I don't understand!

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    Aug 26, 2008 6:08 PM GMT
    Why is it that most gay men have so much attitude? We were in P-town last week. We met a couple really nice guys, but I found most of them very unfriendly. I tried speaking to a few of them and they acted like they didn't see me. I found a lot of them very stuck up. The pretty boys do not speak at all. I don't get it. We are there to be around each other and to have fun. Why can't we all be friendly and open to meeting new people even if we are not beautiful? I haven't been in the gay environment for a long time and I was hoping things had changed a little. Don't get me wrong, I love p-town and can't wait to go again. I just wish we would learn to treat each other better. How can we expect anyone else to treat us with respect if we can't give the same treatment to one another? I know I am not in perfect shape and I am not one of the pretty guys, but I am a really nice guy if given a chance.
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    Aug 26, 2008 6:32 PM GMT
    That's too bad, George. It's the guys like you who have the guts to start conversations that can make a get together more fun.
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Aug 26, 2008 6:37 PM GMT
    GeorgeE, Guys like that, just are not worth the trouble. Don't let them get to you. I'm sure you're a nice guy, and I would bet any amount of money that you're a much happier guy than those guys.

    I feel sorry for people like that, because they will never be happy with an attitude like that.
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    Aug 26, 2008 6:45 PM GMT
    GeorgeE saidWhy is it that most gay men have so much attitude? We were in P-town last week. We met a couple really nice guys, but I found most of them very unfriendly. I tried speaking to a few of them and they acted like they didn't see me. I found a lot of them very stuck up. The pretty boys do not speak at all. I don't get it. We are there to be around each other and to have fun. Why can't we all be friendly and open to meeting new people even if we are not beautiful?

    Oh I can answer this one. ....Time Management. ...

    When you are beautiful, everybody wants to be your friend. ...Do you realize how much time it takes being friendly to every fucker in the world? ....And if you start with a courteous, polite little acknowledgment, they dont stop. Next they want a whole conversation....and they are taking up your whole friggin' fucking day. ...And you're not interested. ....Eventually, you have to cut them off...and they get their feelings hurt. So why not just practice a little time management and cut right to the hurt feelings. They are gonna go away pissed either way, but you get to save yourself a lot of time.

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    Aug 26, 2008 7:25 PM GMT
    Thanks Guys, I don't know why I let it depress me. I just don't get it. All of my friends are straight and almost of the people I meet and enjoy being around are straight. I love my gay brothers but I hate the games and the bull shit.
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    Aug 26, 2008 7:32 PM GMT
    Gay guys...
    Nothing but a bunch of cock suckers! icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 26, 2008 8:08 PM GMT
    I'm sorry, I don't talk to beautiful people. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 26, 2008 8:24 PM GMT
    Sedative saidI'm sorry, I don't talk to beautiful people. icon_wink.gif

    Thank you.
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    Aug 26, 2008 8:27 PM GMT
    Who's talking?

    >.>

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    Aug 26, 2008 8:49 PM GMT
    Sedative saidI'm sorry, I don't talk to beautiful people. icon_wink.gif


    Yay, I'm ugly! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 26, 2008 8:51 PM GMT
    Bearcub17,
    Sorry, but you didn't make the ugly cut. You are in the hottie only!
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    Aug 26, 2008 9:02 PM GMT
    Well, I live in Long Beach, which is within spitting distance of West Hollywood ("WeHo" for the cool kids), and I find the difference in attitude amazing. I say WeHo is way too far to drive for way too much attitude.

    The gay community in LB is much friendlier and down-to-Earth. Here, you can actually walk up to MOST people and start a conversation. There are the snotty bitches of course, but the percentage is much smaller. Its easier to make friends here.

