Locker room exhibitionism

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    Oct 09, 2012 10:05 PM GMT
    I just love training at the gym. But what I like the most is the locker room right after. I don't know about tou guys, but nothing feels better than undressing, walking around with my cockring and sporting my thong tan line. I usually go in the hot tub with an old speedo - so old that my pouch is hanging lose and big. The steamroom is also a good moment and a wonderful opportunity to be semi hard in frot of the other guys. What about you guys?
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    Oct 09, 2012 10:12 PM GMT
    No.
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 09, 2012 10:15 PM GMT
    Where's Firebrand when you need him?icon_eek.gif
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    Oct 10, 2012 8:25 AM GMT
    Pretty sure you'd be asked to leave.
    a) Guys in a gym are more likely to think a thong tanline is hilarious.
    b) I don't know what kind of bath-house you lift at, but a cockring is beyond inappropriate in any normal gym, and probably unhealthy to work out with since it restricts bloodflow. If anybody notices it, they'll most likely wonder what the hell you're doing.
    c) Yeah okay old speedo who cares? Showing off your junk? What? Is your penis really that small that you feel the need to show off an illusion?

    And I'm pretty sure that any guy, gay or straight who is tired of your bullshit will either ask you to leave or punch you in your bitch face. Just. Stop.
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    Oct 10, 2012 1:02 PM GMT
    Cockring?? At the gym?? icon_rolleyes.gif

    People like you give gays a bad name.
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    Oct 10, 2012 1:08 PM GMT
    Sounds like you are training at a bathhouse. Seriously, no one at my gym pulls a cockling out, ever. People work out, shower and leave. You are disgusting.
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    Oct 10, 2012 1:22 PM GMT
    I've seen guys shaved and pierced, and even a tranny in my locker room. The difference is they weren't strutting it. Just using the locker room to change. And no one cared.
  • rnch

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    Oct 10, 2012 1:24 PM GMT
    is this happening at a gay gym, surburban strip mall gym full of Hopless Heteros or something inbetween?
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    Oct 10, 2012 1:44 PM GMT
    OP lives in Toronto. Bathhouse confirmed. Ur gonna get the HIV bro.
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    Oct 10, 2012 2:05 PM GMT
    A public locker room is not the same as a gay bathhouse. What's fun & acceptable in the one is not appropriate in the other. I agree with those who think this kind of behavior gives gays a black eye, and is a factor in the extreme locker room shyness and the "towel dance" that've become common nowadays.

    I happened to like private gay bathhouses when I was single, and could spend an entire day there being totally slutty. That's what those places are for, and what men knowingly go there to do. I know some are dumps, but the ones I used were like upscale spas, better than ordinary gyms are, an enjoyable experience even if you aren't having sex there.

    I understand what a challenge a locker room can be for a gay man. You wanna look but shouldn't, the other men being entitled to their privacy. You wanna touch, but the touch you get back might be in the form of a fist. You wanna flaunt yourself to the others, but you may get flung out the door. And all the time you're fighting against getting a boner, at least I did.

    But strangely, once I had begun using gay bathhouses my urges in the regular locker rooms completely went away. Today I barely notice the other guys, even in the sauna and gang shower, and I'm fully at ease and relaxed, nothing sexual about the experience, as it should be. Everything in its proper place.

    So maybe the OP should try gay bathhouses, to get this stuff out of his system. Then he can have all the fun he wants, indulge all his fantasies (but safely, STD/STIs are still a concern), before an audience that welcomes it. But then leave the straight guys alone in the regular locker rooms and not annoy them with inappropriate sights & antics.
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    Oct 10, 2012 2:06 PM GMT
    LMAO! Priceless!
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    Oct 10, 2012 2:45 PM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    So maybe the OP should try gay bathhouses, to get this stuff out of his system. Then he can have all the fun he wants, indulge all his fantasies (but safely, STD/STIs are still a concern), before an audience that welcomes it. But then leave the straight guys alone in the regular locker rooms and not annoy them with inappropriate sights & antics.


    That is NEVER good advice.

