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GHoSTa Posts: 575
Aug 27, 2008 7:54 PM GMT
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Here is a question for you as a gay guy :

Do you think that gay men are better than straight men??



Lots of gay guys answered "yes" .. as they think that gay guys are more intelligent, sensitive, have great taste in everything and are a combination of the femine and the masculine worlds .. which makes them just better than straight guys ..

I admit, I agree ..


What do you guys think??
BodyWork4 Posts: 748
Aug 27, 2008 8:15 PM GMT
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I find gay men give better head
Sedative Posts: 5407
Aug 27, 2008 9:22 PM GMT
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Of course, duh.
tommysguns200... Posts: 920
Aug 27, 2008 9:23 PM GMT
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well, I find that straight men don't mind as much when you fart out loud...in fact they rather think it's funny.

the gay men I know are quite often appalled.

I'm not a big fan of upitty, so....
Sedative Posts: 5407
Aug 27, 2008 9:26 PM GMT
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tommysguns2000 saidwell, I find that straight men don't mind as much when you fart out loud...in fact they rather think it's funny.

the gay men I know are quite often appalled.

I'm not a big fan of upitty, so....


Well, wouldn't you be appalled when you're getting down to it, rimming the guy and then...
dhinkansas Posts: 430
Aug 27, 2008 9:28 PM GMT
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I'm the bad fag that always has crushes on the straighties, so I'll keep my thoughts to myself on this one.
islandofisle Posts: 88
Aug 27, 2008 9:29 PM GMT
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I tend to think I'm better than my straight friends
Sedative Posts: 5407
Aug 27, 2008 9:31 PM GMT
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dhinkansas saidI'm the bad fag that always has crushes on the straighties, so I'll keep my thoughts to myself on this one.


Straighties are too adorable right? Like lost puppies. *sigh*
BigSETXjock Posts: 387
Aug 27, 2008 9:34 PM GMT
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Without a doubt gay men are better than straight men... superior in MANY ways. We are generally more sensitive, more culturally-aware, in better shape, and more hard working.

I think all of this stems from the internalized homophobia that many of us have that we are somehow lacking. We work harder, try harder and achieve me to compensate for a perceived lack caused by being gay.

I personally see being gay as a gift from God.
tommysguns200... Posts: 920
Aug 27, 2008 9:37 PM GMT
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Sedative said
tommysguns2000 saidwell, I find that straight men don't mind as much when you fart out loud...in fact they rather think it's funny.

the gay men I know are quite often appalled.

I'm not a big fan of upitty, so....


Well, wouldn't you be appalled when you're getting down to it, rimming the guy and then...



'umm...ya, sed...in THAT case I'd be a little put out.
GHoSTa Posts: 575
Aug 27, 2008 9:47 PM GMT
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BigSETXjock saidWithout a doubt gay men are better than straight men... superior in MANY ways. We are generally more sensitive, more culturally-aware, in better shape, and more hard working.

I think all of this stems from the internalized homophobia that many of us have that we are somehow lacking. We work harder, try harder and achieve me to compensate for a perceived lack caused by being gay.

I personally see being gay as a gift from God.



That's what I wanted to hear !! let's have something to be proud of - being gay is a bliss .. (although it's not .. sigh)


Now I expect from U guys to take this a tiny bit more seriously ..
EricLA Posts: 1136
Aug 27, 2008 10:12 PM GMT
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I'd like to believe gay men, in general, are the "best," but some gay men are among the most arrogant, self-centered, rascist, and/or misogynistic men I know. And some straight men I know are amont the most sensitive, caring, unselfish men I know (and I wish I they were gay).
Ghen Posts: 471
Aug 27, 2008 10:35 PM GMT
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I've found that there are fewer gays that occupy the 'middle' space.

We just seem to have more energy to put into our projects so they come out better (most/some of the time). That and the whole sociological effects.
ROYCE13 Posts: 92
Aug 27, 2008 10:51 PM GMT
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Really, Guys are you serious about this thread, come on.
Your worlds are small if you think one is better than the other, or I would think
that maybe you were going to discuss more serious characteristics that would define a person as better, even though that is invalid as well, then farts and blow jogs. Unless you did a random sampling of say 100,000 men of each side, all over the world, then perhaps even the farts and blow job hits would be more valid.
ROYCE13 Posts: 92
Aug 27, 2008 10:52 PM GMT
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sorry for the typo, above, blow jobs
dcarm Posts: 291
Aug 27, 2008 11:08 PM GMT
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both or none.
You can't point to a group of people and say "they're the best." For a start, the best at what? Then there's the whole problem of pointing at your own group and saying that you're the best... Not to mention the people who are members of the group who are obviously deficient in whatever qualities are used to define best.
YngHungSFSD Posts: 358
Aug 27, 2008 11:33 PM GMT
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LOL, this is awesome. Best at what? Ok I'l bust it down this way:

Better:

Gay guys: taste, sensitivity, attention to self care, effort on most types of projects, friends, adapt at dealing with challenges and uncertainties, more sophisticated, handing things professionally and with poise.


