Body Hair Dilemma

  • bijockmuscle

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    Aug 26, 2008 2:42 PM GMT
    I am a naturally hairy guy and I hate it!!! What is the best way to keep smooth? Shaving leaves stubble and I break out, trimming looks stupid, waxing casues pain and breakouts, Nair burns your skin off, and electrolosis is way too expensive...any other ideas?
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    Aug 26, 2008 2:49 PM GMT
    bite the bullet and have electrolysis done, will be cheaper in the looong run
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    Aug 26, 2008 3:32 PM GMT
    I LOVE stubbles. I would totally make out with you if you were stubbled all over....granted if you have a hot face...
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 26, 2008 3:59 PM GMT
    Why do you hate being hairy? I love it.... but again, I'm hairy where you want to be.. I have a very smooth back and shoulders...
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    Aug 26, 2008 4:10 PM GMT
    Personally I like hairy guys, and if they don't at least trimmed. As long as your trimmed hair doesn't grate like a cheese grater.

    I say just trim it...nothing hotter than a guy with a hair chest/body. Now, if it's on your entire body (shoulders, entire back, etc) that's a different story, but I still wouldn't say no to a guy because of it. But it's really up to you and what you want.

    And I know this is off topic...and frankly what you do with your life is your business, but advertising that you're cheating on your wife...eh, not so cool.
  • rnch

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    Aug 26, 2008 4:10 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidWhy do you hate being hairy? I love it.... but again, I'm hairy where you want to be.. I have a very smooth back and shoulders...
    yeh u rite! icon_cool.gif
  • Timbales

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    Aug 26, 2008 4:41 PM GMT
    If you really don't like it, I'd go with waxing it off. Yeah, it hurts but with repeated waxings it will get easier.
  • rnch

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    Aug 26, 2008 4:45 PM GMT
    i love the scrunching/scratching sound i hear when i grind my pec/ab hair into the other guys's body hair. icon_cool.gif
  • bijockmuscle

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    Aug 26, 2008 6:00 PM GMT
    jakebenson saidI LOVE stubbles. I would totally make out with you if you were stubbled all over....granted if you have a hot face...


    thanks...you are hot...come to NYC!
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    Aug 26, 2008 6:03 PM GMT
    I've been shaving chest/back and trimming cock/balls/ass once per week since I was 16. Once you get on a regular schedule with it, your skin will adapt much like your face does. I never get any irritation anymore, but initally Gold Bond Lotion was great for that.

    There is nothing quite so yummy as a smooth, shaved hole... good eatin' there!
  • bijockmuscle

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    Aug 26, 2008 6:05 PM GMT
    BigSETXjock saidI've been shaving chest/back and trimming cock/balls/ass once per week since I was 16. Once you get on a regular schedule with it, your skin will adapt much like your face does. I never get any irritation anymore, but initally Gold Bond Lotion was great for that.

    There is nothing quite so yummy as a smooth, shaved hole... good eatin' there!


    unfortunately my skin is so sensitive...i have been shaving for years and still breakout
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    Aug 26, 2008 6:13 PM GMT
    bijockmuscle saidI am a naturally hairy guy and I hate it!!! What is the best way to keep smooth? Shaving leaves stubble and I break out, trimming looks stupid, waxing casues pain and breakouts, Nair burns your skin off, and electrolosis is way too expensive...any other ideas?


    BLASPHEMY!
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    Aug 26, 2008 6:25 PM GMT
    I am with BC17. I like hair.
  • SuneFL

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    Aug 26, 2008 6:26 PM GMT
    bijockmuscle saidI am a naturally hairy guy and I hate it!!! What is the best way to keep smooth? Shaving leaves stubble and I break out, trimming looks stupid, waxing casues pain and breakouts, Nair burns your skin off, and electrolosis is way too expensive...any other ideas?


    Where are you trying to get rid of all of this hair?
    If it's your back and shoulders, i guess I can see why this bugs you. Try getting a sugar wax.

    From your picture, your chest and stomach looks fine. Keep it trimmed if it bugs you I think it looks hot. Waxing all that area surely would hurt.

    If you are like me and the hair is mostly on your legs and arms, I'm not sure I get it. Guys have hair. Tame it if you must... but embrace it. Nothing like feeling the short hairs on a muscled leg in the heat of the moment.