    This would be like me telling you, Art, to go to a lesbian whorehouse to get over your fear of lesbians. You might get over it, but you'll have herpes.
  • Hothouse

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    Oct 10, 2012 3:06 PM GMT
    I think the OP would make a very interesting addition to a number of boring gyms. If he can get away with it - more power to him.
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    Oct 11, 2012 3:23 AM GMT
    Hey. The OP is an exhibitionist. He just needs to understand there's a time and place for everything. That place is called the 1970's.
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    Oct 11, 2012 6:36 AM GMT
    Wouldn't go over well at my gym (you'd be thrown out). In years there, I have only seen 1 nipple and 1 dick pierced in the showers.

    However, if you visit San Francisco, there is a street cornner park in the Castro, where there are naked guys every day, strutting their stuff, (some with cockriings I'm told) and charging japanese tourists to have their photo taken with them. You might fit right in.
  • jackthejock

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    Oct 11, 2012 7:38 AM GMT
    beyond obnoxious. I go to the gym to work out, nothing pisses me off more after a working then some guy trying to cruise me while I'm trying to relax and sweat it out in the sauna
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    Oct 11, 2012 12:54 PM GMT
    AeroNalex said
    ART_DECO said
    So maybe the OP should try gay bathhouses, to get this stuff out of his system. Then he can have all the fun he wants, indulge all his fantasies (but safely, STD/STIs are still a concern), before an audience that welcomes it. But then leave the straight guys alone in the regular locker rooms and not annoy them with inappropriate sights & antics.

    That is NEVER good advice.

    This would be like me telling you, Art, to go to a lesbian whorehouse to get over your fear of lesbians. You might get over it, but you'll have herpes.

    That's not even a close analogy. Are you trying to allude to when I chased off a lesbian bar patron trying to poach a handicapped parking space from a gay bar? And do you claim herpes is the inevitable outcome of using a bathhouse? All sex is risky.

    As for lesbians, I'm part of the "Iron Ladies" lesbian golf tournament this weekend, to raise money for women's groups. I've also been a motorcycle rider with "Dykes on Bikes" at gay pride parades, the only male permitted to ride with them as they led the parade, their traditional role. I could give you other examples of my involvement & support of the lesbian community here.

    Don't believe some lying troublemakers here that I hate lesbians. I just hate anyone who tries to steal a handicapped parking space, from a business they're not even patronizing.
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    Oct 11, 2012 2:16 PM GMT
    AeroNalex said
    ART_DECO said
    So maybe the OP should try gay bathhouses, to get this stuff out of his system. Then he can have all the fun he wants, indulge all his fantasies (but safely, STD/STIs are still a concern), before an audience that welcomes it. But then leave the straight guys alone in the regular locker rooms and not annoy them with inappropriate sights & antics.


    That is NEVER good advice.

    This would be like me telling you, Art, to go to a lesbian whorehouse to get over your fear of lesbians. You might get over it, but you'll have herpes.


    Judgmental much???

    He's saying that the gym isn't the right place for exhibitionism and offering up another suggestion. You're getting all Victorian and acting like sex is a dirty taboo that needs to be kept out of decent society.

    Here's a little lesson for you. Bathouses were the Grindr of the previous generation. If you've ever "hooked up" with anyone you met online, or on an app, then you've basically visited a virtual bathhouse.

    I think you need to figure out that you should only take charge of your own sexlife; you shouldn't tell others how to live, or you're no better than a fundi Christian.
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:26 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    AeroNalex said
    ART_DECO said
    So maybe the OP should try gay bathhouses, to get this stuff out of his system. Then he can have all the fun he wants, indulge all his fantasies (but safely, STD/STIs are still a concern), before an audience that welcomes it. But then leave the straight guys alone in the regular locker rooms and not annoy them with inappropriate sights & antics.


    That is NEVER good advice.

    This would be like me telling you, Art, to go to a lesbian whorehouse to get over your fear of lesbians. You might get over it, but you'll have herpes.


    Judgmental much???

    He's saying that the gym isn't the right place for exhibitionism and offering up another suggestion. You're getting all Victorian and acting like sex is a dirty taboo that needs to be kept out of decent society.

    Here's a little lesson for you. Bathouses were the Grindr of the previous generation. If you've ever "hooked up" with anyone you met online, or on an app, then you've basically visited a virtual bathhouse.

    I think you need to figure out that you should only take charge of your own sexlife; you shouldn't tell others how to live, or you're no better than a fundi Christian.


    That was a stretch.

