Is this too much gayness? or just a gay male with too much personality?

  • noviceprime

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    Oct 10, 2012 7:03 AM GMT
    I am unsettled..just saw this online while browsing you tube... i dont think a young kid should behave like this...do you guys think he is happy? Like i really think he needs someone to reach out. Im just ...bothered that at such a young age.and to be gay seeing someone behave like this....(sigh)...further more especially since our society is barely accepting of homosexuality..(dont be fooled to think otherwise)..i fear kids like him..might be targeted.
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    Oct 10, 2012 7:06 AM GMT
    noviceprime saidI am unsettled..just saw this online while browsing you tube... i dont think a young kid should behave like this...do you guys think he is happy? Like i really think he needs someone to reach out. Im just ...bothered that at such a young age.and to be gay someone. behaves like this.
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    Mm.. help is beyond this one. o-o

    But oh well, he's not my concern and I hate to give a cold shoulder in this way but one cannot force 'help' on another person. Besides, what I may consider "help" may be just my forced opinion down his throat (eh... o-o). Many people may accept him with the way he is and be fine/happy with it. I suppose as long as it's not self-destruction (which it may very well be) then it should be okay if he does act like the Queen of the Bitches. And if he wants to change himself, he can but he has to make that step first. No one can show him the light or darkness of his ways unless he becomes aware of it himself.

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    Oct 10, 2012 7:16 AM GMT
    He's a total bitch. Gay has nothing to do with him.
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    Oct 10, 2012 7:18 AM GMT
    Claystation saidHe's a total bitch. Gay has nothing to do with him.


    Agreed. icon_surprised.gif
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    Oct 10, 2012 7:45 AM GMT
    that kind of patina is pretty much always protection against something. It´s not a sexuality thing in my book. It´s a defence mechanism.
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    Oct 10, 2012 1:00 PM GMT
    I could be completely wrong here, but this seems more like a person who is trying to mimic whatever persona he's attached himself onto (which is probably some hardcore bitch he's seen on some TV show).
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    Oct 10, 2012 1:12 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidHow annoying.

    Not even gonna watch...thx icon_biggrin.gif
  • Aodhan

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    Oct 10, 2012 1:14 PM GMT
    is he not like 10?
    he is far too fake and has too much internet access
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    Oct 10, 2012 1:17 PM GMT
    I am scarred for life. that was 40 seconds I can never get back.


  • Aodhan

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    Oct 10, 2012 1:38 PM GMT
    TankerMedic saidI am scarred for life. that was 40 seconds I can never get back.




    I know icon_lol.gif , couldnt watch a minute, never mind the whole video haha
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    Oct 10, 2012 2:00 PM GMT
    kill it before it lays eggs
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    Oct 10, 2012 2:04 PM GMT
    LMAO....so messed up on so many levels but I can't take this sort of stuff seriously, he's a kid whose obviously desperate for attention, I have seen a lot of adults like that too, and sorry to go against the grain, his behaviour is totally gay and mimics that of a lot of gay guys who seem to love the term 'bitches' and play it up for an audience (any gay bar I have been to), I don't get it!! Some decent parenting and better role models in the media would help, here's hoping it is a 'phase' he grows out of!!!
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 10, 2012 2:19 PM GMT
    Wow, the comments on this thread are literally the most revolting things I've ever seen on this site. Why are you GROWN MEN picking on a kid???? Seriously? I'm really disturbed to see gay guys on Real Jock act like homophobic asshats. Honestly, I'm ashamed to read these comments.icon_mad.gificon_evil.gif
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    Oct 10, 2012 2:20 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidWow, the comments on this thread are literally the most revolting things I've ever seen on this site. Why are you GROWN MEN picking on a kid???? Seriously? I'm really disturbed to see gay guys on Real Jock act like homophobic asshats. Honestly, I'm ashamed to read these comments.icon_mad.gificon_evil.gif


    Agreed. This kid can be who he is without getting disrespect from people in his own community. Is he hurting anyone? No.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Oct 10, 2012 2:28 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidWow, the comments on this thread are literally the most revolting things I've ever seen on this site. Why are you GROWN MEN picking on a kid???? Seriously? I'm really disturbed to see gay guys on Real Jock act like homophobic asshats. Honestly, I'm ashamed to read these comments.icon_mad.gificon_evil.gif



    Oh get over it! There is nothing even remotely nice about this kid -- at least it is not evident in this video. It has nothing to do with him being gay -- he's a little bitch who needs a cold hard dose of reality. I feel really sorry for him because, unless this was some sort of act he was just putting on for the video, this kid has a tough road ahead in this world -- NOT because he is gay, but because he's majorly affected and self-absorbed, not to mention extremely annoying. Nobody likes that in a person, regardless of their sexuality.
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    Oct 10, 2012 2:29 PM GMT
    He might benefit from a gay mentor and role model. Someone close to his age he could relate to but who's nevertheless mature. Of course since he's evidently underage in most jurisdictions the mentor would need to be careful about appearing to be a pedophile, and sex would be strictly forbidden.

