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AshLeon Posts: 148
Aug 28, 2008 7:14 AM GMT
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GAH! I'm officially a horrible person.

I was all set up to go on a date with this guy. We had been chatting on msn alright for over a week and he seemed like a cool guy. I was supposed to call him at 4:30 to decide where we were meeting, but I got stuck doing some work stuff and I couldn't call him until an hour later. I finally called him and when he answered I was like

The guy has a squeaky voice.

It's like talking to a cartoon, srsly. He might've tutored the guy who does Spongebob's voice.

I told him I was sorry for calling him late, and when he asked about the date I told him I had to do some more work stuff so we'd have to reschedule and when he asked when I was available I just told him I didn't know.

And now I don't know what to do! *runs around in circles*
Caslon8000 Posts: 8510
Aug 28, 2008 7:27 AM GMT
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Hey, you're not a bad person. ...Look at it this way. ...You saved him from having to deal with ....ummmmm.... well, let's just say ....ummmm .... you. ....I mean is that thing on your face real???? ....
muchmorethanm... Posts: 2850
Aug 28, 2008 7:39 AM GMT
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I agree, he's better off without you flaking and judging him for not having an acceptable voice.
a1972guy Posts: 2343
Aug 28, 2008 5:38 PM GMT
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First off, IM'ing and all is cool with someone and all, but BEFORE you make a date, you BETTER talk with them first!!! At least get a more personal feel about them and you can hear what they sound like prior! Secondly, you're not a bad person! It happens!!!
McGay Posts: 3331
Aug 28, 2008 5:39 PM GMT
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Are there risks to dating the squeaky voiced?
jakebenson Posts: 1138
Aug 28, 2008 6:31 PM GMT
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AshLeon saidGAH! I'm officially a horrible person.

And now I don't know what to do! *runs around in circles*


You have three options:

(1) The passive approach
Don't answer any of his calls in hopes that he stops calling

(2) The total lie approach
Say you got back with your ex

(3) The blunt approach
Tell him that you do not find his voice attractive and therefore don't think this will work out.

One approach isn't universally better than the other. Any of the three can work well depending on the circumstances.
RunintheCity Posts: 1571
Aug 28, 2008 6:33 PM GMT
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McGay saidAre there risks to dating the squeaky voiced?


That was my question. Is the implication here that he seems - by voice alone - to be somehow effeminate and therefore unworthy of a meeting?
docmarvy Posts: 102
Aug 28, 2008 6:45 PM GMT
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I'm going to be the only one who will rush to your defense on this.

My entire family was brutally murdered by giant squirrels that had learned to walk upright and who had disguised themselves as gay guys hooking up on the internet. The only thing that distinguished them was their squeaky voices and their propensity towards climbing trees.

That squeaky voice was a clear indication that your potential paramour was not to be trusted.

ursamajor Posts: 1898
Aug 28, 2008 6:49 PM GMT
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Even if he isn't an ax murderer he's probably hung like a mouse.

No obligation exists to people whom you haven't met, even if you chatted with them online, beyond politely saying,

"Dude you sound like a fucking homicidal squirrel and I am just not into meeting - sorry".

Terry


jc_online Posts: 326
Aug 28, 2008 6:53 PM GMT
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You could try the old-
"Dude, it's not you...it's me."

NNJfitandbi Posts: 1330
Aug 28, 2008 6:53 PM GMT
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This reminds me of the post a few weeks back where the guy asked if it was all right that he wasn't into Asian guys.

Are you bragging about this, or asking for advice (you "don't know what to do"), or wanting assurance that you're not a "horrible person"?

What's the purpose of the post, man?
jakebenson Posts: 1138
Aug 28, 2008 7:11 PM GMT
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docmarvy saidI'm going to be the only one who will rush to your defense on this.

My entire family was brutally murdered by giant squirrels that had learned to walk upright and who had disguised themselves as gay guys hooking up on the internet. The only thing that distinguished them was their squeaky voices and their propensity towards climbing trees.

That squeaky voice was a clear indication that your potential paramour was not to be trusted.



AHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA!!!!!!
zsocerstar Posts: 109
Aug 28, 2008 7:21 PM GMT
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NNJfitandbi said

Are you bragging about this, or asking for advice (you "don't know what to do"), or wanting assurance that you're not a "horrible person"?

What's the purpose of the post, man?



thank you!!!
AshLeon Posts: 148
Aug 28, 2008 7:36 PM GMT
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Mmmhh... I suppose the purpose of this post IS me wanting assurance that I am not, in fact, a horrible person, now that I think about it.

