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OMG! BROMANCE! Perhaps this is what I'm feeling. I just started school again and I met a nice young guy my first day of P.E class, a former high school wrestler, kinda chubby now. He literally latched onto my arm and wouldn't let go until I agreed to train him. I wavered for a moment because I have my own goals to reach, however, he had this look of utter trust and admiration and ofcourse flattered me with accolades. I agreed, however, a problem with my schedule was revealed and turns out, I was in the wrong class! I only got to do two workouts with him, but my god, they made a difference. I could already see my handy work showin up on him. I figured I'd just cut him off because I'm not in that class anymore, but I couldn't stop thinking about how I promised to help him and how happy he was during our sessions.

I've seen him workout...pitiful. He needs my help if he's gonna lose that paunch! This is why I'm going to take the time to train him anyway during my personal time. I never do this, but I remember after our first workout, he's never been worked over that well before and he jumped up and hugged me, told me he appreciated the opportunity. I don't want to fuck him, but I'm feeling some serious bromantic vibrations and I gotta see this through.

thoughts?

*chants*

GG's got a boyfriend! GG's got a boyfriend! nyah nyah nyah! GG's got a boyfriend! LOL

Seriously though, why not? ;P So is he cute? Handsome? Hawt? (After he loses the paunch of course)

Are you saying you are attracted to him or is he attracted to you? I like the feeling of getting a crush, but I know they will wear off in 3 weeks to 3 months in my case, so I just ride them out.

That's sweet of you to train him and want to honor your promise. I would advise treading cautiously as you don't want to wind up in a situation that sours and then you eventually associate school with what might be a very negative experience.

You might make a friend. You might make more.
Keep us posted.

awwwwwwww that's so sweeeeeeeet

Sounds like a love story in the making! Please Please Please keep us posted!

Sounds like BROMANCE to me I guess. Hopefully it works out handsome.

Ooooo.... A new Soap developing!! I can't wait to hear the updates!!!

Sedative said*chants*

GG's got a boyfriend! GG's got a boyfriend! nyah nyah nyah! GG's got a boyfriend! LOL

Seriously though, why not? ;P So is he cute? Handsome? Hawt? (After he loses the paunch of course)

Now, now, I meant Bromance in its traditional meaning: a platonic mutual affection between two straight men. I know I'm not straight, but he thinks I am and I have no immediate plans to reveal my sexuality to him. It isn't important at this point. I call it Bromance because I am consumed with wanting to help him and he seems really taken by me and the power I display, my muscularity: yadda, yadda, yadda.

With that said: yeah, he's cute. He's young, which I usually count as a negative, but hey I'm 27, seeing a 21 year old would make me the daddy. He's Asian, but I don't know what kind. He's got spikey hair like he puts Bed Head in it or something and he dresses a little thuggy, but its like preppy thug. He wears clothes that are urban accented as opposed to completely urban, like his shoes are high tops with grafitti on them and his shirts and stuff have graffitti and crossbones and little guns on them. Funny thing though is all these otherwise menacing symbols are always pastel: pink, green, yellow, all my favorite colors. I like his lips, they are really full and pink and he's got the smallest mouth: it looks like a girls.

Still doesn't matter because I wanna be his friend. Have got absolutely no interest in sex. If I did, I suspect he might be gay. He mentioned girls once when we first met for dramatic effect, I think and hasn't mentioned them since. Plus he tells a lot of sexually charged jokes. Like when we do groin stretches, he asks me if i can feel it in my dinga-ling.
He may suspect me too. I think I do the usual over masculine act and I cover my mouth like a coy geisha everytime I laugh at his jokes.
He doesn't seem to mind, but like I said: just friends. Good thing too, have got enough men on my plate, food stuffs I like.

He's gay alright. LOL

And yeah, you do go for older types though. *sigh* I cry for the boy with the crush on GG. Would you at least let him feel your ding-a-ling?

steltom saidSounds like BROMANCE to me I guess. Hopefully it works out handsome.

Don't underestimate my noble non sexual intentions. And don't make this into something it's not. Gotta hate it when people do that.

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He actually said, "Ding-a-ling"? And how the hell do you find all that crazy shit online? I'm tryin to figure out the search string you used to find that video... Very funny.

Yeah, He also calls me "beast", I forgot to mention that. Actually how we met, I went over to ask the coach (who is a lesbian) about gainers. He was sitting on the floor and I didn't really notice him until he sprung to his feet and said "You're a beast!," and looked at the coach like he was expecting her to qualify it. She just looked back at me and shrugged her shoulders.

I tried to turn away and continue my routine, but he started following me around the whole gym askin me all these questions.