    Just be you GeorgeE, fuck the snotty bitches! (take that however you want)icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 26, 2008 9:04 PM GMT
    Pretty gay men have attitudesicon_question.gif Next you're going to say the same thing about 14 year old girls.
  • joeindallas

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    Aug 26, 2008 9:07 PM GMT
    P town has an Asshole Magnet buried under the Pilgrim Mon. Seems to attract them. Just becuase you are Gat does not mean you can not be an Asshole or Stuck UP. Funny thing is 90% of those peopel who act like that are from East Bung Hole
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    Aug 26, 2008 9:16 PM GMT
    I CAN BELIEVE THAT! THERE IN YOUR COUNTRY (USA) IS THE SAME PROBLEM AS EVERYWHERE.
    DONT WORRY GEORGE, SOME DAY THEY WILL BE A DIFFERENT THING THAT THEY ARE TODAY, AND THE NEXT GAY BOYS OF TOMORROW WILL IGNORE THEM, THTS THE LIFE`S LAW
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    Aug 26, 2008 9:34 PM GMT
    My experience w/ P-town is that after 2 or 3 nights of hard partying (as most of the pretty boys do..) everyone is a bitch. Probably due to lack of sleep and proper nutrition.. I'm sure the drugs don't help either.
    My advice, don't expect the worst but be prepared for it. Its sad that its like that, but then again not too surprising..
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    Aug 26, 2008 9:41 PM GMT
    kinetic saidMy experience w/ P-town is that after 2 or 3 nights of hard partying (as most of the pretty boys do..) everyone is a bitch. Probably due to lack of sleep and proper nutrition.. I'm sure the drugs don't help either.


    Wow, I now have zero interest in visiting.
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    Aug 26, 2008 10:14 PM GMT
    hobronto said
    kinetic saidMy experience w/ P-town is that after 2 or 3 nights of hard partying (as most of the pretty boys do..) everyone is a bitch. Probably due to lack of sleep and proper nutrition.. I'm sure the drugs don't help either.


    Wow, I now have zero interest in visiting.


    Its not all bad, but if you wanna be where all the 'in' crowd/pretty boys are, expect a lot of that..
    P-town really is a great time. Just be aware of your surroundings.
    I guess its like what people say of gay cruises, it can be whatever you want it to be.
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    Aug 26, 2008 10:17 PM GMT
    all my visits to p-town have been great.everyone has been always friendly to us.sorry it hear some were rude, screw those bitches. i like that the town is really dog friendly, our dogs enjoy it every year.
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    Aug 26, 2008 10:49 PM GMT
    Try being older and Black in that environment. Your parents could be judged as the ultimate glass makers because of your invisibility. At the bottom line, do you really want people broadcasting that much attitude and scorn as friends? It's difficult enough finding ways to enjoy life without some jerk(s) sucking out all the joy. I'm sure there were enough good souls around to enjoy.
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    Aug 26, 2008 11:08 PM GMT
    BearCub17 said
    Sedative saidI'm sorry, I don't talk to beautiful people. icon_wink.gif


    Yay, I'm ugly! icon_biggrin.gif


    But I talk to future husbands. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 27, 2008 12:24 AM GMT
    Don't get me wrong, I love P-town. I just wish we could treat each other better. As I said, we need to learn to treat each other with respect and dignity before we can expect anyone else in this crazy world to treat us that way. I think it would be a lot of fun if a bunch of us got together there for carnival next year. We will be there again. We have a time share there.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 27, 2008 12:40 AM GMT
    Well George, you sound like a great guy and only expect basic courteous behavior.

    Of course sometimes people don't speak either because they don't know you or their friendly demeanor might be taken incorrectly.....

    But in the end I think it was probably just rude behavior. I wouldn't lose any sleep about it. Go on about your business and just know those individuals probably aren't worth your time.
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    Aug 27, 2008 12:48 AM GMT
    Thanks again guys, You have all made me feel a lot better. You guys Rock!
  • GQjock

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    Aug 27, 2008 12:55 AM GMT
    George ....
    Why do you care?
    You said that you were there to have fun
    Why on earth would you let a bunch of assholes ruin
    your time there