And RunintheCity, it's not that it's an effeminate voice, it's a squeaky voice. Effeminate, I wouldn't mind.
McGay Posts: 3331
Aug 28, 2008 7:39 PM GMT
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Just rub a little lube in his throat.
nautilie7 Posts: 108
Aug 28, 2008 7:43 PM GMT
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McGay saidJust rub a little lube in his throat.


Yeah.. maybe it could make him sounds like Vin Diesel ...
BodyWork4 Posts: 1014
Aug 28, 2008 7:58 PM GMT
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Maybe he's a Helium Addict...


could be worse
bgcat57 Posts: 1137
Aug 28, 2008 8:10 PM GMT
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BodyWork4 saidMaybe he's a Helium Addict...


could be worse


ROTFLMAO!!!
RunintheCity Posts: 1571
Aug 28, 2008 8:13 PM GMT
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AshLeon said
And RunintheCity, it's not that it's an effeminate voice, it's a squeaky voice. Effeminate, I wouldn't mind.


Ok. Like Screech from Saved By the Bell?

In that case, perhaps you can deepen it for him...by inserting your cock and stretching his cords.
AshLeon Posts: 148
Aug 28, 2008 8:32 PM GMT
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RunintheCity said
AshLeon said
And RunintheCity, it's not that it's an effeminate voice, it's a squeaky voice. Effeminate, I wouldn't mind.


Ok. Like Screech from Saved By the Bell?

In that case, perhaps you can deepen it for him...by inserting your cock and stretching his cords.


Well, as long as it's for his own good.
joeindallas Posts: 452
Aug 28, 2008 9:18 PM GMT
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Squeaky voice just imagine the squeal he wil let out when he achieve orgasm Could your Neighbors handle it?
Sedative Posts: 6114
Aug 28, 2008 10:11 PM GMT
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It pays to be careful nowadays.

BigSETXjock Posts: 400
Aug 28, 2008 10:20 PM GMT
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I'm assuming there must have been something appealing about this guy otherwise you wouldn't have asked him out in the first place. If he is attractive with a nice body, then why would his voice matter?

Either way, why not go ahead and have your date with him. You can always say "I think we'd be better suited as friends." At the very least, you've made another friend in the world. What do you have to lose by spending an hour at dinner with the guy?

And who knows... maybe he's packing some big equipment down south that you don't know about!
BigSETXjock Posts: 400
Aug 28, 2008 10:23 PM GMT
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docmarvy saidMy entire family was brutally murdered by giant squirrels that had learned to walk upright and who had disguised themselves as gay guys hooking up on the internet. The only thing that distinguished them was their squeaky voices and their propensity towards climbing trees.

That squeaky voice was a clear indication that your potential paramour was not to be trusted.



This is probably the funniest post I have ever seen on Real Jock! As Mr. Burns would say to Smithers on the Simpsons... "EXCELLENT."
joeindallas Posts: 452
Aug 28, 2008 10:25 PM GMT
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Sed good one Always knew Ken had a think for GI Joe
meninlove Posts: 1831
Aug 29, 2008 4:19 AM GMT
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Hey AshLeon,

Maybe the guy's just nervous?
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Aug 29, 2008 4:46 AM GMT
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AshLeon saidGAH! I'm officially a horrible person.

I was all set up to go on a date with this guy. We had been chatting on msn alright for over a week and he seemed like a cool guy. I was supposed to call him at 4:30 to decide where we were meeting, but I got stuck doing some work stuff and I couldn't call him until an hour later. I finally called him and when he answered I was like

The guy has a squeaky voice.

It's like talking to a cartoon, srsly. He might've tutored the guy who does Spongebob's voice.

I told him I was sorry for calling him late, and when he asked about the date I told him I had to do some more work stuff so we'd have to reschedule and when he asked when I was available I just told him I didn't know.

And now I don't know what to do! *runs around in circles*


For all us squeakies out there.
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Aug 29, 2008 4:52 AM GMT
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docmarvy saidI'm going to be the only one who will rush to your defense on this.

My entire family was brutally murdered by giant squirrels that had learned to walk upright and who had disguised themselves as gay guys hooking up on the internet. The only thing that distinguished them was their squeaky voices and their propensity towards climbing trees.

That squeaky voice was a clear indication that your potential paramour was not to be trusted.