    And, If you want your privates bald... do as BigSE suggested and just shave... I'm not sure you want wax or electrodes down there.
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    Aug 26, 2008 6:32 PM GMT
    BearCub17 said
    BLASPHEMY!


    now ..that really depends no ?

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  • SuneFL

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    Aug 26, 2008 6:34 PM GMT
    Oh my.
    Now, that's a reason to spend THOUSANDS!
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    Aug 26, 2008 6:38 PM GMT
    Altho hygiene is uber important naturally, aren't guys supposed to have hair? In certain places, the more the better?

    These days, every shaved/smooth magazine/beach/gym body is a carbon copy clone of the last. It's ordinary. Hair, on the other hand, such as the pattern guys have on their chest, tummy, happy trail, bush, whatever, gives each guy character and makes him more "real" and individual.

    Personally, I hate the stubble look anywhere below the neck. Hairy legs are mandatory for any guy I'd ever consider dating. A guy who trims (or worse, shaves) "down there" is just so plain wrong I can't deal with it: First, it violates my natural instinct/attraction for the guy because even though I know he's an adult it sends the message of pedophilia to the brain in such a way to cause me revulsion. Second, if the guy is trying to make his member look bigger by trimming back hair, get over it!

    What's hotter? The same 'ol gym jock or Chris Evans' natural body hair patterns?

    Now, if you've got hair that hit your shoulders or back or whatever, then yeah, deal with it. I had some on my shoulders that bugged me (even though my ex said he didn't mind it) because it was in what I considered an "atypical" location, and so I had it lasered off.. And it's never came back. But if the excruciating pain of laser or electrolysis isn't your thing, then just get waxes or something (I've never had a wax so dunno how those compare).


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    Aug 26, 2008 6:38 PM GMT
    Electrolysis really isn't that expensive in the long run especially when you consider the cumulative money spent on waxing and other hair removal over the years. I am naturally smooth but if I weren't, I would definitely just go the laser route.
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    Aug 26, 2008 6:41 PM GMT

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  • musclexxx

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    Aug 26, 2008 6:44 PM GMT
    i think hair in a small to moderate amount is sexy and masculine. try letting it grow and just buzz it once a week. stubble is sexy too... you have plenty of size so u dont need to be clean shaven to see your pecs!icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 26, 2008 6:48 PM GMT
    BearCub17 said
    bijockmuscle saidI am a naturally hairy guy and I hate it!!! What is the best way to keep smooth? Shaving leaves stubble and I break out, trimming looks stupid, waxing casues pain and breakouts, Nair burns your skin off, and electrolosis is way too expensive...any other ideas?


    BLASPHEMY!


    I'm with you there....
  • Timbales

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    Aug 26, 2008 6:50 PM GMT
    Saying "aren't men supposed to be hairy?" is just as bad as saying "aren't men supposed to like women?"

    it's his body, if he doesn't like the hair it's his business
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    Aug 26, 2008 6:55 PM GMT
    You haven't told us where you're trying to remove hair. However, you should look into laser hair removal. It is as close to "permanent" as you can get, and if effective, the upfront cost will outweight the long-term spending on other methods. Note that darker hair is more responsive to most lasers, and that (depending on the region) they may offer to apply a topical anaesthetic to help with the pain (it can feel like someone snapping an elastic band on your skin). It will probably also be more economical to purchase a package than to pay for each individual treatment (plus most places will do a test patch to determine how effective it is on you before proceeding). Just make sure you go to a reputable establishment.
  • SuneFL

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    Aug 26, 2008 6:55 PM GMT
    I'm sure he doesn't want to look like a boy or transvestite.

    He's looking for help... not judgment.

    I do agree with those of you who believe hair can be hot. It can even be managed well:

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    Aug 26, 2008 7:00 PM GMT
    Timberoo saidSaying "aren't men supposed to be hairy?" is just as bad as saying "aren't men supposed to like women?"


    Wrong. If you're gay it's likely because you're naturally (read: instinctively) attracted to men. Technically, women are "supposed to be hairy" in certain places too. I don't personally find hair on women anywhere below the neck to be attractive, but technically they're "supposed to be".

    Also, I never implied he shouldn't remove every last hair on his body LOL.. it's his choice as you pointed out. Figured that was obvious icon_smile.gif The opinion part of my post was just that: an opinion and statement as to what I'm personally attracted to. But some guys are attracted to hairless guys, boys, or bald hamsters. To each his own of course.