I wonder if I'm losing my taste for men..

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    Oct 06, 2012 2:37 PM GMT
    I guess i'm jaded.
    Guys haven't been on my mind lately.

    Even guys i would normally think attractive are boring to me.

    I pulled back after being on date after date for nothing. Feeling like an addict just hoping "maybe"... Maybe that one date would be the awesome one to open the doors for the love thing.. And now i'm just rolling my eyes.

    I want to just have male friends, now..

    I don't want desperate fag hags.
    I want to be around manly men that aren't obsessed about their bodies or looks all the time and aren't going to act like cats any minute..

    No drama. No arguing.

    It's nice to not talk about Madonna, sometimes.

    If my hungry doesn't return, i guess i'll become a priest or a monk.

    I may be losing taste in men but i still hate women.


    http://www.bilerico.com/2010/09/being_boring_bored_and_gay.php
  • rnch

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    Oct 06, 2012 3:07 PM GMT
    contrary to the stereotype/myth about gay men; not every one of us is a 24/7 "horndog" icon_exclaim.gif
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    Oct 06, 2012 3:10 PM GMT
    rnch saidcontrary to the stereotype/myth about gay men; not every one of us is a 24/7 "horndog" icon_exclaim.gif


    Also not everyone needs to be in a relationship.

    OP, if you dont want to date then why bother? Nothing wrong with taking care of yourself for a while...
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    Oct 06, 2012 4:48 PM GMT
    jprichva saidI know what you mean. I have zero desire for women but sometimes men just annoy the crap out of me.



    Seen on a mens room wall in DC Eagle some years ago:

    "No matter how sexy he looks, some where, some guy is sick of putting up with his bullshit!"
  • TheBizMan

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    Oct 06, 2012 5:09 PM GMT
    Is there a way to make my beard grow slower? I shaved yesterday and you probably wouldn't be able to tell today.
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    Oct 06, 2012 5:28 PM GMT
    TheBizMan saidIs there a way to make my beard grow slower? I shaved yesterday and you probably wouldn't be able to tell today.


    1. Rip your skin off
    2. ???
    5. Profit!!
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 06, 2012 5:49 PM GMT
    TheBizMan saidIs there a way to make my beard grow slower? I shaved yesterday and you probably wouldn't be able to tell today.


    No, but you look good with a shadow.icon_wink.gif
  • TheBizMan

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    Oct 06, 2012 6:00 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    TheBizMan saidIs there a way to make my beard grow slower? I shaved yesterday and you probably wouldn't be able to tell today.


    No, but you look good with a shadow.icon_wink.gif


    Bahaha ! I thought I was posting in the "what's on your mind" thread lol!

    Thanks for the compliment icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 06, 2012 6:30 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    rnch saidcontrary to the stereotype/myth about gay men; not every one of us is a 24/7 "horndog" icon_exclaim.gif


    Also not everyone needs to be in a relationship.

    OP, if you dont want to date then why bother? Nothing wrong with taking care of yourself for a while...


    Thanks. Sometimes I do that. I ate with a friend yesterday in a gay place and all the guys there ALL they do is go there. Same thing every day. Same people. They were lonely and 40's. That's not happy.. Is that what gay men grow up to? Lonely with only their dogs going to the same bars every day to see the same people? It's sad.

    Even the guys that aren't "horndogs" aren't horndogs when compared to someone else. Bad comparison, whoever.

    It's a gay habit now to only have sex, go to the gym, go to work, sleep, eat, decorate and have more sex? because they want substance but once they get sex they don't want substance no more.

    Nobody buying cows because all the people do milking free.
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    Oct 06, 2012 6:34 PM GMT
    Maybe give yourself some time before dating again. It just sounds to me like you are tired of feeling disappointed.Focus on you for now, and cherish the friends you have. I believe the best relationships start from friendships, so maybe just make new friends for now and see if it leads anywhere.

    This is just me being a hopeless romantic, but Never give up on loveicon_biggrin.gif.
    (I've obviously watched too many romantc moviesicon_rolleyes.gif )
  • rnch

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    Oct 06, 2012 7:17 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    TheBizMan saidIs there a way to make my beard grow slower? I shaved yesterday and you probably wouldn't be able to tell today.


    No, but you look good with a shadow.icon_wink.gif




    agree icon_exclaim.gif
  • Kriss

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    Oct 06, 2012 7:38 PM GMT
    I think its probably time to sit back and relax lol. Grab a book, watch the sunset, eat some cheescake.

    JK but not really. I would have to agree with most of the advice being given sit down and focus on yourself.
  • robevans912

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    Oct 06, 2012 8:09 PM GMT
    rnch saidcontrary to the stereotype/myth about gay men; not every one of us is a 24/7 "horndog" icon_exclaim.gif



    You're right. 23/7 horndogs is more accurate.
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    Oct 06, 2012 8:19 PM GMT
    Arcturus saidI guess i'm jaded.
    Guys haven't been on my mind lately.

    Even guys i would normally think attractive are boring to me.

    I pulled back after being on date after date for nothing. Feeling like an addict just hoping "maybe"... Maybe that one date would be the awesome one to open the doors for the love thing.. And now i'm just rolling my eyes.

    I want to just have male friends, now..

    I don't want desperate fag hags.
    I want to be around manly men that aren't obsessed about their bodies or looks all the time and aren't going to act like cats any minute..

    No drama. No arguing.

    It's nice to not talk about Madonna, sometimes.

    If my hungry doesn't return, i guess i'll become a priest or a monk.

