Best Break UP

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    Oct 08, 2012 3:09 AM GMT
    A few months ago I talked about my bf who gave me the best bday I had in a long time

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2586297


    I'm happy yet also sorry to say that we broke up. There was no bad blood or malice, or anger. Just a realization that we're both pretty focused on our goals career wise and will most likely be going in different directions. He is planning to leave to take a deal of having his own restaurant, and i'm considering local and federal law enforcement agencies all over the world and even trying to network with PI's outside NYC for work. When we met up Friday night, we both came to the same conclusion. At the end of our breakup proposal we just laughed. Talked about the memories and then talked about our plans for the month as if nothing has happened.

    I know many of you were rooting for us and considered him a keeper but despite the breakup, my temporary bf has developed into a potentially lifelong friend. I couldn't ask for anything better

    however if you wanna hold and hug me and stuff, feel free to icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 08, 2012 3:29 AM GMT
    One thing I can say, is that an amicable breakup leaves those sticky bonds in tact, I would not be surprised if after the dust settled in your respective lives, that you found time to resume and make it work icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 08, 2012 3:47 AM GMT
    haiqtpi saidOne thing I can say, is that an amicable breakup leaves those sticky bonds in tact, I would not be surprised if after the dust settled in your respective lives, that you found time to resume and make it work icon_smile.gif


    Thank you. Yes anything is possible icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 08, 2012 3:54 AM GMT
    I'm confused. Temporary boyfriend? icon_confused.gif


    And when you manage to get a job with a PI, hook me up. icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 08, 2012 3:55 AM GMT
    IceBucket saidI'm confused. Temporary boyfriend? icon_confused.gif


    And when you manage to get a job with a PI, hook me up. icon_cool.gif


    I mean since we broke up, we were only temporary lol

    You're interested in PI work? message me
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    Oct 08, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
    Wait! So your telling me that temporary bf exist ?!?!?!?, that is great ! icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 08, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    guy6 saidWait! So your telling me that temporary bf exist ?!?!?!?, that is great ! icon_lol.gif

    Yes, you can get one at Kelly Services.
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    Oct 08, 2012 9:51 AM GMT
    This post made me a little sad !
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    Oct 08, 2012 11:49 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidThis post made me a little sad !


    why?
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    Oct 08, 2012 12:37 PM GMT
    Nice mate.

    Wish I knew more guys who can come to the same arrangement with their bf's.

    Hope you both can look forward to a lasting friendship icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 08, 2012 2:53 PM GMT
    sc69 saidNice mate.

    Wish I knew more guys who can come to the same arrangement with their bf's.

    Hope you both can look forward to a lasting friendship icon_smile.gif


    Thank you. I'm still gonna get him back for his bday.