Top/Bottom - Which one has an easier time finding sex?

  • squally

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    Oct 03, 2012 3:14 AM GMT
    My straight girlfriend and I were watching a TV show and one of the actor said "Girls can get laid anytime, just decide on getting laid and bam!" and she in return asks me, does bottoms in the gay world have an easier time getting laid? (Since she feels they play a more feminine role in sex).

    I didn't know what to say to that and I told her I don't know, let me ask, so here I am.
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    Oct 03, 2012 5:32 AM GMT
    No..

    every gay guy has an easy time getting laid...
  • Devix

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    Oct 03, 2012 5:53 AM GMT
    lol , in my town, tops have easy sex, they are very requested since we have a lack of tops here.
    Bottoms are becoming so desperate that they are becoming versatile.
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    Oct 03, 2012 5:59 AM GMT
    Devix saidlol , in my town, tops have easy sex, they are very requested since we have a lack of tops here.
    Bottoms are becoming so desperate that they are becoming versatile.


    Not this guy. I'm a strict bottom and plan to stay that way. And the thing is it's not hard for me to find sex, it's just that I'm not WILLING to have sex with every Tom, Dick, and Harry who wants to put it in my butt...
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    Oct 03, 2012 2:47 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    Devix saidlol , in my town, tops have easy sex, they are very requested since we have a lack of tops here.
    Bottoms are becoming so desperate that they are becoming versatile.


    Not this guy. I'm a strict bottom and plan to stay that way. And the thing is it's not hard for me to find sex, it's just that I'm not WILLING to have sex with every Tom, Dick, and Harry who wants to put it in my butt...


    I'm sure a lot of people feel the same way.
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    Oct 03, 2012 3:02 PM GMT
    Straight guys will go for almost any vagina as they don't get it easily enough without paying for it.

    Gay guys will consider other factors like body type & dick size first.
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    Oct 03, 2012 3:08 PM GMT
    The best selling point for "gay lifestyle" in a city is, if you are in decent shape, you can get laid any time you want, top or bottom. Of course, you put yourself in line for any number of diseases and other dangers, but if sex is all you seek and you are in a decent sized city and reasonably handsome, sex is never an issue for a gay man.
    That said, the allure of sex with strangers wears off after the second or third time with a gross, diseased, sick, smelly or terrible human who you thought might be fun to have sex with. A couple of tricks like that and you start to realize masturbation is always a better option.
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    Oct 03, 2012 11:59 PM GMT
    I like the top and i like also the bottom as well.
  • RTBD

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    Oct 08, 2012 5:57 AM GMT
    here in my country ....it is so easy for a bottom to find sex or get a date...

    here majority are tops...
    we have few bottoms and most of them are westerns living and working here and a few Arab bottom as well

    so here when a guy say I am bottom ... he gets treatment like if he is Jennifer Aniston or something...

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    Oct 08, 2012 7:39 AM GMT
    Well, according to bottoms-tops-by-city-thesword-1.jpg (source: http://thesword.com/a-sword-study-americas-bottomiest-a-toppiest-cities.html), by pure supply and demand I should move to NYC for more sex.
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    Oct 08, 2012 1:55 PM GMT
    It depends on the area. In D.C. metro where 9.9 out of 10 gay guys are bottoms (and that includes the great majority of "bicurious" military men), good looking tops have an easier time getting laid.
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    Oct 08, 2012 2:02 PM GMT
    ruready saidWell, according to bottoms-tops-by-city-thesword-1.jpg (source: http://thesword.com/a-sword-study-americas-bottomiest-a-toppiest-cities.html), by pure supply and demand I should move to NYC for more sex.


    This is horse shit, I lived in SF and was mostly a bottom by default. I couldnt find anyone who wanted me to top them! Every guy I met was a top and usually a total one at that.

    But then again I think most said they were a bottom because they were too high on meth to get it up, which I take it isnt very attractive lol.
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    Oct 10, 2012 7:30 AM GMT
    in my country u cant find gays top or bottom cause they hide and protect them self from be killed we hide or selfand not trust any one if they say i want to fuck u maby they r liers
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    Oct 10, 2012 7:34 AM GMT
    Versatile baby! icon_biggrin.gif I can have anyone, except the crazy ass Power Tops/Bottoms. +D
  • RyanChase

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    Nov 07, 2012 8:25 AM GMT
    I'm vers, but I have a much easier time finding sex as a btmm than top
  • MikemikeMike

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    Nov 07, 2012 8:41 AM GMT
    Chainers said
    ruready saidWell, according to bottoms-tops-by-city-thesword-1.jpg (source: http://thesword.com/a-sword-study-americas-bottomiest-a-toppiest-cities.html), by pure supply and demand I should move to NYC for more sex.


    This is horse shit, I lived in SF and was mostly a bottom by default. I couldnt find anyone who wanted me to top them! Every guy I met was a top and usually a total one at that.

    But then again I think most said they were a bottom because they were too high on meth to get it up, which I take it isnt very attractive lol.


    Well there was a smaller amount of guys available to you based on your bod and face only. You also don't have the most winning personality.icon_idea.gificon_idea.gif
  • MikemikeMike

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    Nov 07, 2012 8:49 AM GMT
    squally saidMy straight girlfriend and I were watching a TV show and one of the actor said "Girls can get laid anytime, just decide on getting laid and bam!" and she in return asks me, does bottoms in the gay world have an easier time getting laid? (Since she feels they play a more feminine role in sex).

    I didn't know what to say to that and I told her I don't know, let me ask, so here I am.


    Your g/f or f-hag is wrong. I am a top and never had or have a problem getting laid if I want. What takes time is when you are selective and won't just fuck anyone. I have to like them on more than 1 level. Also I don't fuck feminine guys-nothing wrong with them-just doesn't make me hard.
    Now if your a guy who hooks up with druggies, whores or porn stars not much to be proud of they will fuck anything or get fucked by most.icon_idea.gif
  • kevmoran

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    Nov 07, 2012 3:34 PM GMT
    It depends on what you're looking for. If a top wants twinky boys, he can get laid any time of the day. If he wants more masculine men, it might not be so easy. Where I live, I could be set for life if I was a top, but unfortunately me topping is the most ridiculous sight on earth.
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    Nov 07, 2012 6:45 PM GMT
    In Montana (the land that gay sex forgot) there are barely any gays to begin with and all the people I meet seem to be btms icon_sad.gif
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    Nov 07, 2012 7:32 PM GMT
    In my experience if you are a top with a decent bod then you can find a good bottom easy. Seems like there are way more bottoms in the market these days!
  • FunkyJay45

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    Mar 16, 2013 2:38 AM GMT
    I live in Philly and I feel like Tops have a much easier time finding sex than Bottoms.

    Bottoms in this city act like they're desperate for sex and will pretty much give it up to any top even if he doesn't look like much.

    But Tops, because they have so many bottoms to choose from are more selective and picky, and if you're a bottom and you aren't that attractive or sexy, you will get turned down and rejected by a lot of Tops.

    So, Tops have an easier time finding sex because bottoms aren't as selective or picky.