Guy101 Posts: 941
Aug 29, 2008 5:00 AM GMT
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That's horrible. you didn't even give the guy a chance before you flaked out on because of the sound of his voice. For all you know he might've been sufferring from a cold (i know my voice gets squeaky when I have throat cold). You should be ashamed of yourself for acting so nelly.

For all you know you just missed out of the best thing ever but because of a voice you found annoying and was like

Seriously you should get over yourself and not be such a flake over something like that. I bet once you got off the phone with the guy he probably realized you wouldn't be interested in because of his. I dount if he'll IM you again because of your flakeness. I know I wouldn't.
Chuy2010 Posts: 264
Aug 29, 2008 5:00 AM GMT
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Id prefer a squeaky voice than a femmy guy. If your phone reception caused you to hear wrong...what if he's hott as hell in person.

I always meet someone in person before judging them prematurely and ending all chance of a good fun run. I dont think anyone sounds hott over the phone and if they do theyre prob not good looking in person.


AshLeon Posts: 148
Aug 29, 2008 5:26 AM GMT
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Ok, since I already told you about the guy, I might as well tell you what's going on with him now.

I'm thinking that what BigSETXjock (and others) said is true, and that it's completely bitchy and immature of me to act like the guy has something wrong when I haven't even met him.

At least now I know not to be worried unless he finds it inevitable to run up trees and orders nut-based things where ever we go.
AshLeon Posts: 148
Aug 29, 2008 5:47 AM GMT
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Guy101 saidThat's horrible. you didn't even give the guy a chance before you flaked out on because of the sound of his voice. For all you know he might've been sufferring from a cold (i know my voice gets squeaky when I have throat cold). You should be ashamed of yourself for acting so nelly.

For all you know you just missed out of the best thing ever but because of a voice you found annoying and was like

Seriously you should get over yourself and not be such a flake over something like that. I bet once you got off the phone with the guy he probably realized you wouldn't be interested in because of his. I dount if he'll IM you again because of your flakeness. I know I wouldn't.


He just did, so HA!

But you're right, and if he doesn't want to meet me I will feel completely stupid. I mean, he's pulling the "I'm busy" card right now (of course the guy dances, practices dance, goes to classes, and has a job, so he probably IS busy) but he asked about the rescheduling of the date in the first place, so I don't know.
redheadguy Posts: 2366
Aug 29, 2008 5:57 AM GMT
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He sounds like a great guy with lots going on in his life.

One word for you: FAIL!
lilmann Posts: 545
Aug 29, 2008 6:06 AM GMT
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a1972guy saidFirst off, IM'ing and all is cool with someone and all, but BEFORE you make a date, you BETTER talk with them first!!! At least get a more personal feel about them and you can hear what they sound like prior! Secondly, you're not a bad person! It happens!!!


What he said
ActiveAndFit Posts: 2930
Aug 29, 2008 7:01 AM GMT
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Just be grateful he doesn't laugh like Jon McCain
Laurence Posts: 643
Aug 29, 2008 9:40 AM GMT
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You sound lovely Ash(I'm being sarcastic).

I agree with the others on here and think maybe you're a flake and that he's had a lucky escape.

Now that he's giving you the round around, I imagine he thought you sounded a bit boring from your tone of voice and can't find the right words to let you down.

Maybe you should give up messaging people until you grow up and learn to be less judgemental.

Loz
Pattison Posts: 2103
Aug 29, 2008 12:01 PM GMT
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ursamajor saidEven if he isn't an ax murderer he's probably hung like a mouse.

No obligation exists to people whom you haven't met, even if you chatted with them online, beyond politely saying,

"Dude you sound like a fucking homicidal squirrel and I am just not into meeting - sorry".

Terry



Terry have you seen the way a mouses dick touches the ground, now they have to look out for ground hogs.
Pattison Posts: 2103
Aug 29, 2008 12:02 PM GMT
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ActiveAndFit saidJust be grateful he doesn't laugh like Jon McCain


But he may have a box of cigars on hand like free willie. Sorry Bill.
Pattison Posts: 2103
Aug 29, 2008 12:09 PM GMT
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Confucius say: man is not able to talk with mouth full of prick.

Confucius also say: man whom has hands in pockets will feel dickey.

Confucius also say.: man whom finger women whilst menstruating, will be court red handed..
McGay Posts: 3331
Aug 29, 2008 1:14 PM GMT
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also: You can always prick your finger, but, never finger your prick.
also: He who go to bed with itchie hiney, wake up with smelly finger.
AshLeon Posts: 148
Aug 29, 2008 8:28 PM GMT
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Laurence saidYou sound lovely Ash(I'm being sarcastic).