GuiltyGear said
Yeah, He also calls me "beast", I forgot to mention that. Actually how we met, I went over to ask the coach (who is a lesbian) about gainers. He was sitting on the floor and I didn't really notice him until he sprung to his feet and said "You're a beast!," and looked at the coach like he was expecting her to qualify it. She just looked back at me and shrugged her shoulders.

I tried to turn away and continue my routine, but he started following me around the whole gym askin me all these questions.

BEAST!? Oh good God he's gay!

I'm chuckling.

muchmorethanmuscle saidThat's sweet of you to train him and want to honor your promise. I would advise treading cautiously as you don't want to wind up in a situation that sours and then you eventually associate school with what might be a very negative experience.

You might make a friend. You might make more.
Keep us posted.

Associating school with negative experiences, it's little too late for that, but, I go to school because of what its going to give me in the way of positive experiences later. Besides, my experiences this semester have been better so far.

You should know that this won't be the first bromantic affair I've had in school. It's happened many times. It usually involves me and a guy who's younger. We laugh and tease eachother too keep up appearances, but when we get alone, we stare into eachother's eyes and deny ourselves the sweet release of touching eachother.

The last was named Kyle, that's an interesting story, I became so enamored with him that I ran for College Republican President because he asked me to! We used to laugh and joke and rough house, but never sex. Even when we went to some convention in OKC and shared a room, nothing happened, but we wanted it to. He stripped down to his underwear and paraded around and I stripped down and flexed and all that. The sexual tention was thick in the air. Nothing happened and I think the memory is so fond to me because it went unspoiled. I imagine that is how things will play out this time.

Awh...well that's good that you believe you will not have problems. I don't want it to come to that. I am just very cautious when it comes to stuff like that.

So what are you studying in school? I'm in school too. I'm majoring in hospitality management at DeVry.

steltom saidI'm chuckling.

Hello, nice to meet you, Chuck Ling.

Damn, GG threw me some shade by not even answering my last question.

GuiltyGear said

steltom saidI'm chuckling.

Hello, nice to meet you, Chuck Ling.

ROFLMAO!

Just do a good turn. The rest is up to the fates. I really admire that you want to do a good turn for someone who needs a good turn. It is one of the zillion things to like about you.

Yeah, I like that you are all silly school girl over this too. Anyway, if you find a guy worth helping in Lawton, and you don't help, you will be smote.

Just sayin.

Terry

Notice how Terry likes to emasculate some of us by using terms like 'power bottoms' or 'girls'.


That's my job, bitch.

sweetie pie, I have never used the term power bottom, because it only applies to one person on the face of this Earth, I will leave it to you to guess who, doll, smooches. Terry

p.s. Do you wanna do Chilis and Merle Norman next week?

muchmorethanmuscle saidNotice how Terry likes to emasculate some of us by using terms like 'power bottoms' or 'girls'.


That's my job, bitch.

ActiveAndFit saidAre you saying you are attracted to him or is he attracted to you? I like the feeling of getting a crush, but I know they will wear off in 3 weeks to 3 months in my case, so I just ride them out.

Attraction doesn't factor into this because it is not a crush. I don't plan on riding anything.

GG don't forget about muchmore.....Don't think I'm tellin him what to do. Just a gentle reminder what you said MM... He prb missed it. He's soooooooooo streched thin, eh? Oh yea, my misnomer is Charles Lingstadt.....

ursamajor saidJust do a good turn. The rest is up to the fates. I really admire that you want to do a good turn for someone who needs a good turn. It is one of the zillion things to like about you.

Yeah, I like that you are all silly school girl over this too. Anyway, if you find a guy worth helping in Lawton, and you don't help, you will be smote.

Just sayin.

Terry

I'm a Super Man, I help the people in need. Silly school girl, where did you figure that? I'm not all that way. You power bottom you. One that needs to be rode hard and put away wet, and i'm just the schoolgirl for that.

Seriously though, I just want to help, besides, I succeed and he'll be a hunky former wrestler who owes me a couple lessons on submission holds. I don't succeed, he'll be a chubby former wrestler who owes me a couple lessons on submission holds.

I found a Jem song about the very subject of helping pople in need, but it was too sappy even for my taste. She actually says "Take an hour and their dreams will flower." ....oh gosh. Still love you Jem.

steltom saidGG don't forget about muchmore.....Don't think I'm tellin him what to do. Just a gentle reminder what you said MM... He prb missed it. He's soooooooooo streched thin, eh? Oh yea, my misnomer is Charles Lingstadt.....

