Straight guy

  • ehouse51

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    Oct 02, 2012 8:17 PM GMT
    So my best friend, who is also a guy, is straight and isnt afraid to strip down to his boxers when we go swimming and in general so hes comfortable being half naked around a guy unlike any other guy friend of mine and he knows im gay. He also occasionally says or does things that make me question his sexuality sometimes and weather or not hes into me and i find him really attractive. how do i go about finding out if hes interested in me or if its just really wishful thinking? any help would be much appreciated

    Thanks
  • atomicare

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    Oct 02, 2012 8:37 PM GMT
    quit fucking around and ask him if he would let you suck him sometime. If hes into getting bj's, whats it matter. however, you will never have a relationship with him, hes not your type really.
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    Oct 02, 2012 8:42 PM GMT
    Rope and roofies are awesome. Just sayin.
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    Oct 02, 2012 8:48 PM GMT
    Maybe he's hoping you'll suck and swallow because his gf wont do that?
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    Oct 02, 2012 9:15 PM GMT
    SOME guys are just really comfortable in their body and don't have any emotional hang-ups about nudity.


    Only YOU know whether to risk ruining a friendship over sex.
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    Oct 03, 2012 2:31 AM GMT
    ehouse51 saidSo my best friend, who is also a guy, is straight and isnt afraid to strip down to his boxers when we go swimming and in general so hes comfortable being half naked around a guy unlike any other guy friend of mine and he knows im gay. He also occasionally says or does things that make me question his sexuality sometimes and weather or not hes into me and i find him really attractive. how do i go about finding out if hes interested in me or if its just really wishful thinking? any help would be much appreciated

    Thanks


    So far you haven't said anything that would be reason to think he is gay. I had a straight friend (beautiful to boot) who paraded around naked all the time when we hung out together. We even shared a hotel room and he would sit naked in bed. His girlfriend admitted that he was an exhibitionist and was no different when his girlfriends were there.

    Boxers are shorts as far as I'm concerned. I don't understand how being half-naked is being sexually provocative. Perhaps he's the normal one and your other guy friends are really prudish and worse repressed.
  • coolarmydude

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    Oct 03, 2012 2:33 AM GMT
    Yeah, there's nothing more. It is what it is.
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    Oct 03, 2012 2:44 AM GMT
    Wearing only boxers is the same as wearing just shorts, there's nothing provocative about that. Sometimes it seems my apartment is clothing optional and my roommates are as straight as can be.
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Oct 03, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    It's hard to say. I was friends with a straight guy who knew I was gay and teased me sorta... Made out with me once, hugs me for a long while(these hugs include lots of ass grabbing and under the shirt touching). He does things like that and says he is straight.
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    Oct 03, 2012 4:39 AM GMT
    I have a straight best friend who, for all intents an purposes, is my brother. I've never had any sexual fantasy about him just as I've never had any of my biological brother. There is something comforting about that for me. I've known him since he was 17 years old and I introduced him to his wife. In the words of his wife: "You guys are like two girls when you guys talk." We are and I wouldn't trade that for anything.
  • ADL14

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    Oct 03, 2012 4:52 AM GMT
    Don't risk it. Unless he brings it up, leave it alone. It just sounds like he is really comfortable with you, knowing you're gay and all. Just don't.
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    Oct 03, 2012 5:00 AM GMT
    NSG14 saidDon't risk it. Unless he brings it up, leave it alone. It just sounds like he is really comfortable with you, knowing you're gay and all. Just don't.


    +1 Agree 100%
  • onefortified

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    Oct 03, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
    Don't bother pursuing it. Waste of time. You're probably reading into this too much.
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    Oct 03, 2012 5:05 AM GMT
    Always remember, mathematically speaking, him being gay is highly unlikely so don't get excited at all. [trust me being in love with a straight guy is no fun]
    If you have the balls, ask him what you are asking us.
  • Vaughn

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    Oct 03, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidRope and roofies are awesome. Just sayin.


    But only if they consent first, right Paul?
  • TheBizMan

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    Oct 03, 2012 5:12 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidIt is what it is, and it's beautiful for that alone. Lots of guys, gay and straight, would love to have a bromance --no sex, but a great "brotherly love", and it sounds like you two have that. I think we gay guys fuck that up too often by trying to read-in/add a sexual component that will only destroy something that is exactly what it's meant to be. As a gay guy, it can be really tough....hard not to fall in love. But if you can maintain the appropriate barrier, this could grow into that kind of longterm friendship that two guys treasure, especially because they know that one of them is gay and the other straight and they feel that kind of closeness.


    It's impossible with gays

    #cynicism
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    Oct 03, 2012 5:42 AM GMT
    Why can't you just accept the situation for what it is...???

    ...He is your straight friend that feels comfortable around you...

    ..Why would you complicate this??..If he is interested in you..you'll figure it out sooner or later..
    ...There is a chance that you'll ruin this friendship if make advances..
    For now leave it be...!! icon_neutral.gif
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  • RaceConrad

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    Oct 03, 2012 5:49 AM GMT
    I'm a straight guy, well sorta, and maybe he is too. At an appropriate time, ask if you can touch him. Work into it slowly. If he knows youre gay there wont' be a surprise. Perhaps he'll be flattered. Perhaps he'll be turned off. No matter, he knows where it's coming from. Straight guys have hangups.
  • TheBizMan

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    Oct 03, 2012 6:25 AM GMT
    RaceConrad saidI'm a straight guy, well sorta, and maybe he is too. At an appropriate time, ask if you can touch him. Work into it slowly. If he knows youre gay there wont' be a surprise. Perhaps he'll be flattered. Perhaps he'll be turned off. No matter, he knows where it's coming from. Straight guys have hangups.

    Yeah... you don't sound straight.
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    Oct 03, 2012 6:41 AM GMT
    Those straight guys who seem kinda gay and/or have no problems being themselves around other gays are usually just 110% straight.