So i created an account here and wanted you guys opinions since you've been through things and can probably clarify this dilemma in my head since i still feel straight.

    Younger Experience

    Not sure if this has any relevance but my first gay experience was when i was in the 4th or 5th grade. I had a friends house i used to always go to and we used to play games and do boy shit. Somehow through those times he initiated this gay thing and we started messing around but that didnt last long. I remember trying to go down on him but it was so nasty i couldn't do it but he went down on me and it was fairly easy for him. Thats a memory im ashamed to have because i feel it's out of my character or what not. As far as him we're still good friends and not sure if he's gay but he has a baby on the way

    Sexual Experiences

    So ive only had sex 5 times in my life, 6 including the one gay one.

    First time i had sex i was 18 and was like is this it? Is this what dude's were going crazy over? I felt weird after but mainly disappointed because i felt pussy was too hyped up. Although my friend said that was because she was a hoe (we gangbanged her with 3 other dudes in an abandoned house.....peer pressure got to me) I honestly wanted to do it with someone i liked.

    Second time was 19, i met this girl off FB, 3 days later i smashed the first time i saw her, im pretty sure i was bad lol but it was good to me. After that though i felt weird and became how you say "Not Thirsty" I said fuck pussy and didn't chase it because sex seemed really overrated

    Third,Fourth, and Fifth was with this girl i met at a party and she was the best i ever had, especially the last time because she made me cum like 4 times. Probably because for some reason after the first time i came with her my dick stayed rock hard, and stayed hard after 3 more times, we only stopped cause she said she was tired.

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    Gay Experiences/Curiosity

    Ok so this mainly arose when i found out about casual encounters on craigslist. Initially i put ads up to meet women (gay never crossed my mind) but sadly almost all the women were scams and even though i posted for women dudes kept hitting me up saying they would give me head and stuff. The scam women were pissing me off and i was in amazement at the amount of gay guys there were so i was like fuck it let me try this shit and see if i like it

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    I knew i was never going to bottom because man does that shit scare me,freak me out, and is waaaaay out of my character.

    Well.....i posted for a man on man and a dude came over, it was awkward to me i was like wow in my head, he has dreads, tall and hes a bottom. Like i said this whole gay world was new to me. So we got naked he went doggy style position and i tried to put it in, squeezing it trying to make it fit, but it stayed limp....and i was trying mainly cause i wanted to bust a nut. But my body was not adhering to my demands. The only time i got it up was when i thought about a girl and im pretty sure that's because nothing about a male attracts me. Anyway he said take off the condom and somehow that worked. Anyway after i finished my business i felt icky and he left. I felt like i did something that i shouldn't have.

    Second and last time still curious i posted i never had someone suck me till i came, so i was trying out this gay head or whatever. He came picked me up and sucked me till i came in a hotel parking lot. I felt icky after too and just weird.....When i got home and walked in the house i said to myself "This life aint for me, I'm not about this life"

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    My Question to you/Dilemma

    Straight: I feel straight since girls attract me heavily, and i can get hard from the thought

    Gay: Don't feel gay because nothing about a dude attracts me at all, thats just not me

    Bisexual: I like the women , but when it comes to the dude part i dont think i am because like i said dudes don't attract me, it's just not in my genes.

    I doubt i will mess with dudes like that again. The only time i can see myself doing something with another dude again, is if im high super horny and/or seriously fucked up and looking to bust a quick nut and a woman isn't near. But even still when i think about that it turns me off because it's so much other alternatives to busting a nut. And i just get weird-ed out when thinking about fondling or kissing another dude. So from this experience i think ill stick with my right hand and women.

    Dilemma is that i feel straight but since i did have "said" gay experience people would argue that i can't be straight.

    So what do you think of this whole situation?
    Was i just testing new waters out?
    Curious?