I agree with the others on here and think maybe you're a flake and that he's had a lucky escape.

Now that he's giving you the round around, I imagine he thought you sounded a bit boring from your tone of voice and can't find the right words to let you down.

Maybe you should give up messaging people until you grow up and learn to be less judgemental.

Loz


Oh, I am <3

I'm just capable of way more shallowness than I knew I was capable of. It could've happened to anyone =P

We're actually meeting tomorrow, so he hasn't escaped yet.
Sedative Posts: 6114
Aug 29, 2008 10:01 PM GMT
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Be sure to take Ken and GI Joe with you!
ursamajor Posts: 1898
Aug 29, 2008 10:46 PM GMT
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Ash,

Just a question, is that a squeeky voice in espanol we are talking about? If it is, honestly, I don't think I have ever heard that or could even imagine what it would sound like.

Terry
Pattison Posts: 2103
Aug 29, 2008 11:09 PM GMT
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Sedative saidBe sure to take Ken and GI Joe with you!
And a Barby doll, for everything plastic.
GuiltyGear Posts: 3252
Aug 29, 2008 11:10 PM GMT
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This reminds me of a message I got online recently:
"Dude, you're hot minus your glasses, your mustache, and your ugly clothes."

Freakyninjamo... Posts: 745
Aug 30, 2008 4:40 PM GMT
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Chuy2010 said I dont think anyone sounds hott over the phone and if they do theyre prob not good looking in person.



Sounding sexy = not good looking...

Hmmm...then by looking at you Chuy, you MUST sound like PeeWee Herman too offset all that hotness.


Seriously though, there could be any number of factors causing him to have a squeaky voice. I personally think you should still meet him and give it a chance. Ya never know, if you find yourself liking him, his voice could become one of those personal quirks that endear him to you.
Guy101 Posts: 941
Aug 30, 2008 5:25 PM GMT
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AshleonHe just did, so HA!


Well then I guess by him so doing he shows which one of you is the bigger person and not so shallow enough to pass a up chance at having some fun. Imagine that. Sounds like he might be too good for you since he shows balls and a sense of kindness.

Have fun with your meeting and don't let that voice throw you off.


nysexy Posts: 845
Aug 30, 2008 6:00 PM GMT
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Squeaky voice=hours of entertainment....i wouldn't let the guy shut up.

Let us know how the date went...and i do agree that alot fo guys' voices get a bit high pitched when nervous/excited...same goes for a stutter as well. I wouldn't say you were a bad person for being hesitant...shallow,yes...scum,no; but the fact that you realized this and are giving this guy a chance says alot (in a good way). Anyways....give detalil..LOTS of details about the date whenever it happens.
Mars Posts: 133
Aug 30, 2008 6:35 PM GMT
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GuiltyGear said
This reminds me of a message I got online recently:
"Dude, you're hot minus your glasses, your mustache, and your ugly clothes."



That's terrible, GG!! I hope you had a sharp comeback on hand for that cuntwipe.
Sedative Posts: 6114
Aug 30, 2008 7:50 PM GMT
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Mars said
GuiltyGear said
This reminds me of a message I got online recently:
"Dude, you're hot minus your glasses, your mustache, and your ugly clothes."



That's terrible, GG!! I hope you had a sharp comeback on hand for that cuntwipe.


Oh sharp comebacks be damned. I hope you sent assassins to stab him to death GG!
Librarian Posts: 194
Aug 30, 2008 7:55 PM GMT
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maybe you just need a new phone..or maybe he played around with helium as a relaxation therapy..or you caught him in the bathroom, or maybe he ...damn I ran out of ideas :/
AshLeon Posts: 148
Aug 30, 2008 8:06 PM GMT
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ursamajor saidAsh,

Just a question, is that a squeeky voice in espanol we are talking about? If it is, honestly, I don't think I have ever heard that or could even imagine what it would sound like.

Terry




And no, it's not that squeaky.
Mars Posts: 133
Aug 30, 2008 10:34 PM GMT
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Sedative said
Mars said
GuiltyGear said
This reminds me of a message I got online recently:
"Dude, you're hot minus your glasses, your mustache, and your ugly clothes."



That's terrible, GG!! I hope you had a sharp comeback on hand for that cuntwipe.


Oh sharp comebacks be damned. I hope you sent assassins to stab him to death GG!


I have called in reinforcement...