Straight guys: mechanical things, less narcissistic, less neurotic, calm and relaxed, less easily upset, contact sports like football and martial arts, tend to that straight guy aura that says convert me (haha) tend to be better at having some balls ie asserting themselves and not putting up with peoples shit.
Caslon7000 Posts: 7952
Aug 27, 2008 11:43 PM GMT
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I think gay men are more integrated psychologically and connected with their environments.

Gays dont have the world and their life plans handed to them on a a platter like straight men. Gays are confronted with a huge disconnect between how they feel internally and what the world is telling them. Therefore, from an early age, gays have analyze themselves and their world. They have to take apart what is told to them and how they feel. Then they have to reassemble themselves and how they relate to the world.

This makes for better integrated individuals, if they get thru it.

Str8 menthe other hand are basically stupid apes.
YngHungSFSD Posts: 358
Aug 28, 2008 12:14 AM GMT
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Caslon6000 saidI think gay men are more integrated psychologically and connected with their environments.

Gays dont have the world and their life plans handed to them on a a platter like straight men. Gays are confronted with a huge disconnect between how they feel internally and what the world is telling them. Therefore, from an early age, gays have analyze themselves and their world. They have to take apart what is told to them and how they feel. Then they have to reassemble themselves and how they relate to the world.

This makes for better integrated individuals, if they get thru it.




Excellent point bro, and well said.

Pattison Posts: 1991
Aug 28, 2008 12:15 AM GMT
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Come on how can you say gay men are better than str8 men, oh please.

One was born a fag, a pure one too.

Yet I live in the str8 world, as I find str8 men (note one did not say all) more accepting than gay men. Just look though some of these threads, and you can see how nasty, spiteful, so many gay men can be because another dose not think within their square, or think their country is the best on earth, or their religion.

Str8 men are also have their trails and tribulations, youth is not just hard for a homosexual. They also have more responsibility. if they achieve it's has more to do with being a good provider, and not just pure status.

Not only str8 men have things handed to them from family. One was born an aristocrat. One was born with status, so not all men are born equal. My sexuality has nothing to do with it, it would be the same if I was born str8. The only difference would be. One may of had a son to pass it onto.

Are gay men better than str8 men, maybe at giving head. My str8 mates know how too dress sharp too. Lot of well educated dumb gay men too. Not just str8 guys.

Oh as a pure homosexual. One whom lives out in the real world, and not a gay ghetto, and I've lived in both, and my life was not enhanced, for my mind broadened by living in a gay ghetto, yet it has from living in the real world.

Yet I'm still a pure homosexual, and the only fag in the village.

Oh nor is One self hating. I'm happy with being the only fag in the village.
I am at peace with my sexuality, but maybe not the community I was born into. As I've found it to be superficial, mean, shallow. Where guys will put the right of their dick, before the right of another's life.

Just One man thoughts. But to say gays are better than str8s. Good and bad in each. But I have two gay husbands, that I love dearly.
B71115 Posts: 85
Aug 28, 2008 2:11 AM GMT
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Gay guys are much more entertaining on MTV's "Next"

BodyWork4 Posts: 748
Aug 28, 2008 1:53 PM GMT
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Me thinks we doth pontificate too much...

Why is this important and/or why should anyone care?
I know gay men who can only be defined as ASS
And I can say the same of some straight guys...

As well I can say I've met some outstanding men whose approaches to all apsects of life should be applauded and never once was I questioning their sexuality.

Men are men... it's who you are that defines you, not what...

Being gay is just another fabric of the person, much like the color of his or her skin - neither makes you BETTER. It's the threads that tie it all together that make the man.
Ikaros Posts: 359
Aug 28, 2008 2:41 PM GMT
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Oooh! The One said he's the only fag in the village!
Everyone needs to drink a shot
Funkapottomou... Posts: 303
Aug 28, 2008 2:43 PM GMT
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GHoSTa said
Here is a question for you as a gay guy :

Do you think that gay men are better than straight men??



Lots of gay guys answered "yes" .. as they think that gay guys are more intelligent, sensitive, have great taste in everything and are a combination of the femine and the masculine worlds .. which makes them just better than straight guys ..

I admit, I agree ..


