So my boyfriend won't have sex?!?

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    Oct 11, 2012 11:08 AM GMT
    We have been together for nearly a year this month. 2 months ago he just stopped having sex. We used to have our own house but because of commuting issues we moved back in with mum and dad. We used to have sex like 3/4 times a week and now its 0. I havnt had sex in like 2 months and I feel like i'm repulsing him (he says im not). He says he doesnt wanna have sex whilst my mum and dad are in the house or asleep and he deffo wont have sex during the day, thats a big mono for him.

    What shall i do? I've talked to him but I feel like if i keep bringing it up he will think that im only in it for sex which i'm not because i do love him and i don't wanna break up before our 1 year.

    Any suggestions? Thanks
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    Oct 11, 2012 11:32 AM GMT
    He's been having sex with me. That's why.
  • JJ_Atoli

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    Oct 11, 2012 1:30 PM GMT
    Spring for a hotel/motel room for a couple of days?
    All I can think of is either he's telling the truth about not being comfortable with having sex while your parents are home or he's under some newly compounding stress that's making him not feel sexual. In either case being away from things with some privacy might help things>
  • reptile18

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    Oct 11, 2012 1:49 PM GMT
    JJ_Atoli saidSpring for a hotel/motel room for a couple of days?
    All I can think of is either he's telling the truth about not being comfortable with having sex while your parents are home or he's under some newly compounding stress that's making him not feel sexual. In either case being away from things with some privacy might help things>


    You beat me to it icon_razz.gif

    Just rent out a motel room for even just a night. That's what motel rooms are for icon_biggrin.gif
  • rnch

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    Oct 11, 2012 2:31 PM GMT
    reptile18 said
    JJ_Atoli saidSpring for a hotel/motel room for a couple of days?
    All I can think of is either he's telling the truth about not being comfortable with having sex while your parents are home or he's under some newly compounding stress that's making him not feel sexual. In either case being away from things with some privacy might help things>


    You beat me to it icon_razz.gif

    Just rent out a motel room for even just a night. That's what motel rooms are for icon_biggrin.gif






    agree icon_exclaim.gif


    It does sound like he is repressed/intimidated by the family closeness.


    Surely between the two of ya'll the cost of a motel 6 night away can be found icon_question.gif
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    Oct 11, 2012 7:14 PM GMT
    He's fucking the milkman, that's why.

    (Or your dad, that works too!)
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    Oct 12, 2012 8:59 AM GMT
    airey_a saidHe says he doesnt wanna have sex whilst my mum and dad are in the house or asleep and he deffo wont have sex during the day, thats a big mono for him.


    Excuses...2 months no sex after only 1 year?

    He's probably one of those guys I detest from adam or grindr saying 'partnered' yet sending me messages wondering why I don't respond. Like dude...what's wrong with your brain that you can't function like straight couples and enjoy having sex with YOUR man for the next 20 or 30 years?

    Maybe gay couples weren't meant to be. I'm just fed up with the bullshit





  • Import

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    Oct 13, 2012 11:19 PM GMT
    put on some porn bro.
    Gett 'em goin.

    Get some like hardcore interacial porn and pop it in the dvd player and have it playin when he gets home from work or something.
    Spice it up bro. Do it.