    I've always said this for as long as i can remember that i would try anything once, never thought about doing gay shit when i was always saying that but it somehow happened.
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    Sep 24, 2012 1:44 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidJesus. icon_eek.gif

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    I don't give a shit whether you're gay, straight, bi, or quadsexual. But I will say that we don't usually get a lot of straight guys coming 'round making profiles to ponder with us 'mos what his sexuality might be.

    Just sayin'. Make of it what you will. icon_neutral.gif


    Lol at the gif
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    Sep 24, 2012 1:47 PM GMT
    lol damn alright
  • mcwclewis

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    Sep 24, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
    Driving a truck once doesn't make you a truck driver.

    Your experiences alone don't make you gay or bi, but I'm assuming because you're still question that there is something a bit more complicated than gay/straight/bi



    My advice? Fuck labels. They're useless. Go with the flow, do what feels right, and enjoy your life.
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    Sep 24, 2012 5:39 PM GMT
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    Sep 24, 2012 6:45 PM GMT
    Regardless of where you think it leads, you can put all the societal crap aside.

    As fluid as sexuality might be naturally and can intellectually be regardless of what comes naturally, here's the complex rocket science to diagramming core sexual orientation:

    You are what you fantasize as you masterbate yourself to orgasm.

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    Houston, we have lift off.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 24, 2012 7:10 PM GMT
    tldr
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  • robevans912

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    Sep 24, 2012 8:59 PM GMT
    I didn't have to read everything, because your use of those gifs already told me "gay." Next.
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    Sep 24, 2012 9:39 PM GMT
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  • Just_Tim

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    Sep 24, 2012 9:56 PM GMT
    You said "icky" way too many times in that post to be straight. icon_neutral.gif

    But hey! You had unprotected sex with some dude off Craigslist, so we can confirm that you're an idiot. icon_smile.gif

    I question the legitimacy of this thread
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    Sep 24, 2012 9:58 PM GMT


    "What would you say my sexuality is?"

    At this point? Experimental, with a large scoop of confused. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 24, 2012 10:07 PM GMT
    lolololololololololol


    yourname2000 said

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    Sep 24, 2012 10:19 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidJesus. icon_eek.gif

    EXrjI.gif

    I don't give a shit whether you're gay, straight, bi, or quadsexual. But I will say that we don't usually get a lot of straight guys coming 'round making profiles to ponder with us 'mos what his sexuality might be.

    Just sayin'. Make of it what you will. icon_neutral.gif


    LMAO my dislike for bush went for -13% to about 20% with that gif
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    Sep 24, 2012 10:20 PM GMT
    You're confused sexually. But if you think, you're attracted to women and actually not into "gay shit" then delete your profile and go back to the wonderful hetero world! icon_wink.gif

    Just easy!
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    Sep 24, 2012 10:23 PM GMT
    First off .. this shit was too long. And why create a profile to answer a question on a forum when you could have probably googled this question.

    (Someone said this above) Do what feels right. Screw the labels because people are too politically correct these days and just be who you are and do what you like.

    I only made it through the first two sentences of your "post."
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 24, 2012 10:23 PM GMT
    By the very lengh of the question, I'd have to say probably a woman.icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 24, 2012 10:34 PM GMT
    hodgybeaps saidOk im a straight(atleast i believe so) 19 year old, and ill try to make this short(might be lengthy) but i was searching forums on google and what not and was searching if a straight guy had sex with a gay guy blah blah blah is he gay and stuff. So i created an account here and wanted you guys opinions since you've been through things and can probably clarify this dilemma in my head since i still feel straight.

    Younger Experience

    Not sure if this has any relevance but my first gay experience was when i was in the 4th or 5th grade. I had a friends house i used to always go to and we used to play games and do boy shit. Somehow through those times he initiated this gay thing and we started messing around but that didnt last long. I remember trying to go down on him but it was so nasty i couldn't do it but he went down on me and it was fairly easy for him. Thats a memory im ashamed to have because i feel it's out of my character or what not. As far as him we're still good friends and not sure if he's gay but he has a baby on the way

    Sexual Experiences

    So ive only had sex 5 times in my life, 6 including the one gay one.