Sniper Kitteh's got your back!
Sedative Posts: 6114
Aug 31, 2008 6:15 PM GMT
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Be careful sniper kitteh. The rodents have declared war.

blink777 Posts: 499
Aug 31, 2008 6:17 PM GMT
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Reporting for duty..
Tikvanaim Posts: 10
Sep 22, 2008 6:38 PM GMT
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well you can always tell him that you have a busy life and its hard to get time in for yourself and now you need to soul search yourself I told a guy that once because he only only wanted to sleep with me and I didn't want him hope you find something that works good luck!
RuggerATX Posts: 2923
Sep 22, 2008 6:46 PM GMT
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McGay saidAre there risks to dating the squeaky voiced?


Yes. You could catch erectile dysfunction.

Sexual attraction cannot be argued with logic, people. It is what it is.
AshLeon Posts: 148
Sep 22, 2008 8:04 PM GMT
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Tikvanaim saidwell you can always tell him that you have a busy life and its hard to get time in for yourself and now you need to soul search yourself I told a guy that once because he only only wanted to sleep with me and I didn't want him hope you find something that works good luck!


Actually, that won't be necessary. When I phoned him to set up a new time and place to meet he asked what I was doing that night and I told him I was going to a nightclub with some friends. Apparently he didn't like that because after saying several times how he didn't like nightclubs, he never went to nightclubs, and bored himself to death in nightclubs, he said he'd call me the next day. I didn't expect him to, and he didn't.

So, apparently he decided not to meet me because I'm the sort of person who goes to nightclubs with friends ... ???
Sedative Posts: 6114
Sep 24, 2008 5:57 PM GMT
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AshLeon said
Tikvanaim saidwell you can always tell him that you have a busy life and its hard to get time in for yourself and now you need to soul search yourself I told a guy that once because he only only wanted to sleep with me and I didn't want him hope you find something that works good luck!


Actually, that won't be necessary. When I phoned him to set up a new time and place to meet he asked what I was doing that night and I told him I was going to a nightclub with some friends. Apparently he didn't like that because after saying several times how he didn't like nightclubs, he never went to nightclubs, and bored himself to death in nightclubs, he said he'd call me the next day. I didn't expect him to, and he didn't.

So, apparently he decided not to meet me because I'm the sort of person who goes to nightclubs with friends ... ???


Maybe he thought you had a gravelly voice.
ANDRE_SD Posts: 103
Sep 24, 2008 6:11 PM GMT
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zsocerstar said
NNJfitandbi said

Are you bragging about this, or asking for advice (you "don't know what to do"), or wanting assurance that you're not a "horrible person"?

What's the purpose of the post, man?



thank you!!!



seriously!!

but if you are so picky with men, online dating can be nothing but a disappointingly vicious cycle of meeting dudes who don't fit your 'criteria'. Try to eliminate the cause rather than the symptoms, if that makes any sense, and meet your potential dates offline.



ps
I am glad people here are realizing that picking people apart based on height, voice, hair colour etc is pretty immature ( lack of better word).

Then again, who knows.


GQjock Posts: 4021
Sep 25, 2008 7:47 AM GMT
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LOL ...
ah the expectations we get across the digital universe



What you do is basically up to you
You can set up a date ... coffee would probably be best
where you can satisfy your curiosity and if he's truly trollish you can make a hasty get away without too much strain
... or you can just float away into the ether
he'll get the message soon enough
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Sep 25, 2008 8:21 AM GMT
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Sedative saidIt pays to be careful nowadays.



An AK with a scope?

I have a harpoon with a laser, wanna see it? *wink wink*


Bad person is bads.
ChinoSurfGuy Posts: 192
Sep 25, 2008 5:50 PM GMT
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docmarvy saidI'm going to be the only one who will rush to your defense on this.

My entire family was brutally murdered by giant squirrels that had learned to walk upright and who had disguised themselves as gay guys hooking up on the internet. The only thing that distinguished them was their squeaky voices and their propensity towards climbing trees.

That squeaky voice was a clear indication that your potential paramour was not to be trusted.



I scared my 4 dogs with my laughter at this... no joke.
dhinkansas Posts: 447
Sep 25, 2008 5:50 PM GMT
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And it bothers you he didn't call you since you went to a nightclub.....because?????? Trying to understand this and not making much sense of it. If you're not interested for whatever the reason, don't waste each other's time.
ChinoSurfGuy Posts: 192
Sep 25, 2008 5:52 PM GMT
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McGay saidAre there risks to dating the squeaky voiced?


