What is happening to me?

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    Oct 01, 2012 6:38 PM GMT
    Alright, not really sure why i'm posting this on here but I cant really tell anyone else and I just have to get it off my chest and get some feed back... here it goes!

    Yesterday I met some guy who lives in the apartment complex next to mine, he was walking his dog and I miss my dog like crazy so when it came up to me I pet it and played with it a little (the dog.) Anyways we started talking and he invited me over to his place to hangout, I wasn't doing much of anything so I decided to go. It was really chill we just watched tv and talked and finally the topic of sexuality came up and he said he was gay and I told him how I say i'm bi but I lean towards guys... We drank a little wine cuz he had just turned 21 2 days earlier and one thing lead to another and we hooked up. It was great and everything and I ended up spending the night. When we woke up it wasn't awkward or anything we kissed good morning and then he had to go to work and I had to get ready for class. We parted ways and I found myself really hoping he would text me later in the day. He ended up texting me saying " Thanks to you I keep having t swift songs stuck in my head at work" because the night before I told him how I recently decided I really enjoyed taylor swift haha. We have been texting back and forth all day whenever each of us get the chance to respond but I feel like the fact that he's all I can think about and i'm sitting here waiting for his text is annoying and really unlike me. I feel like a 13 year old girl haha. I think the reason im being so overly emotional about this is because Im running on no sleep (it was a crazy weekend) but what if i'm actually the idiot who's getting feelings for a guy he's only known for one night. haha. alright... what do you think guys? Am I just tired and over thinking things?
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    Oct 01, 2012 6:44 PM GMT


    "Am I just tired and over thinking things?"

    Yep. Relax and enjoy the ride. icon_wink.gif

    Watch this, the man's grandmother gives some excellent advice here:

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    Oct 01, 2012 6:48 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    "Am I just tired and over thinking things?"

    Yep. Relax and enjoy the ride. icon_wink.gif

    Watch this, the man's grandmother gives some excellent advice here:



    haha I love that! thanks so much man lol that was actually a really great quote!
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    Oct 01, 2012 6:50 PM GMT


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    Oct 01, 2012 6:50 PM GMT
    He invites you over for a hookup and you get all emotional and obsessive about it?

    I feel sorry for him. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 01, 2012 6:51 PM GMT
    Well he just texted me saying

    " Idk I havent felt this alive in a while. It was either the lack of sleep or maybe your positivity rubbed off on me haha. But for real, I was enchanted to meet you."

    Safe to say, I have officially hit 13 year old girl level and am now sitting in my room smiling to myself like an idiot... K at my life -______- haha
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    Oct 01, 2012 6:52 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidHe invites you over for a hookup and you get all emotional and obsessive about it?

    I feel sorry for him. icon_lol.gif


    haha I know thats kinda why I feel so weird about it, like I have no idea why im reacting like this
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    Oct 01, 2012 6:53 PM GMT
    Ok so he's the one who got obsessive about it.

    You must be a really good lay. icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 01, 2012 6:54 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidHe invites you over for a hookup and you get all emotional and obsessive about it?

    I feel sorry for him. icon_lol.gif



    *Shoves mechanical sexual device into Paul's mouth.*

    Alejandro, this is Paul. He's really very nice, and at the moment
    *observes Paul's vibrating head* rather quiet. icon_lol.gif

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    Oct 01, 2012 6:57 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    paulflexes saidHe invites you over for a hookup and you get all emotional and obsessive about it?

    I feel sorry for him. icon_lol.gif



    *Shoves mechanical sexual device into Paul's mouth.*
    I didn't know those spinning toothbrush thingies were sexual.
  • shoelessj

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    Oct 01, 2012 7:01 PM GMT
    "What's happening to me?"

    Um, you're 19 years old. And you had a really incredible experience with this guy. And you're a human being with human emotions. And you're 19.

    Nothing wrong with feeling what you're feeling, but take it easy. If he lives next to you you're gonna run into him again, no doubt. You don't have to hound him constantly. Nothing wrong with thinking all day about him but try not to let him know you're obsessing over him. If something more happens with this guy, wonderful. If not, it's not because of anything you did or didn't do.

    I've been in your shoes at least a couple times and i bet many guys here have been in the same spot emotionally, as well. We're human - this happens.
  • shoelessj

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    Oct 01, 2012 7:02 PM GMT
    I just saw the reply with the text you got from him.

    Congratulations. Have a bunch of fun with this guy! Enjoy each other.
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    Oct 01, 2012 7:04 PM GMT
    shoelessj said"What's happening to me?"

    Um, you're 19 years old. And you had a really incredible experience with this guy. And you're a human being with human emotions. And you're 19.

    Nothing wrong with feeling what you're feeling, but take it easy. If he lives next to you you're gonna run into him again, no doubt. You don't have to hound him constantly. Nothing wrong with thinking all day about him but try not to let him know you're obsessing over him. If something more happens with this guy, wonderful. If not, it's not because of anything you did or didn't do.

    I've been in your shoes at least a couple times and i bet many guys here have been in the same spot emotionally, as well. We're human - this happens.


    Thanks for the solid advice man! Thats the thing i'm afraid of... since I don't usually have feelings like this i'm afraid i'll come off too strong... and I mean from personal experience I hate it when guys get too attached too soon... so I just don't want that to be me haha.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 01, 2012 7:10 PM GMT
    awwww .... how sweet ... sounds like you are both crushing on each other ... go with it and enjoy the ride icon_smile.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 01, 2012 7:15 PM GMT
    You're so cute. I hope it works out.icon_smile.gif
  • Hothouse

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    Oct 01, 2012 7:16 PM GMT
    Yeah, just enjoy it. Young love is fun, so is young lust.
    Believe me when I tell you that as time goes on, these kind of experiences will become fewer and fewer. Just enjoy!
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    Oct 01, 2012 7:27 PM GMT
    Ha! you are not a pioneer of schoolgirl crushes... you're fine, just relax and enjoy the ride(s) icon_biggrin.gif
  • Fable

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    Oct 01, 2012 8:26 PM GMT
    ITS LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE
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    Oct 01, 2012 8:42 PM GMT
    You're 19.
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    Oct 01, 2012 8:44 PM GMT
    Relax.

    And you should know better than to give up the goodies on the first date!
  • monet

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    Oct 01, 2012 9:26 PM GMT
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    Oct 01, 2012 9:33 PM GMT
    Quick update: Were having a movie night tonight. Also, I went to the gym and i'm a lot more rational about the situation haha.
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    Oct 01, 2012 9:46 PM GMT
    i hope you two will get married..
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 01, 2012 9:49 PM GMT
    If it's not too much trouble, will you post a pic of the two of you together so we can decide if he's good enough for you?icon_razz.gif
  • Breeman

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    Oct 01, 2012 9:51 PM GMT
    I'ts love baby!! Enjoy it!! Savour it and don't think too much about it. But remember it when the going gets tough in the relationship because you might need it to get you through.. icon_smile.gif