Why are so many gay guys shallow?

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    Oct 02, 2012 4:36 PM GMT
    It seems like on this site as well as many other similar gay sites a lot of the guys are so shallow and so quick to pick you apart for every little flaw you might have.
    They expect this perfect guy to come crawling out of the woodwork and if you don't fit their image of perfect that they have in their head they want nothing to do with you.
    Also, I noticed they are so quick to try and spark up an argument over any little thing they can like on these forms

    Why are they like that? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 02, 2012 4:40 PM GMT
    Because we're perfect and expect everyone else to be perfect also.
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    Oct 02, 2012 4:41 PM GMT
    CollegeDude27 saidWhy are they like that? icon_rolleyes.gif


    Fairytale Princess complex. I'll probably be single forever cuz I ain't no Prince.
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    Oct 02, 2012 4:44 PM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    CollegeDude27 saidWhy are they like that? icon_rolleyes.gif


    Fairytale Princess complex. I'll probably be single forever cuz I ain't no Prince.


    lol same b/c neither am i
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    Oct 02, 2012 4:47 PM GMT
    INTERNET WARRIORS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Seriously they're everywhere. I don't know about the shallowness but I can see what you mean by the catty and bitchy arguments that go on and on lol. It happens on youtube, and many message boards. in my experience in some of the game boards i played the gay men on there tend to get into more arguments than the straight counterparts but the way I see it....Just because it's happening doesn't mean you have to be a part of it. Just ignore it lol
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    Oct 02, 2012 5:10 PM GMT
    "You must be THIS attractive to ride."
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    Oct 02, 2012 5:28 PM GMT
    Lack of humility.

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    Oct 02, 2012 6:41 PM GMT
    When people aren't comfortable with themselves, they try to find flaws with others to put themselves on equal ground. Sometimes they don't even realize that they are being jerks. Not justifying their actions, just giving one possible explanation.

    Personally I always try to give a guy a chance. Inner beauty is what makes someone a good person.
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    Oct 02, 2012 6:45 PM GMT
    TheBizMan said"You must be THIS attractive to ride."

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    Oct 02, 2012 8:05 PM GMT
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    Oct 02, 2012 8:33 PM GMT

    "Why are so many gay guys shallow?"

    Hmmm...is it a gay phenomenon?

    Why are so many people shallow? icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 03, 2012 7:11 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidBecause it tastes great! icon_biggrin.gif








    Edit: Wow...did I ever mis-read the title. icon_eek.gif


    Whenever I shuck I always shallow.
  • hanzo83

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    Oct 03, 2012 9:31 PM GMT
    CollegeDude27 saidIt seems like on this site as well as many other similar gay sites a lot of the guys are so shallow and so quick to pick you apart for every little flaw you might have.
    They expect this perfect guy to come crawling out of the woodwork and if you don't fit their image of perfect that they have in their head they want nothing to do with you.
    Also, I noticed they are so quick to try and spark up an argument over any little thing they can like on these forms

    Why are they like that? icon_rolleyes.gif


    Well that's not a gay thing really. People are attracted to what they are attracted to. You can't get mad at anybody for not being their type. It doesn't make anybody shallow for liking certain looks and not liking others. A kind heart and good personality is nice but for me that's just a friend and not a lover. The good thing is that there is always somebody who'll like your look. icon_wink.gif


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    Oct 03, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    Good lord. Lots of people in general are shallow. What they miss...is their loss. Worry not what you cannot control.

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  • HottJoe

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    Oct 03, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    ^^^Must be easy for him to self-suck.
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    Oct 03, 2012 10:13 PM GMT
    Fuck those guys! Some guys think they're Regina George in "Mean Girls" I'd rather be a "cool girl" lol Everyone has a type, and you have to respect that. However, the ones who pick others apart, for no appearent reason. The ones who are critical just for being a bitch sake. Those are the ones with issues. You never hear about someone like Gisele Bundchen calling people fat and ugly, cause inner confidence reflects volumes on the outside. Just like the homophobic guy making gay jokes; is probably dealing with inner homosexual desires himself....
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    Oct 03, 2012 10:20 PM GMT
    How can I be shallow if you only have private pictures.

    C'monnnnnn.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 03, 2012 10:36 PM GMT
    I think I'm pretty deep icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 03, 2012 10:41 PM GMT
    Maybe it's your perception? How are gays shallow?

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    Oct 03, 2012 10:53 PM GMT
    Superficiality and Vanity and Shallow isn't a gay thing, it's a people thing.

    Let's face it, in a world where everyone want's to be beautiful and the TV and media telling you, you are not if you look a certain way then people strive hard to get good bodies and such

    and one thing you will find in common is that if one works hard to get a good body they expect others to have it as well, and when or if they don't, they tend to look down on them.


    Where people think it is impossible to be fat and happy and were bullying is growing bigger than before, it's easy to see why people are the way they are.

    Here's the thing I have seen though, as people mature and become well rounded they start to see people for more than just looks, but as people are young, they dont see things like that because they are not ready to settle down.So hotness is a deciding factor, whether when you get older it's just a factor.

    People always will have a standard of beauty, but they all are not the same.

    I understand what you mean because I saw a topic here that disgusted me, about straight guys with overweight women what a waste...or something like that.

    At the end of the day everyone has to eventually look beyond appearances...that is if you really want to find a true lover/soul mate.

    but you just have to find someone who feels the same way you do.
  • LJay

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    Oct 03, 2012 10:58 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    yourname2000 saidBecause it tastes great! icon_biggrin.gif








    Edit: Wow...did I ever mis-read the title. icon_eek.gif


    Whenever I shuck I always shallow.


    I like oysters, too!
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    Oct 03, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
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    Oct 03, 2012 11:01 PM GMT
    CollegeDude27 saidIt seems like on this site as well as many other similar gay sites a lot of the guys are so shallow and so quick to pick you apart for every little flaw you might have.
    They expect this perfect guy to come crawling out of the woodwork and if you don't fit their image of perfect that they have in their head they want nothing to do with you.
    Also, I noticed they are so quick to try and spark up an argument over any little thing they can like on these forms

    Why are they like that? icon_rolleyes.gif


    they are shallow because they love to swallow
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    Oct 03, 2012 11:02 PM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    CollegeDude27 saidWhy are they like that? icon_rolleyes.gif


    Fairytale Princess complex. I'll probably be single forever cuz I ain't no Prince.


    40 and delusional. you ARE a prince!
  • LJay

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    Oct 03, 2012 11:04 PM GMT
    Now a serious answer.

    A lot of gay guys are isolated from emotional support. I think they are picky just to draw attention in order to feel that someone notices them. If you ook around at people in general, you will notice that the ones who get a lot of support due to good looks, talents, smarts, or whatever, are not very critical of others.