    I just see him as lacking some guidance and a helping hand, on his path to maturity. It's quite possible that if he looks at these videos in a few years he will cringe. For now we're the ones doing the cringing.
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 10, 2012 2:40 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ said
    HottJoe saidWow, the comments on this thread are literally the most revolting things I've ever seen on this site. Why are you GROWN MEN picking on a kid???? Seriously? I'm really disturbed to see gay guys on Real Jock act like homophobic asshats. Honestly, I'm ashamed to read these comments.icon_mad.gificon_evil.gif



    Oh get over it! There is nothing even remotely nice about this kid -- at least it is not evident in this video. It has nothing to do with him being gay -- he's a little bitch who needs a cold hard dose of reality. I feel really sorry for him because, unless this was some sort of act he was just putting on for the video, this kid has a tough road ahead in this world -- NOT because he is gay, but because he's majorly affected and self-absorbed, not to mention extremely annoying. Nobody likes that in a person, regardless of their sexuality.


    He's a KID, stupid. Grow up, and quit picking on kids!!!

    Honestly, if a preteen girl were acting that way, people would think it's normal. This is homophobia, plain and simple.
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 10, 2012 2:45 PM GMT
    When I was ten, being gay was considered vile and a death sentance. I didn't go through years of learning to accept myself so I could grow up and bully gay kids that are coming up behind me. One of the greatest things about growing up to become a strong gay man is that you get to pave the way for others. Art may be right that this kid needs better role models. Unfortunately, I'm not seeing ANY of that here.
  • great_scott

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    Oct 10, 2012 2:45 PM GMT
    If that's who he is, that's who he is. It doesn't affect my life one bit, and it really doesn't have any long-term effect on how society sees the rest of us either because people who hate gay men don't care whether we're masc fags or fem fags; a fag's a fag. Let him live.
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    Oct 10, 2012 2:48 PM GMT
    Unfortunately to me, he is portraying the stereotype of what is acceptable for being gay. Simply put, to some people its comfortable to see a gay man act this way. It takes the guess work of who is gay and who is not. It also puts a face to "gay" only because that is how the media has portrayed our community.

    As far as our youth, they see that this as the only way they can be accepted by majority of people, however they do not see that how they act does not bring acceptance to narrow minded people. Its a whole cause and effect thing that is happening between out community and wanting to be accepted and the media (though it is changing a little).

    However if this is who he chooses to be then leave him alone...we as a community need to be accepting of all our gay brothers and sisters.

    Sorry if this didnt make sense...its late for me.
  • noviceprime

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    Oct 10, 2012 2:49 PM GMT
    ART_DECO saidHe might benefit from a gay mentor and role model. Someone close to his age he could relate to but who's nevertheless mature. Of course since he's evidently underage in most jurisdictions the mentor would need to be careful about appearing to be a pedophile, and sex would be strictly forbidden.

    I just see him as lacking some guidance and a helping hand, on his path to maturity. It's quite possible that if he looks at these videos in a few years he will cringe. For now we're the ones doing the cringing.


    which is why i posted the question as i think maybe he really doesn't know anyone else thats like him. Most persons do grow up inside a bubble..a.k.a sheltered environment and i feel maybe hes going about this the wrong way..but just not aware of the things that he is doing or saying. The other issue is how do you as a gay man of maturity..offer help? As you know this can go wrong in sooo many ways as people in our society often confuse being gay to mean being a pedophile. And i believe he is also at risk of real pedophiles who would try to offer mentor-ship. This is why i post the question as i just think he needs guidance but he might get it from the wrong person.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Oct 10, 2012 2:51 PM GMT
    How can one get so brainwashed & be so abrasive & acidic as such a young age? Won't be surprised if he gets gay-bashed with a mouth like that. "U don't know me bitch, u don't know me!!" And u don't know the gaybashers either when they're pounding u senseless on the ground.
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 10, 2012 2:53 PM GMT
    noviceprime said
    ART_DECO saidHe might benefit from a gay mentor and role model. Someone close to his age he could relate to but who's nevertheless mature. Of course since he's evidently underage in most jurisdictions the mentor would need to be careful about appearing to be a pedophile, and sex would be strictly forbidden.

    I just see him as lacking some guidance and a helping hand, on his path to maturity. It's quite possible that if he looks at these videos in a few years he will cringe. For now we're the ones doing the cringing.


    which is why i posted the question as i think maybe he really doesn't know anyone else thats like him. Most persons do grow up inside a bubble..a.k.a sheltered environment and i feel maybe hes going about this the wrong way..but just not aware of the things that he is doing or saying. The other issue is how do you as a gay man of maturity..offer help? As you know this can go wrong in sooo many ways as people in our society often confuse being gay to mean being a pedophile. And i believe he is also at risk of real pedophiles who would try to offer mentor-ship. This is why i post the question as i just think he needs guidance but he might get it from the wrong person.


    If you're too scared to offer help, go back in the closet and quit posting videos of gay youth and inviting others to make fun of them.icon_mad.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 10, 2012 2:55 PM GMT
    spgem saidHow can one get so brainwashed & be so abrasive & acidic as such a young age? Won't be surprised if he gets gay-bashed with a mouth like that. "U don't know me bitch, u don't know me!!" And u don't know the gaybashers either when they're pounding u senseless on the ground.


    Sounds like you think he should be meek and ashamed of himself.
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 10, 2012 2:55 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidHow annoying.


    This from a homo who likes wearing high heels.icon_rolleyes.gif