Novice Bottom Mistake - Normal/Forgivable?

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    Sep 26, 2012 9:30 PM GMT
    I'm bi. I've never had a relationship with a guy, and until recently, had never done anal. I met a really hot guy at my gym a few months ago, and we hooked up twice over the summer. He got really into fingering me, and wanted to F me. I had never done that, so wouldn't let him, though he tried to convince me that I'd be able to take it.

    About a week ago, we met up again, and this time, he did penetrate me a little. He was very patient and gentle, and even though it wasn't full on pounding, we both had a good time.

    A few days later, we met up again. This time, we did get into some real f*cking. I shot while he was still f*cking me, then he shot all over me.

    He went to grab me some towels, and I got off the bed, and saw there was a little, ahem, residue, left on the sheet. I went into the shower, and when I came out, he had removed the sheet, and we didn't mention the residue.

    Now, I always eat very healthy and am almost always clean. Is this something that is normal that can happen? should I have said something about it, like apologized? Is it a reason for him to not want to mess around again?

    Any thoughts/advice are greatly appreciated.
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    Sep 26, 2012 9:32 PM GMT
    It happens when you go up the chocolate canal dude. I mean, if you don't like shit don't play with the poop shoot. Don't worry about it as long as you didn't full on crap on him while bottoming.
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    Sep 26, 2012 9:33 PM GMT
    Chainers saidIt happens when you go up the chocolate canal dude. I mean, if you don't like shit don't play with the poop shoot. Don't worry about it as long as you didn't full on crap on him while bottoming.


    Lol, Chainers, you're so colorful.icon_biggrin.gif

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    Sep 26, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    That's like saying I don't like saliva and getting a bj.. Totally normal and has happened to everyone.
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    Sep 26, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    showme said
    Chainers saidIt happens when you go up the chocolate canal dude. I mean, if you don't like shit don't play with the poop shoot. Don't worry about it as long as you didn't full on crap on him while bottoming.


    Lol, Chainers, you're so colorful.icon_biggrin.gif



    What can I say I try my best icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 26, 2012 9:37 PM GMT
    http://i50.tinypic.com/2j2i1xy.jpg
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    Sep 26, 2012 9:37 PM GMT
    just put a (not white) towel under you in the future if it makes you nervous. But not at all unheard of. Just looking into douching. You get better with time.
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    Sep 26, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    I'm going to assume condoms were present and in use.
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    Chainers saidIt happens when you go up the chocolate canal dude. I mean, if you don't like shit don't play with the poop shoot. Don't worry about it as long as you didn't full on crap on him while bottoming.


    Ha, definitely did not full on crap!
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    Sep 26, 2012 10:37 PM GMT
    poop
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    Sep 26, 2012 10:38 PM GMT
    meninlove said I'm going to assume condoms were present and in use.


    Yes and yes.
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    Sep 26, 2012 10:40 PM GMT
    NYCJockDude saidI'm bi. I've never had a relationship with a guy, and until recently, had never done anal. I met a really hot guy at my gym a few months ago, and we hooked up twice over the summer. He got really into fingering me, and wanted to F me. I had never done that, so wouldn't let him, though he tried to convince me that I'd be able to take it.

    About a week ago, we met up again, and this time, he did penetrate me a little. He was very patient and gentle, and even though it wasn't full on pounding, we both had a good time.

    A few days later, we met up again. This time, we did get into some real f*cking. I shot while he was still f*cking me, then he shot all over me.

    He went to grab me some towels, and I got off the bed, and saw there was a little, ahem, residue, left on the sheet. I went into the shower, and when I came out, he had removed the sheet, and we didn't mention the residue.

    Now, I always eat very healthy and am almost always clean. Is this something that is normal that can happen? should I have said something about it, like apologized? Is it a reason for him to not want to mess around again?

    Any thoughts/advice are greatly appreciated.

    For those of you who have trouble translating this post, the big 'F' = Fuck and the '*' = 'u'.
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    Sep 26, 2012 11:05 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidKeep a stash of dark colored hand towels nearby to protect the bed sheets.

    So, he took off the bed sheets. No biggie. This is what I would expect. Honestly, did you expect him to not do anything about the slightly soiled linens? icon_smile.gif


    No, but we haven't really communicated since then.
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    Sep 26, 2012 11:18 PM GMT
    Dude you can't just hop on a dick and not clean your hole..
    Not cool..!!

    ..Go to forum search and type in Douche..
    On the other hand your partner who knew you weren't an experienced bottom could have had a pep talk with you!

    ..He didn't call?.. well that's just down right shitty..!!
    Why is he being such a douche..??


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    Sep 26, 2012 11:22 PM GMT
    This is just a common beginner mistake as far as I know. Its just residue that gets left in there, nothing too serious.
    If your know your gonna be doing some anal play in the future I would recommend doing an anal douche to prepare for it, that way it is less likely to occur again.
    I know there was a thread on this before but I don't know the link.
    Heres a link to a vid that shows how to:
    http://www.manhub.com/watch/26276/how-to-properly-use-an-anal-douche/
  • jayatl56

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    Sep 28, 2012 6:35 PM GMT
    ok, you're new to this. It happens and I think HE handled it very well. In the future be sure you're clean before you go for it. There are a few ways to do this but my preferred method is the hand held shower. Works like a charm. Too bad American showers don't have them as standard equipment (like in Europe). I changed my shower head to incorporate a hand held for this particular reason.
  • squally

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    Oct 03, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    Seriously its fine. It's only naturally~
    Don't over think it bc the truth is you both had a good time and that's what counts not the residue.