AIDs obviously.. that and cancer in your... I don't want to go further, there are some younger than me, I SWEAR!
Sedative Posts: 6114
Sep 26, 2008 2:32 PM GMT
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Buckwheet said
Sedative saidIt pays to be careful nowadays.



An AK with a scope?

I have a harpoon with a laser, wanna see it? *wink wink*


Bad person is bads.


Who knows! You might actually hit something with it in like... a bullet per 100 magazines consumed.
KissingPro Posts: 616
Sep 26, 2008 3:00 PM GMT
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XRuggerATX said
McGay saidAre there risks to dating the squeaky voiced?


Yes. You could catch erectile dysfunction.

Sexual attraction cannot be argued with logic, people. It is what it is.



AGREED.

Chemistry is hard to define. I know a guy who decides wheather he will continue to date a guy based on how the guy's natural smell is.

For me, the voice is important. I can't help it. A squeaky voice gets on my nerves. Go figure.

Never make a date with an onlinr guy without talking first.

I still would say go ahead and meet him. You may be pleasantly surprised. Or, your apprehension may be confirmed.

At one point in my recent past, I experimented and began to date guys with certain characteristics that I would normaly not find attractive. Overweight guys, fem guys, squeaky voice guys, bodybuilders, leather men etc. I thought maybe if I liked the guy, all the outward/physical things wouldn't matter. But I was wrong.

IT DID MATTER. END OF STORY.
KissingPro Posts: 616
Sep 26, 2008 3:00 PM GMT
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XRuggerATX said
McGay saidAre there risks to dating the squeaky voiced?


Yes. You could catch erectile dysfunction.

Sexual attraction cannot be argued with logic, people. It is what it is.



AGREED.

Chemistry is hard to define. I know a guy who decides wheather he will continue to date a guy based on how the guy's natural smell is.

For me, the voice is important. I can't help it. A squeaky voice gets on my nerves. Go figure.

Never make a date with an onlinr guy without talking first.

I still would say go ahead and meet him. You may be pleasantly surprised. Or, your apprehension may be confirmed.

At one point in my recent past, I experimented and began to date guys with certain characteristics that I would normaly not find attractive. Overweight guys, fem guys, squeaky voice guys, bodybuilders, leather men etc. I thought maybe if I liked the guy, all the outward/physical things wouldn't matter. But I was wrong.

IT DID MATTER. END OF STORY.
Kasaz Posts: 187
Sep 26, 2008 3:02 PM GMT
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I think its sad to judge someone immediately by the sound of his voice on the phone. I have met people who sound one way on the phone and are quite different sounding in person. It can be deceiving! You may have just turned down the best guy personality wise and the hottest guy look wise based on his voice? He may have wound up being the ideal guy for you and you will never know now! I learned quickly not to judge so quickly. Of course you have to be comfortable with the situation and if you were just that uncomfortable up front, then you saved BOTH of you a lot of grief by not pursuing this.
Aquanerd Posts: 363
Sep 26, 2008 3:14 PM GMT
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XRuggerATX said
McGay saidAre there risks to dating the squeaky voiced?


Yes. You could catch erectile dysfunction.

Sexual attraction cannot be argued with logic, people. It is what it is.


Finally a voice of reason.

Let's check to see if any the "Stone Throwers" here have posted on Forum Topics related to attraction to other physical characteristics, i.e. penis or body size. I'm dare say the "inconstancy" will be inconstant.
KissingPro Posts: 616
Sep 26, 2008 3:31 PM GMT
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KissingPro said
XRuggerATX said
McGay saidAre there risks to dating the squeaky voiced?


Yes. You could catch erectile dysfunction.

Sexual attraction cannot be argued with logic, people. It is what it is.



AGREED.

Chemistry is hard to define. I know a guy who decides wheather he will continue to date a guy based on how the guy's natural smell is.

For me, the voice is important. I can't help it. A squeaky voice gets on my nerves. Go figure.

Never make a date with an onlinr guy without talking first.

I still would say go ahead and meet him. You may be pleasantly surprised. Or, your apprehension may be confirmed.

At one point in my recent past, I experimented and began to date guys with certain characteristics that I would normaly not find attractive. Overweight guys, fem guys, squeaky voice guys, bodybuilders, leather men etc. I thought maybe if I liked the guy, all the outward/physical things wouldn't matter. But I was wrong.

IT DID MATTER. END OF STORY.
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