How to Talk to guys

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    Oct 09, 2012 3:51 AM GMT
    So I have a problem when it comes to taking to guys at the bar or clubs and even guys that i have a crush on. Any helpfull tips on how to break from my shell and man up? What do you fellow RJ peeps do to break the ice?
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    Oct 09, 2012 3:54 AM GMT
    The best way to talk to guys is to engage your vocal chords while exhaling.

    The best way to break the ice is to go clubbing.

    For seals.
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    Oct 09, 2012 4:18 AM GMT
    I don't know if there is anything you can do to prepare other than just doing it. Practice makes perfect.

    But I would look at the guy and see if you can find common ground. Is he wearing a T-shirt with a specific sports team?

    If you can't find anything in common, just say hi.

    I'm not the person to ask, but I think it's best to start it like any other conversation.
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    Oct 09, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    BTW, the OP's ears and facial features remind me of Dr. Spock.

    Fortunately I has a crush on Dr. Spock a few years ago, so it's all good. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 09, 2012 4:21 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidThe best way to talk to guys is to engage your vocal chords while exhaling.

    The best way to break the ice is to go clubbing.

    For seals.


    Oh.. I guess I should stop trying to choke the guys I meet then next time, huh? :s Whoops.. icon_redface.gif

    To the OP:
    I have no idea. I'm terrible with breaking the ice with people. :/ I just try to be myself but apparently that ain't good enough for some bitches. >:/
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    Oct 09, 2012 4:23 AM GMT
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    paulflexes saidThe best way to talk to guys is to engage your vocal chords while exhaling.

    The best way to break the ice is to go clubbing.

    For seals.


    Oh.. I guess I should stop trying to choke the guys I meet then next time, huh? :s Whoops.. icon_redface.gif
    No, you should just meet them on NecroJock.com so you know he'll enjoy it. icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 09, 2012 4:39 AM GMT
    Your'e shy, quiet and nervous?
    WaytoDawn said Practice makes perfect..

    Other things that can break the ice in a club...
    Music, A game of pool , Buying a guy a drink, Shoes<--- (yes really)

    Tasteful Compliments can really get a conversation going..
    ..Relax.. Once you break the ice try to get the guy to do most of the talking..
    LISTEN..Smile and look into his eyes and RELAX..
    Did that help?
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    Oct 09, 2012 4:41 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidYour'e shy, quiet and nervous?
    WaytoDawn said Practice makes perfect..

    Other things that can break the ice in a club...
    Music, A game of pool , Buying a guy a drink, Shoes<--- (yes really)

    Tasteful Compliments can really get a conversation going..
    ..Relax.. Once you break the ice try to get the guy to do most of the talking..
    LISTEN..Smile and look into his eyes and RELAX..
    Did that help?
    Don't forget to mention taking your shirt off.

    That's works wonders anywhere in SoFla. icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 09, 2012 4:42 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    ParadiseLost said
    paulflexes saidThe best way to talk to guys is to engage your vocal chords while exhaling.

    The best way to break the ice is to go clubbing.

    For seals.


    Oh.. I guess I should stop trying to choke the guys I meet then next time, huh? :s Whoops.. icon_redface.gif
    No, you should just meet them on NecroJock.com so you know he'll enjoy it. icon_razz.gif


    OKAY! icon_biggrin.gif

    *Rereads Paul's messages on there.* icon_redface.gif
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    Oct 09, 2012 4:43 AM GMT
    What the hell happened to confidence? Whats with our generation and the next generation lacking confidence?

    Anyway, talking to guys is easy.

    Your good enough, your attractive, got a cute smile, nice body, you've actually managed to string words together to create a profile (Trust me, that's massive on it's own)

    Talking to guys is pretty easy.. You Say "Hi, I'm Blablabla"

    They'll usually respond by giving you their name (However, I've had a guy offer to blow me on the spot.. I think he was a little high.. gave great head though)

    You respond with something simple, like "Hi blablabla" Then add "Hows your night going?" or "I have read that book, what part are you up too" or "Can I borrow your pen" and the list goes on.. Then you do something incredibly stupid, you ask them a question about themselves. Which they'll hopefully have not run off screaming at this point (if they have, you start over with someone new) they start talkin you shut up and listen, listen carefully, not only does it look god and genuine but most importantly and this is al that matters, they'll give you a hint on what to ask next because guys love talking about themselves.

    Eventually, you'll have him on his knees, he'll be callin you sir and all will be right with the world!
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    Oct 09, 2012 4:46 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidWhat the hell happened to confidence? Whats with our generation and the next generation lacking confidence?

    Anyway, talking to guys is easy.

    Your good enough, your attractive, got a cute smile, nice body, you've actually managed to string words together to create a profile (Trust me, that's massive on it's own)

    Talking to guys is pretty easy.. You Say "Hi, I'm Blablabla"

    They'll usually respond by giving you their name (However, I've had a guy offer to blow me on the spot.. I think he was a little high.. gave great head though)

    You respond with something simple, like "Hi blablabla" Then add "Hows your night going?" or "I have read that book, what part are you up too" or "Can I borrow your pen" and the list goes on.. Then you do something incredibly stupid, you ask them a question about themselves. Which they'll hopefully have not run off screaming at this point (if they have, you start over with someone new) they start talkin you shut up and listen, listen carefully, not only does it look god and genuine but most importantly and this is al that matters, they'll give you a hint on what to ask next because guys love talking about themselves.