What? Don't you try that fast talk with me. If you want to...you know... you've got the thinga-ma-jigger I gave you. And as far as MuchMore, everything I do to him serves an essential purpose.....and who are you callin Mis Nomer? I'm Mis Guilty.

muchmorethanmuscle saidNotice how Terry likes to emasculate some of us by using terms like 'power bottoms' or 'girls'.


That's my job, bitch.

I think he only does this to those of us he knows like it.

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I'm all about giving MuchMore exactly what he needs.

muchmorethanmuscle said

So what are you studying in school?.

Health and physical fitness ed. with an emphasis on wellness.

""She actually says "Take an hour and their dreams will flower."""" Come on oh might Isis... I mean GG Give the man the name and the video of the song he remembers....

....what?

GuiltyGear saidAttraction doesn't factor into this because it is not a crush. I don't plan on riding anything.

Well if it is not attraction, not sex, just platonic friendship then whats all the fuss? If you are concerned about each others sexuality then why not just tell it like it is?

I think you need to brush up on your Plato there buddy.

GuiltyGear said.........................

I'm all about giving MuchMore exactly what he needs.

muchmorethanmuscle said

So what are you studying in school?.

Health and physical fitness ed. with an emphasis on wellness.

Thanks for the answer. And Ms. Hannah looks really pretty in her nurse outfit. I think I want one for myself.

ActiveAndFit saidWell if it is not attraction, not sex, just platonic friendship then whats all the fuss?

I know on the surface this may not seem like a big deal, but the situations underpinnings are fraught with dramatic potential. First, I'm wanting to do something nice...weird, second, sex is not the driving motivation, third, regardless of how I feel, sexual tension is in the air (the road to my bed is lined with good intentions), and most importantly, anything is a big fuss if it happens to people we find interesting.

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I believe that GG is a big advocate of maintaining a healthy level of sexual tension in his life. It's something he likes.

hey GG, do you have the song that Darryl H is whistling when she's walking down the hall???

Yeah, stored into my memory banks. Any misspelled words this time! I dare you to find any!

The song's called Twisted Nerve by Bernard Hermmannd

ursamajor saidJust do a good turn. I really admire that you want to do a good turn for someone who needs a good turn. It is one of the zillion things to like about you.
Just sayin.

Terry

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Terry, thankyou. Now is a good time to tell you that I viewed your profile for the first time this week. It was a big deal for me because we've communicated in e-mail and in the forums many times during the past several months. However, I never viewed your profile because I thought you were too good for me to admire. Even if I found you totally hot, intelligent, and appealing, I couldn't help but let you fulfill yet another RJ dead thread: the intimidation factor.

Anyway, I viewed your profile pics finally and it was hard. I kept wanting to see you naked the whole time. You are very masculine, which I really like and that alabaster skin is just beautiful....it's so smooth and clean, then you take off your shirt and this big red hairy chest is revealed. You're so hot. You've got this sexy body wrapped up in this distinguished and sophisticated package that is so very well put together.

Then you start talking about what you do in bed and how unfettered you are. That sorta dichotomy in a man is very enviting. I've been enamored before with the likes of COmale, MonsterMuscle, MuchMoreThanMuscle and Steltom, but you out daddy all of them. I wouldn't tell, but I'm an UrsaMajor fan and I don't care who knows. This isn't the first public display of member worship here on RJ. ANd, it won't be the last because I plan to worship you again.

Tks MM. Hermann, eh? That means it must be from some old Hitchcocky thing. Sounds sooo familiar...

Gigi,

Really, I am rarely speechless. (a personality flaw of mine, amongst others)

I thought you wouldn't buddy-list me because I am such a dickhead.

Anyway, that is far-and-away the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me and it makes me feel indescribably good.

More so that is the case given that those incredible compliments come from you (your left nut is probably bigger than my left foot).

See, when I think of you, I am not thinking of a Japanese school girl, oh no, I am thinking...................






Really in humility,
Terry

So who's MonsterMuscle. I did a search for him and it looks as though he doesn't exist.

Oh no, he is gone. Oh well, good thing I put this in my "After School " file.

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GuiltyGear saidOh no, he is gone. Oh well, good thing I put this in my "After School " file.

Dammit! I knew I should have hot-listed him back

I buddied and hotlisted him, but he's simply vanished offa both list. Damn disappearences. These Real Jock vanishings are the worst. Whom is NEXT, I ask you. Whom is next!

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GuiltyGear saidI buddied and hotlisted him, but he's simply vanished offa both list. Damn disappearences. These Real Jock vanishings are the worst. Whom is NEXT, I ask you. Whom is next!

Maybe we should call Scooby and the Gang! Here comes the Mystery Machine!

Now I remember. MonsterMuscle is hot. I'd love to have those body proportions.

says under breath....well, I'm sure he could hook you up with the same guy who helped him get his.