Am I a sex addict?

  • jayatl56

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    Sep 26, 2012 2:04 PM GMT
    I can't get enough it seems. I can have sex everyday. Am I the only guy like this?

    At 56 years old I feel like my sex drive is stronger than when I was younger. I need a good fuck'n almost every day. What's wrong with me? I'm serious. I think it's an obsession or addiction or something going on.
  • PR_GMR

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    Sep 26, 2012 4:17 PM GMT
    Every single day? At age 56? You've a great libido. I wouldn't say sex addict. Now.. if you craved it several times a day every day..
  • jayatl56

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    Sep 26, 2012 8:26 PM GMT
    And what's funny are the number of young guys who contact me for sex. I could have a different partner every day!

    My next question is now.... do guys have multiple partners like this and feel ok with themselves?
  • Hothouse

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    Sep 26, 2012 8:28 PM GMT
    jayatl56 saidAnd what's funny are the number of young guys who contact me for sex. I could have a different partner every day!

    My next question is now.... do guys have multiple partners like this and feel ok with themselves?


    What difference does it make how others feel - how do YOU feel about it?
    If you're enjoying yourself and it doesn't bother you - why make an issue out it? I say - enjoy it while you can.
  • Koaa2

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    Sep 26, 2012 9:36 PM GMT
    I would say enjoy, and get all you can get!
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    Sep 26, 2012 9:40 PM GMT
    You didnt make it clear....

    Do you FEEL like you can have sex every day?

    or

    Do you ACTUALLY have sex everyday?


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    Sep 26, 2012 9:42 PM GMT
    Any time you don't need 30 minutes to be spontaneous....go for it. Enjoy, be well, be safe!
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    Sep 26, 2012 9:49 PM GMT
    Yes, you are a sex addict.
    So what.
    Better sex addict than smoking crack, or listening to Rush Limbaugh or something else really unhealthy. Plus at 56, you're damn lucky to be alive. That said, I'd recommend going to some sex addiction meetings, if for no other reason, there must be some serious sex hooking up going on there.
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    Sep 26, 2012 10:37 PM GMT
    Yes, you're a sex addict. You should go to meetings and hookup with other sex addicts.
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    Sep 26, 2012 10:44 PM GMT
    An addict is an addict.

    Addicts are often poly-addicted to people, sex, money, drugs, alcohol, shiny things... the list of items is endless.

    Sex addiction just like taking drugs or alcohol is trying to find that spot where we feel good but we can't push it past there -control, control, control. It makes us feel good when someone is responding to our cues- when someone is anticipating or making us anticipate that inevitable orgasm. It lets us for once feel okay about ourselves, life, or our problems. The more we seek it, the more okay we feel.

    Then comes the actually act of it, it becomes routine and mundane. As soon as the orgasm actually hits, it becomes another one of those 'Is that all' moments. Then onto the next...

    The question is: Does it interfere with your day-to-day life or most importantly your human relationships?
  • jayatl56

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    Sep 27, 2012 1:57 AM GMT
    ^^^ in a word, no ^^^ It does not interfere with my daily life although working from home from time to time is tough when I'm horny.

    I have no other addictions either and it didn't interfere with my previous relationship. It lasted 4,5 years without me straying.

    And now that I'm thinking about it, it might be the chase and not the actual act that is the addiction. I can chat with guys but actually hooking up only happens from time to time. I usually wank and it's over.