Sep 27, 2012 12:21 AM GMT
Why does it seem that in most cases the older men that i meet are complete whores and seem to have no interest in being in a relationship and the younger men i meet seem to have all the interest and the ones in the middle seem to be just that in the middle in limbo of being a slut but wanting a relationship do gay men age backwards mentally..
im one to say im attracted to alot of different types of people but older men do have a special place in my eye. but i dont hook up and thats all they want to do.
i meet many of them that claim they want one thing but then are looking for the next best..
I.E i was talking to a guy lets say Darian. we had this great conversation he was handsome and i told him how i've been celibate for almost 3 years because i've been single for that long and he made it seem like he was so into that and told me its been a year for him then asked.. "what would you think if i told you, i was in a 4 some 5 years ago" i was like, " thats the past as long as its not while your 'getting to know' me" his response completely threw me, "if i was getting to know you and i mean it wouldnt be that serious and if the opportunity came up again and excited me i would jump at it"
why cant you feel that way about a relationship and this guy is 48 i jst dont understand im 24 ready to settle down i've been through alot of things that made me grow up before i was ready coming out at 13 losing my grandfather grandmother and father all within 6 years takes a tole on you and teaches you that being alone through the hard times suck and i dont like being alone. as much as it may sound im complaining about being single i have no problem being single.
i just want to know why older men seem to be soo backwards from what straight older men are.
thoughts??
im one to say im attracted to alot of different types of people but older men do have a special place in my eye. but i dont hook up and thats all they want to do.
i meet many of them that claim they want one thing but then are looking for the next best..
I.E i was talking to a guy lets say Darian. we had this great conversation he was handsome and i told him how i've been celibate for almost 3 years because i've been single for that long and he made it seem like he was so into that and told me its been a year for him then asked.. "what would you think if i told you, i was in a 4 some 5 years ago" i was like, " thats the past as long as its not while your 'getting to know' me" his response completely threw me, "if i was getting to know you and i mean it wouldnt be that serious and if the opportunity came up again and excited me i would jump at it"
why cant you feel that way about a relationship and this guy is 48 i jst dont understand im 24 ready to settle down i've been through alot of things that made me grow up before i was ready coming out at 13 losing my grandfather grandmother and father all within 6 years takes a tole on you and teaches you that being alone through the hard times suck and i dont like being alone. as much as it may sound im complaining about being single i have no problem being single.
i just want to know why older men seem to be soo backwards from what straight older men are.
thoughts??
(I don't know that for sure, just saying that's the stereotype)
". Then when I get the slut syndrome (you know how us guys in the middle are, slut sometimes and LTR other times 
) and I find a nice older slut he starts giving me this line of "lets meet for lunch". Great another lying twink who pretends he's in his 40's 
"
