FriendlyguyinAZ saidHey Guys, I have been thinking about getting a P.A. for some time.. Done research, talked to friends who have them etc. I have two reasons for wanting one, first i think they are hot. Second I am hopeing to get more sensitivity from it. Seems as I get older the less pleasure I am feeling. Think it's from being circumsized and after 45 years my penis is numb from rubbing on my clothing. I have one friend who was in the same boat, after his P.A. he said sex became amazing again. Can anyone tell me there experiance on this subject. Also I have a fear I'll meet Mr.Right someday and he will despise P.A.'s Hate to sound shallow and am doing it for myself but I hear many guys do not like them do to some sort of stereotype. So any advice
Research, research, RESEARCH!
I have been wanting a P.A. for years, & finally got off my arse & researched it for over a year (not to mention working up the courage to get it done over that period of time) before finally getting it done two days ago.
The piercest was very friendly, professional & quite happy to show me previous samples of his work (I even spoke to one of his other regular clients in the waiting/reception area & he was quite pleased with his work thus far & had had no problems with any of his piercings) - a must in my book - & was quite willing to answer any & all questions I asked him about getting it done.
In terms of getting it done, he numbed the area around the head of my penis & in the urethra (the opening where you pee out of) for 25 minutes before sterilizing all the equipment, cleaning the area to be pierced (& his hands!) & making sure he was fully prepared with gloves, etc & that I was ready to be pierced.
He then removed the cotton swab & checked to ensure the area was number before marking where it would go before inserting the guiding tube for the needle & piercing me before removing the guiding tube & putting the jewelry in (mine's a surgical stainless steel ring with a barbell in it).
Personally, I didn't look @ him doing it (piercing my penis) until it was done & the jewelry was inserted (I told him to just do & not tell me when he was so as to avoid tensing up or getting too nervous about getting it done). In terms of pain, it's a sharp stinging pain (I tensed slightly in my arms (I was holding onto the bed to ensure I didn't move when he pierced me) & legs when he did & breathed in really hard & hissed/held my breathe for a few moments afterward) that lasts for about a minute or two, & hen gradually goes away (the numbing agent helps).
The whole process took 30 mins (25mins prep time, 30 sec to do the actual piercing & then 4.5 mins of explaining how to care for it, etc).
After care is highly important (urine is sterile so it self cleans in addition to the saline/salt water mixture you clean it with in addition to your own urine cleaning the piercing itself whenever you go to the loo); it takes about 14 days to heal (depending on the person): no masturbation (Wanking) for 7 days, no sex for a further 7 days (14 days total) & you must use a condom for sex for the 1st month after that. Some bleeding does occur in the first 24 - 48 hours, but after that it's generally fine.
In terms of fucking with it in, I haven't tried it yet (my B/F is overseas ATM), but I am sure it will be good (will tell you once I test drive it out ;) *hehe*). :-D
As for people not accepting you (or any tattoo's or piercings you may or may not have), if they won't accept it then they aren't right for you & don't really love you for whom you are. True love/Mr. Right is about putting up with peoples difference, overlooking (or learning to cope) with the things you cannot change - & not stressing out/obsessing over them all the time! - & loving someone for exactly whom & what they are, warts, tattoo's, piercings, funny little perks & all.