vicious and hateful talk in gay chat rooms-why are gays so bitchy 2 other gays in a chat room.

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    Sep 29, 2012 6:55 AM GMT
    if a straight person hates me-i can,sorta-understand-i am not saying that it is o.k. or that he is right in what he is doing but i understand that it is the jungle law applying at that instant -the power of the majority.but when i c the nasty and truly horrific things that gays say 2 each other -realjock chat room included-i am truly sorry,sad and angry.i feel helpless and hopeless - is this what i am part of.why are gays such bitches 2 other gays.we are pissed off when straight attack us but are silent when other gays do.i just dont understand this.
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    Sep 29, 2012 7:03 AM GMT
    underneath all that gay exterior is still a whole lot of testosterone
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    Sep 29, 2012 2:19 PM GMT
    Insecure gays lash out first because they expect other insecure gays to lash out at all their superficial flaws, which is why so many of them are working out like insane rodents on treadmills and coke.
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    Sep 29, 2012 3:34 PM GMT
    Gays are cruel. Deal with it.

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    Sep 29, 2012 3:36 PM GMT


    OP, when someone is mean to you and others appear to just be letting it happen, consider that they are ignoring the attacker.

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    Sep 29, 2012 3:37 PM GMT
    JOOU saidGays are cruel. Deal with it.

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    Your generalization is too broad and incorrect. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 29, 2012 3:45 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    JOOU saidGays are cruel. Deal with it.

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    Your generalization is too broad and incorrect. icon_wink.gif


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    Meninlove are always the nicest posters. If you follow their example you're sure to feel better about your online discourse.

    Just remember that everyone has bad days, and try to take negative attitudes with a grain of salt.

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    Sep 29, 2012 4:19 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    meninlove said
    JOOU saidGays are cruel. Deal with it.

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    Your generalization is too broad and incorrect. icon_wink.gif


    +1

    Meninlove are always the nicest posters. If you follow their example you're sure to feel better about your online discourse.

    Just remember that everyone has bad days, and try to take negative attitudes with a grain of salt.

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    I have to agree here. Realize that everyone is probably sitting at home, relaxing for the stresses and frustrations of the day and some of them will rant and let out those frustrations on line because they are not actually seeing someone face-to-face. What you see are their emotions spread out as words on a page.
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    Sep 29, 2012 6:44 PM GMT
    That doesn't justify nastiness.
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    Sep 29, 2012 6:57 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    JOOU saidGays are cruel. Deal with it.

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    Your generalization is too broad and incorrect. icon_wink.gif


    I was kidding.....icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 29, 2012 7:22 PM GMT
    I've noticed from my experience that the less female influences that gay men have had in their life, the bitchier and nastier they seem to be. Just from details recounted to me by a wide variety of gay men, those with absent mothers, or alcoholic or drug dependent mothers are really the worst behaved.

    In the child's world, men learn many of their manners, empathy, compassion, and how to treat others from their moms. When a mother figure is absent, or so overshadowed by a male spouse as to be ineffective in parenting the child properly, bad behaviors will result because there is no one to curb it. These children become nasty adults.

    In a recent post, I was verbally attacked for encouraging honesty in a relationship before sex. Interesting that the mere suggestion that two people be honest about their feelings for each other before they have sex would inspire insults, and bitchy behavior, but it did. These guys are the gay equivalent of "bullies" in the straight world. Only they prefer to bully behind the safety of internet posts, because their ideas wouldn't stand the light of day. Add unfulfilled and unused testosterone to that, and you've got guys with a serious problem.
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    Sep 29, 2012 7:35 PM GMT
    gymlocker saidI've noticed from my experience that the less female influences that gay men have had in their life, the bitchier and nastier they seem to be. Just from details recounted to me by a wide variety of gay men, those with absent mothers, or alcoholic or drug dependent mothers are really the worst behaved.

    In the child's world, men learn many of their manners, empathy, compassion, and how to treat others from their moms. When a mother figure is absent, or so overshadowed by a male spouse as to be ineffective in parenting the child properly, bad behaviors will result because there is no one to curb it. These children become nasty adults.

    In a recent post, I was verbally attacked for encouraging honesty in a relationship before sex. Interesting that the mere suggestion that two people be honest about their feelings for each other before they have sex would inspire insults, and bitchy behavior, but it did. These guys are the gay equivalent of "bullies" in the straight world. Only they prefer to bully behind the safety of internet posts, because their ideas wouldn't stand the light of day. Add unfulfilled and unused testosterone to that, and you've got guys with a serious problem.


    Quoted for bullshit.

    Freud believed many of our problems stem from our mothers (or lack thereof) too, but no one really buys that crap these days. People are bitchy on the internet regardless of their sexuality, or whether their mom's gave them enough cookies after school.
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    Sep 29, 2012 8:04 PM GMT
    People are nasty to people because some people have nasty attitudes and want to share nastiness to make others just as nasty as they are with their nasty attitude.
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    Sep 29, 2012 8:07 PM GMT
    IanJar saidPeople are nasty to people because some people have nasty attitudes and want to share nastiness to make others just as nasty as they are with their nasty attitude.



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    Sep 30, 2012 1:28 PM GMT
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    Sep 30, 2012 7:47 PM GMT
    I never realized the chatrooms were so interesting. The few times I've logged in (and quickly out!) it's gone down like this:

    Hot.

    Where's ass4u?

    Anyone got the time?

    I got the time for u.

    Preach!

    Word.

    Anyone watch Moesha?