    Eventually, you'll have him on his knees, he'll be callin you sir and all will be right with the world!


    WHAT? icon_eek.gif *Takes notes*
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    Oct 09, 2012 4:48 AM GMT
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    Eventually, you'll have him on his knees, he'll be callin you sir and all will be right with the world!
    The time it took to read the stuff posted above this bottom line took longer than it takes to have a guy on his knees calling me sir.
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    Oct 09, 2012 4:48 AM GMT
    ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
    LilTanker it might be easy for you.. but i see guys struggle with it all the time..
    Aren't you an Aussie??.. You guys are born without fear. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 09, 2012 5:11 AM GMT
    Anocxu said^ ^ ^ ^ ^
    LilTanker it might be easy for you.. but i see guys struggle with it all the time..
    Aren't you an Aussie??.. You guys are born without fear. icon_wink.gif

    Oh please, Aussies are just as much big pussies as anyone else!

    I'm scared when I walk upto a guy and introduce my self, I'm nervous, I wonder if I'm attractive enough, I get scared he wont be interested.. But screw it, I'm not letting my irrational bullshit get in the way, I'm good enough, I got a shit load to offer a guy, Im good looking enough for the guys I find attractive, I'm intelligent enough to hold a conversation and I can make people laugh.

    Like hell I'm going to let my fear lead me around!!

    In the interest of being honest, i do get intimidated by guys, not many at all, but I there are a few. There was one on RJ for for years I wouldn't utter a word too.. But, well, we talk now! I'm just workin on seeing his wang he keeps promoting as being large and in charge! Got a cute butt though rawr hahaha
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    Oct 09, 2012 5:20 AM GMT
    ^ ^ ^ ^
    ROTFL... omg.. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 09, 2012 5:27 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Anocxu said^ ^ ^ ^ ^
    LilTanker it might be easy for you.. but i see guys struggle with it all the time..
    Aren't you an Aussie??.. You guys are born without fear. icon_wink.gif

    Oh please, Aussies are just as much big pussies as anyone else!

    I'm scared when I walk upto a guy and introduce my self, I'm nervous, I wonder if I'm attractive enough, I get scared he wont be interested.. But screw it, I'm not letting my irrational bullshit get in the way, I'm good enough, I got a shit load to offer a guy, Im good looking enough for the guys I find attractive, I'm intelligent enough to hold a conversation and I can make people laugh.

    Like hell I'm going to let my fear lead me around!!

    In the interest of being honest, i do get intimidated by guys, not many at all, but I there are a few. There was one on RJ for for years I wouldn't utter a word too.. But, well, we talk now! I'm just workin on seeing his wang he keeps promoting as being large and in charge! Got a cute butt though rawr hahaha
    You haven't hooked up with him yet?

    FAIL!
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    Oct 09, 2012 5:36 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidhaven't hooked up with him yet?

    FAIL!

    He's in another country and as lovely as I find him I'm not taking a plane to nail a guy
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    Oct 09, 2012 5:37 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    paulflexes saidhaven't hooked up with him yet?

    FAIL!

    He's in another country and as lovely as I find him I'm not taking a plane to nail a guy
    Some of my best friends live in European countries, and visit here once or twice a year. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 09, 2012 5:37 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    lilTanker said
    paulflexes saidhaven't hooked up with him yet?

    FAIL!

    He's in another country and as lovely as I find him I'm not taking a plane to nail a guy
    Some of my best friends live in European countries, and visit here once or twice a year. icon_wink.gif

    Been there done that.

    Probably not coming back. I got way to many other places to visit first.
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    Oct 09, 2012 5:39 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    paulflexes said
    lilTanker said
    paulflexes saidhaven't hooked up with him yet?

    FAIL!

    He's in another country and as lovely as I find him I'm not taking a plane to nail a guy
    Some of my best friends live in European countries, and visit here once or twice a year. icon_wink.gif

    Been there done that.

    Probably not coming back. I got way to many other places to visit first.
    I don't wanna visit other places, unless I'm getting paid for it. icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 09, 2012 5:58 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    lilTanker said
    paulflexes said
    lilTanker said
    paulflexes saidhaven't hooked up with him yet?

    FAIL!

    He's in another country and as lovely as I find him I'm not taking a plane to nail a guy
    Some of my best friends live in European countries, and visit here once or twice a year. icon_wink.gif

    Been there done that.

    Probably not coming back. I got way to many other places to visit first.
    I don't wanna visit other places, unless I'm getting paid for it. icon_cool.gif


    Can I pay in lashes and beatings? :3
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    Oct 09, 2012 6:01 AM GMT
    ParadiseLost said
    paulflexes said
    lilTanker said
    paulflexes said
    lilTanker said
    paulflexes saidhaven't hooked up with him yet?

    FAIL!

    He's in another country and as lovely as I find him I'm not taking a plane to nail a guy
    Some of my best friends live in European countries, and visit here once or twice a year. icon_wink.gif

    Been there done that.

    Probably not coming back. I got way to many other places to visit first.
    I don't wanna visit other places, unless I'm getting paid for it. icon_cool.gif


    Can I pay in lashes and beatings? :3

    Yes and when your done Paul.. take pretty photos of all the welts and bruises.. icon_twisted.gif