a dick too big?

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    Oct 07, 2012 6:52 PM GMT
    Is it possible for a man's dick to be too big for anal sex?

    the girth too much? The length too long?

    Has anyone ever had an issue with this?
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    Oct 07, 2012 6:57 PM GMT
    Ummmm....no. There's hasn't been a mountain I haven't been able to climb yet....

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    Oct 07, 2012 7:03 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidUmmmm....no. There's hasn't been a mountain I haven't been able to climb yet....

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    seriously tho?
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    Oct 07, 2012 7:13 PM GMT
    * serious face *

    One of the few good qualities my last bf had was a big dick. Me being a super bottom didn't mind it. But once our relationship hit rocky roads it became more and more uncomfortable for me to have sex with him. I guess the more and more I saw myself falling outta love with him, the more and more it became both mentally and physically difficult for me to take his dick. By the end of the relationship I had no desire to have sex with him. Even if his dick was still the same.

    As soon as we broke up and I started seeing other guys, I came across many men who were larger than the ex. Both length and girth wise, and you know what? I had no issue taking them. If I'm really into a guy, there is nothing more I want to do than make him happy. So I'm willing to take a little pain to get to the pleasure.


    So to sum it up, no I rarely have problems, unless he is a total douchebag and I don't like the guy....
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    Oct 07, 2012 7:18 PM GMT
    silicone lube, rimming, fingering, poppers, lust of the bttm and the patience and entry skills of the top should solve any size issues.
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    Oct 07, 2012 7:24 PM GMT
    sex is frustrating. icon_sad.gif

    im usually a top but this guy im seeing asked me to bottom for him so i've been trying and i suck at it. I cant just open up and take this big fuckin dick he has. thing is huge. prob easy 9/10inches...thick, daamn

    and I ate chipotle today so i def cant bottom for him tonight icon_sad.gif


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    Oct 07, 2012 7:29 PM GMT
    klassik saidsex is frustrating. icon_sad.gif

    im usually a top but this guy im seeing asked me to bottom for him so i've been trying and i suck at it. I cant just open up and take this big fuckin dick he has. thing is huge. prob easy 9/10inches...thick, daamn

    and I ate chipotle today so i def cant bottom for him tonight icon_sad.gif





    #bottomproblems


    Sounds like you aren't a bottom at all. Most bottoms will have no issue taking a big dick if they are really into a guy. So either you aren't a bottom, or aren't into the guy????


    Perhaps pictures of said penis will give us a clearer understanding of the situation....
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    Oct 08, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said...

    Perhaps pictures of said penis will give us a clearer understanding of the situation....


    Yes. This.

    OP: Also, please take the picture against a "control reference", such as a standard US$1 bill. You can wrap the hard dick in the money to show us girth. You can place two $1 bills length-wise underneath the hard dick to give us all an accurate representation of penis length. Measure from the top of the dick, not from underneath. Some folks who measure from underneath start clear back to the anus.
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    Oct 08, 2012 7:38 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    klassik saidsex is frustrating. icon_sad.gif

    im usually a top but this guy im seeing asked me to bottom for him so i've been trying and i suck at it. I cant just open up and take this big fuckin dick he has. thing is huge. prob easy 9/10inches...thick, daamn

    and I ate chipotle today so i def cant bottom for him tonight icon_sad.gif





    #bottomproblems


    Sounds like you aren't a bottom at all. Most bottoms will have no issue taking a big dick if they are really into a guy. So either you aren't a bottom, or aren't into the guy????


    Perhaps pictures of said penis will give us a clearer understanding of the situation....


    I have to agree with jmusmc85 on that. If you are a true bottom, it wouldn't be too difficult for you to take his dick. However, if this is the first you've bottomed for, it will be a little hard to take a 9-10 inch dick on the first go. I've never taken anything that big before. I think the biggest was an 8 inch and it wasn't bad at all. He knew what he was doing and everything was ok. Maybe you can get some toys and more lube to help loosen you up a bit. The guys that I've topped usually can take it after taking it slow for a bit and then its smooth sailing. Its usually the smaller, thinner dicks that hurt generally.

    Good luck with being the bottom though. Hopefully it works out for you bud!
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    Oct 08, 2012 7:57 PM GMT
    GAMRican said
    jmusmc85 said...

    Perhaps pictures of said penis will give us a clearer understanding of the situation....


    Yes. This.

    OP: Also, please take the picture against a "control reference", such as a standard US$1 bill. You can wrap the hard dick in the money to show us girth. You can place two $1 bills length-wise underneath the hard dick to give us all an accurate representation of penis length. Measure from the top of the dick, not from underneath. Some folks who measure from underneath start clear back to the anus.


    I love how US money is so universal and expressive. Like the Esperanto of kink.
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    Oct 08, 2012 8:53 PM GMT
    GAMRican said..



    OP: Also, please take the picture against a "control reference", such as a standard US$1 bill. You can wrap the hard dick in the money to show us girth. You can place two $1 bills length-wise underneath the hard dick to give us all an accurate representation of penis length.


    I'm waiting for someone to say "And then send me the dollar bills so I can sniff them!" LOL

    I had a buddy in the Marines who confided that he was having ED problems whenever he was intimate with his GF.
    I told him to get a roll of stamps (yes, children stamps used to come in rolls of perforated 20s...what? Stamps. You know...the thing you place on a letter to mail it----never mind! Google it!) and place around his penis when he went to bed at night and if the stamps were still connected to go see a specialist. But if he broke the perforations, then the problem was in his mind, not his dick.


    He finally ditched the bitch and made the switch!icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 08, 2012 8:58 PM GMT
    [quote]


    I love how US money is so universal and expressive. Like the Esperanto of kink.[/quote]

    ^this just made my day haha
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    Oct 09, 2012 12:47 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidUmmmm....no. There's hasn't been a mountain I haven't been able to climb yet....

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    I will second this to a T lol.

    Never too big.