    First time i had sex i was 18 and was like is this it? Is this what dude's were going crazy over? I felt weird after but mainly disappointed because i felt pussy was too hyped up. Although my friend said that was because she was a hoe (we gangbanged her with 3 other dudes in an abandoned house.....peer pressure got to me) I honestly wanted to do it with someone i liked.

    Second time was 19, i met this girl off FB, 3 days later i smashed the first time i saw her, im pretty sure i was bad lol but it was good to me. After that though i felt weird and became how you say "Not Thirsty" I said fuck pussy and didn't chase it because sex seemed really overrated

    Third,Fourth, and Fifth was with this girl i met at a party and she was the best i ever had, especially the last time because she made me cum like 4 times. Probably because for some reason after the first time i came with her my dick stayed rock hard, and stayed hard after 3 more times, we only stopped cause she said she was tired.

    tumblr_mau0gq9FVY1rvc1g2.gif

    Gay Experiences/Curiosity

    Ok so this mainly arose when i found out about casual encounters on craigslist. Initially i put ads up to meet women (gay never crossed my mind) but sadly almost all the women were scams and even though i posted for women dudes kept hitting me up saying they would give me head and stuff. The scam women were pissing me off and i was in amazement at the amount of gay guys there were so i was like fuck it let me try this shit and see if i like it

    tumblr_mau0cwqQkX1rvc1g2.gif

    I knew i was never going to bottom because man does that shit scare me,freak me out, and is waaaaay out of my character.

    Well.....i posted for a man on man and a dude came over, it was awkward to me i was like wow in my head, he has dreads, tall and hes a bottom. Like i said this whole gay world was new to me. So we got naked he went doggy style position and i tried to put it in, squeezing it trying to make it fit, but it stayed limp....and i was trying mainly cause i wanted to bust a nut. But my body was not adhering to my demands. The only time i got it up was when i thought about a girl and im pretty sure that's because nothing about a male attracts me. Anyway he said take off the condom and somehow that worked. Anyway after i finished my business i felt icky and he left. I felt like i did something that i shouldn't have.

    Second and last time still curious i posted i never had someone suck me till i came, so i was trying out this gay head or whatever. He came picked me up and sucked me till i came in a hotel parking lot. I felt icky after too and just weird.....When i got home and walked in the house i said to myself "This life aint for me, I'm not about this life"

    tumblr_mau0eoAje21rvc1g2.gif

    My Question to you/Dilemma

    Straight: I feel straight since girls attract me heavily, and i can get hard from the thought

    Gay: Don't feel gay because nothing about a dude attracts me at all, thats just not me

    Bisexual: I like the women , but when it comes to the dude part i dont think i am because like i said dudes don't attract me, it's just not in my genes.

    I doubt i will mess with dudes like that again. The only time i can see myself doing something with another dude again, is if im high super horny and/or seriously fucked up and looking to bust a quick nut and a woman isn't near. But even still when i think about that it turns me off because it's so much other alternatives to busting a nut. And i just get weird-ed out when thinking about fondling or kissing another dude. So from this experience i think ill stick with my right hand and women.

    Dilemma is that i feel straight but since i did have "said" gay experience people would argue that i can't be straight.

    So what do you think of this whole situation?
    Was i just testing new waters out?
    Curious?

    I've always said this for as long as i can remember that i would try anything once, never thought about doing gay shit when i was always saying that but it somehow happened.



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  • hanzo83

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    Sep 24, 2012 11:24 PM GMT
    You sound like a straight curious guy who satisfied his curiosity lol. I don't know how the guys looked that you messed around with but if you try it with a man again make sure you have some attraction to him if you can. Even a straight man knows a good looking guy when he sees one. I think having an attraction is very important and maybe some small connection too.