SAHEM62896 saidI don't think it's necessary, but it's a courteous thing to do, don't you thin? They just paid you a compliment after all.
No, they just pushed a button to add you to a list. I add people to a hot list all the time but I don't expect a reaction from anyone.
Even if it is just a click of a button, someone is letting you know that they find you attractive. Who cares about HOW they let you know, the point is that they DID let you know. Is it really going to kill you to take a second out of your life to show some appreciation?
No it won't kill me, but a reply is an open invitation to start conversation, which nearly EVERYTIME starts off and continues on about their attraction towards me no matter how much I try to skew the conversation away from that topic.
I will talk to people who hot list me only if I find them attractive. It makes sense since the topic they conveyed was exclusively their attraction towards me. So it justifies me not talking to them solely based on my lack of attraction towards them. We're both superficial in this case.
However, I will respond to messages if they pose some sort of topic other than "I find you attractive," which is about 5% of the messages I receive.
I do not appreciate you and I took more than a second to let you know that. ;)