    For starters, I said nothing of the sort. I merely stated that bathhouses are never a good idea for suggesting sex. This is mostly based on the fact that they were shut down in the United States for reasons we all know. I said nothing about the practice of sex in general and I have no idea where you could have even read that. This is strictly about the disease factor.

    Also the difference between the internet and a bathhouse is self control. When you are using grindr or whatever, you have the time and the consciousness to say "no" or demand the use of a condom. In a place such as a bathhouse, yes you can still do those things, but a lot of guys will let their dicks do the thinking, get caught up in the moment, and forget. Then they regret. Don't act like that is an uncommon thing. I see guys do it in clubs all the time. They make out with a guy they were dancing with because they were horny and then think about it later. Bathhouses are not good. It doesn't matter how "classy" they are.

    On your last point, I'm not telling anyone how to live. To counter your statement, I'm sure you tell "fundi christians" how to live all the time. Do you not demand they treat you equally? In your logic, that makes all gays no better than "fundi christians". Next time think before you speak.
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:12 PM GMT
    Steeve666 saidI just love training at the gym. But what I like the most is the locker room right after. I don't know about tou guys, but nothing feels better than undressing, walking around with my cockring and sporting my thong tan line. I usually go in the hot tub with an old speedo - so old that my pouch is hanging lose and big. The steamroom is also a good moment and a wonderful opportunity to be semi hard in frot of the other guys. What about you guys?


    Just curious what type of gym is this, and in what city? I know of some gay gyms that are attached or included in a bath house, so might not be so out of the ordinary. But I don't see it as the norm at Golds gym where I go. I think there may be a time and place for what you are describing, but can't say it would be at the run of the mill gym.
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:13 PM GMT
    AeroNalex saidI merely stated that bathhouses are never a good idea for suggesting sex. This is mostly based on the fact that they were shut down in the United States for reasons we all know.

    Bathhouses are not good. It doesn't matter how "classy" they are.

    Those reasons were based on ignorance. And I don't mean that as a criticism, because at first the transmission factors were not fully understood, and when they finally were it took some time for the word to permeate the gay community and to be accepted as true.

    But once that ignorance was dispelled and principles of safe sex were established the bathhouses were not the pestilence holes you seem to be making them. If some guys wish to practice unsafe sex then they can just as well do it at home as at a bathhouse.

    I might also note that shutting the bathhouses down had a political aspect, as well. Conservatives never wanted them to exist in the first place, and the risk of disease transmission made a perfect reason the public would endorse, and the law would allow.

    As for classy bathhouses, have you ever been in one? In the US they can be much cleaner, nicely run and well appointed than most ordinary health clubs are. And require memberships and charge fees that rather effectively reduce the likelihood that some homeless street person is gonna wander in to either get sex or to sell it.

    I get the impression your objections are made mostly on moral grounds and misinformation. I wouldn't recommend a bathhouse to a novice for gay sex, for the same reason I wouldn't recommend he go cruising in a gay bar: lack of general experience, and lack of safe sex experience in particular. But for a guy who's a veteran and practices safe sex I don't see more risk than any other kind of gay sex hookups. If you oppose the one you really must oppose all the others.
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    Oct 15, 2012 6:17 PM GMT
    Yeah I've been harassed by men like yourself in the steam-room and locker areas. Although flattering initially, its gets annoying fast after extended periods of time. I personally don't go to gym for sexual quirks; I feel others shouldn't neither. But more power to you my friend. Just don't evolve into a peeping Tom beating his cock in the shower stalls. very creepy~ icon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 17, 2012 3:29 AM GMT
    jackthejock saidbeyond obnoxious. I go to the gym to work out, nothing pisses me off more after a working then some guy trying to cruise me while I'm trying to relax and sweat it out in the sauna


    Well said. That shit's annoying.
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    Oct 26, 2012 10:08 AM GMT
    I love locker rooms

    I've actually given a few BJ to guys in sauna as well

    I think it is a great place to show off your package
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    Oct 26, 2012 10:44 PM GMT
    Firsttimer6666 saidI love locker rooms

    I've actually given a few BJ to guys in sauna as well

    I think it is a great place to show off your package



    Totally inappropriate... if you're caught and reported.. sex in public is a misdemenor charge. slap on another charge of lude and indecent behavior and you'll get some good penitentiary dick hahah is it really worth the blowjob..