What do you guys think??




better than someone else just because they don't conform to your standard set of rules?

judoguy Posts: 101
Aug 28, 2008 4:10 PM GMT
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this is too silly

normally in the forums 95% of guys posting agree on how bad stereotyping is... guess you just mean the negative kind... I find the postive stereotypes come from the same kind of ignorance/narrowmindedness even if it's meant well.

good fashion sense, good listeners, good dancers, lights of the party, artistic, creative, career driven... aren't the gays just fabulous? I met one at a party once!

(when do they make a smiley icon that pukes ???)

don't you just love black people too? they have such wonderful soulful singing voices and sense of rythm and music.
and asians are such hard workers with such a talent for science and technology. I don't know which is better?

but to answer the question here gay or straight...

I have a straight roommate and he's really good with assembling furniture and programming vcr's, and I'll pick out his wardrobe for him and give him advice on wine and cooking. but since he's not interested in sex with me I'll have to say gay guys are better
Sedative Posts: 5407
Aug 28, 2008 9:06 PM GMT
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judoguy
I have a straight roommate and he's really good with assembling furniture and programming vcr's, and I'll pick out his wardrobe for him and give him advice on wine and cooking. but since he's not interested in sex with me I'll have to say gay guys are better


OMG! Stereotyper!

How would you know he wouldn't sleep with you?
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2767
Aug 28, 2008 9:24 PM GMT
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I like to build things, can program electronics and do all that manly stuff but when it comes down to deciphering what kind of man I am my friends choose to happily emasculate me and call me a lesbian...


Erh...wait....emasculate and lesbian... I can't believe I just used those two words in the same sentence. ...
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Aug 28, 2008 9:26 PM GMT
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Ikaros saidOooh! The One said he's the only fag in the village!
Everyone needs to drink a shot


ROFL Ikaros
lilTanker Posts: 1143
Aug 28, 2008 9:27 PM GMT
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hmmm does having all straight friends answer the question for me?

I like my straighties, there faaaaaaaaaaar more relaxed, don't get hung up about shit, enjoy just hanging out (without any pretense) can kid around better then any gay guy I've met and generally give a damn about me beyond being a gay guy.

many gay guys I've meet are to preoccupied with being gay...

Mind you, there are the exceptions and I call them mates too..

but I think we are both equal and different.
Sedative Posts: 5407
Aug 28, 2008 9:33 PM GMT
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muchmorethanmuscle saidI like to build things, can program electronics and do all that manly stuff but when it comes down to deciphering what kind of man I am my friends choose to happily emasculate me and call me a lesbian...


Erh...wait....emasculate and lesbian... I can't believe I just used those two words in the same sentence. ...


Damn, that's like saying G0Y and Buttsex!
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2767
Aug 28, 2008 9:49 PM GMT
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LOL!


I know, right?!
dhinkansas Posts: 430
Aug 28, 2008 9:51 PM GMT
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Wow...if all lezbos look like muchmorethanm, sign me up.
Sedative Posts: 5407
Aug 28, 2008 10:02 PM GMT
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dhinkansas saidWow...if all lezbos look like muchmorethanm, sign me up.


Sup dood?
HndsmKansan Posts: 3129
Aug 28, 2008 10:05 PM GMT
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I think the word "better" is way too ambigious to answer the question

Its like asking if a certain horse is "better" than another or anything else for that matter.
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Aug 28, 2008 11:05 PM GMT
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HndsmKansan saidI think the word "better" is way too ambigious to answer the question

Its like asking if a certain horse is "better" than another or anything else for that matter.


There he goes, being all sober and even-handed again. Sigh.
ursamajor Posts: 1418
Aug 28, 2008 11:09 PM GMT
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There he goes again :-)
metta8 Posts: 287
Aug 28, 2008 11:18 PM GMT
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no, not better....just a little different.
judoguy Posts: 101
Aug 28, 2008 11:25 PM GMT
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Sedative said
judoguy
I have a straight roommate and he's really good with assembling furniture and programming vcr's, and I'll pick out his wardrobe for him and give him advice on wine and cooking. but since he's not interested in sex with me I'll have to say gay guys are better


OMG! Stereotyper!

How would you know he wouldn't sleep with you?


Well he always complains about how difficult women are and how he doesn't get them and their hidden messages sometimes. so he jokes that it'd be much easier if he were gay (yeah we have it sooo easy, happy happy joy joy 24- 7! lol) the only thing stopping him is the sex part and he's pretty sure he wouldn't try it out.

and I tell him he's an idiot, cos the sex part is kinda the definition of being gay

he's smoking hot though... such a waste
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