Masculine/Built Guys Ever Into More Feminine Guys?

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    Sep 27, 2012 10:39 PM GMT
    I guess I've always thought that since I'm into masculine guys, I figured everyone who is gay would be into masculine guys. After all, you're gay, why would you want to date a feminine person. But, obviously that's not the case, many guys obviously go for more feminine guys as well.

    However.... it always seems like masculine or fit/muscular guys I meet are into guys similar to them (jocks, frats, etc.) and feminine guys are the only ones into feminine guys. That's unfortunate for me, because I am into masculine men, but they are never really into my type.

    Now, I'm not a total queen, I certainly have some masculine aspects, but I am simply more feminine and less built than a number of guys out there. But are masculine or athletic guys EVER into guys who aren't exactly like them, or who are more feminine than they are??

    I certainly hope so...
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    Sep 27, 2012 10:45 PM GMT
    Nope, you have be barbaric and drive a dually diesel pickup and have big muscles and a roid gut and spit tobaccy if you want to land a masculine man.
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    Sep 27, 2012 10:56 PM GMT
    *Gently shoves Paul* Be nice. :3

    @OP: This topic has been discussed maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaany times and people will, likely, leave silly comments or not take it seriously just because of how repetitive this topic is.

    I do have to wonder though, how would YOU define "feminine" or "masculine"? What are the qualifying characteristics that separate the two from the other? Can you explain yourself Happy? icon_smile.gif

    Also what is a "Total Queen"? icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 27, 2012 11:24 PM GMT
    OP The masc/fem issue has been beaten to death here on RJ
    ..There is no simple explaination for these preferences..I am however seeing "trend-ing" patterns.
    keep hunting..! icon_biggrin.gif

    Oh Look...Paradise is trapped in between myself and Paulflexes.. icon_evil.gif

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    Sep 28, 2012 12:07 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidOP The masc/fem issue has been beaten to death here on RJ
    ..There is no simple explaination for these preferences..I am however seeing "trend-ing" patterns.
    keep hunting..! icon_biggrin.gif

    Oh Look...Paradise is trapped in between myself and Paulflexes.. icon_evil.gif



    Do I hear.. MANWICH anybody? icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
  • Sunny_x9

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    Apr 06, 2015 5:46 AM GMT
    And.....
    Most of these twink , femme guys , who always have hidden profiles
    Why the FUCK anybody would care to look into
    and these dumb jerks ( twinks ) mostly don't even respond to" when someone
    tries to get in touch with them
    and more ....
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    Apr 06, 2015 4:33 PM GMT
    Sunny_x9 saidAnd.....
    Most of these twink , femme guys , who always have hidden profiles
    Why the FUCK anybody would care to look into
    and these dumb jerks ( twinks ) mostly don't even respond to" when someone
    tries to get in touch with them
    and more ....


    hey, not all twinks are evil.
  • CX838

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    Apr 07, 2015 4:57 AM GMT
    Then find a straight masculine . It is easier than find a gay masculine.
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    Apr 08, 2015 1:26 PM GMT
    OP this topic has been discussed numerous amount of times.
    The general consensus on RJ is a no.
    The amount of guys who say "if I wanted to date a girl I would" kind of just goes to show RJ's mentality on femininity/effeminateness.

    For the rest of the gay world, idk I guess everyone is into something so I'd never say never.
    On this website though it's like 0.1% chance lol.

    It's just an "oh well" kind of thing, can't be helped.
    Almost all masculine guys don't like feminine or effeminate guys.

    It's similar to gay guys constantly falling into the trap of crushing on straight guys. It's almost always never reciprocated, and at best it's just a fwb with meaningless sex on the dl.
    I feel it's kind of similar with feminine/effeminate guys falling for masculine guys. Almost always won't work, but the difference is masculine men aren't even physically attracted to effeminate men, so it's really a complete rejection out right, unless of course it's that particular guy's fetish of 'dominance'.

    I suppose you just have to take it in your stride and re-prioritise your options.
    Trying to open the mind of a close minded perspective is like trying to turn an apple into an orange.
    Don't waste your time because it's not going to happen, especially around here lol.