    I may be losing taste in men but i still hate women.


    http://www.bilerico.com/2010/09/being_boring_bored_and_gay.php



    I'm not fond of you using "hate" in reference to the fairer sex, that may be petty but i'm not fond of it at all. Perhaps the lack of fulfillment has left you tired, your sick of all the shallow behavior of most guys which is highly understandable. but lets take a minute. what about yourself is always drawn to people of this caliber? also I feel personally and forgive me for making guess when i know very little about you as as an individual, that your probably to an extent the very thing you dislike. perhaps it's time you take a break and do some soul searching. If reading interests you then read a book on the subject if there is one. Learn about yourself further on. "Manly men" is also subjective, and frankly it's somewhat of a two-dimensional construct. go find yourself for a while, take yourself out on dates, enjoy you, spend more time with friends or family or whoever is your own personal comfort. I wish guys weren't on mind, perhaps i'm misguided in saying this but your rather lucky in the sense that all the fuss is muted and out of your sites, so no more stressing over the petty things in order to have a slim chance at gaining attraction. I'm slightly envious of that.
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    Oct 06, 2012 8:20 PM GMT
    I think you should move to a new city to switch things up (new sights new people new everything). be in a relationship w yourself //.you also might be asexual
  • Pyre85

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    Oct 06, 2012 8:31 PM GMT
    Trust me, straight men are just as bitchy as gay men, they just disguise it with macho bull crap. The things my female friends tell me about their boyfriends have said and done has dispelled any last hope that they aren't just as needy and insecure as the rest of us lol
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    Oct 06, 2012 9:31 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said

    And maybe then you can actually upload pics of yourself. The pic you're using now is great though....the whole series is actually:
    http://www.snappedshots.com/pix/lightbox/gal54.php
    Whoever that guy is who's pic you're using, he's a babe. icon_wink.gif


    That's me. I don't live in Cuba to work with him. I live in miami.
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    Oct 06, 2012 9:34 PM GMT
    Daveyarri20 said
    Arcturus saidI guess i'm jaded.
    Guys haven't been on my mind lately.



    http://www.bilerico.com/2010/09/being_boring_bored_and_gay.php



    I'm not fond of you using "hate" in reference to the fairer sex, that may be petty but i'm not fond of it at all. Perhaps the lack of fulfillment has left you tired, your sick of all the shallow behavior of most guys which is highly understandable. but lets take a minute. what about yourself is always drawn to people of this caliber? also I feel personally and forgive me for making guess when i know very little about you as as an individual, that your probably to an extent the very thing you dislike. perhaps it's time you take a break and do some soul searching. If reading interests you then read a book on the subject if there is one. Learn about yourself further on. "Manly men" is also subjective, and frankly it's somewhat of a two-dimensional construct. go find yourself for a while, take yourself out on dates, enjoy you, spend more time with friends or family or whoever is your own personal comfort. I wish guys weren't on mind, perhaps i'm misguided in saying this but your rather lucky in the sense that all the fuss is muted and out of your sites, so no more stressing over the petty things in order to have a slim chance at gaining attraction. I'm slightly envious of that.


    Work on myself? If i'm happy by myself why do i need somebody else? If i'm happy by myself i won't care about anybody else. I'm scared about that. I'll be like every other gay men with only my dog,
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    Oct 06, 2012 10:12 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    rnch saidcontrary to the stereotype/myth about gay men; not every one of us is a 24/7 "horndog" icon_exclaim.gif


    Also not everyone needs to be in a relationship.

    OP, if you dont want to date then why bother? Nothing wrong with taking care of yourself for a while...

    Both of these explain the state I'm in... though hooking up would be wild, and dating would be fun... I'm in no dire need for either to any extreme right now; although I would appreciate something really good, if the situation should arise.

    @OP: also consider getting away from the negative people in your life as much as possible. Sometimes just being around assholes is enough to kill any love and joy we have latent inside us. . . sometimes!
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    Oct 06, 2012 11:37 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Arcturus said
    yourname2000 said

    And maybe then you can actually upload pics of yourself. The pic you're using now is great though....the whole series is actually:
    http://www.snappedshots.com/pix/lightbox/gal54.php
    Whoever that guy is who's pic you're using, he's a babe. icon_wink.gif


    That's me. I don't live in Cuba to work with him. I live in miami.

    Well, let's find out....I've emailed the photographer. icon_wink.gif


    Tell him to take your picure too. Haha icon_biggrin.gif Your so sexy!
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    Oct 06, 2012 11:57 PM GMT
    I'm tired of eating this delicious chocolate cookie. I've been eating the same chocolate cookie my whole life. What a boring, uninteresting life. Same Chocolate Cookie.

    Excuse my reach, but are you going to eat that cookie?

    You may call my chocolate cookie boring. But I call that pound cake you're trying to serve me a waste of calories. Now give me back my cookie, damn it.
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    Oct 07, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
    Was that photo set taken at Bill Bags State Park?
  • wellwell

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    Oct 07, 2012 12:15 AM GMT
    zeffery saidI think you should move to a new city to switch things up (new sights new people new everything). be in a relationship w yourself //.you also might be asexual


    Agreed: Move to Albuquerque.
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    Oct 07, 2012 12:18 AM GMT
    http://www.snappedshots.com/pix/lightbox/gal54.php

    this too
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    Oct 07, 2012 12:28 AM GMT
    How are you meeting these guys you are dating? 99% of the guys on dating apps are undateable or incapable of maintaining a relationship.