Even an attractive guy can turn me off when he ___________.

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    Oct 14, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
    1. Smokes
    2. Lacks ambition
    3. Says, "girlfriend"


    Interested in hearing other's opinions.
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    Oct 14, 2012 5:40 PM GMT
    1. Smokes

    2. Drinks profusely. (As in, all the time, alchoholic.)

    3. Is actually a really self-absorbed douche.

    4. Isnt nice to the waiter! (A person who is nice to you, but not nice to the waiter, is NOT a nice person. )
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    Oct 14, 2012 5:49 PM GMT
    #1 doesn't turn me off when I see it. But I wouldn't relish the thought of kissing someone who'd just had a cigarette.

    #2 a typical American, albeit admirable, concern. I don't think there are many countries in the world in which self improvement is valued as much as it is in the US.

    #3 "girlfriend" can be said in jest.
  • reptile18

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    Oct 14, 2012 6:06 PM GMT
    #1 Says any of "Jesus", "God", "Lord", "Abomination", or "Sin"



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    Oct 14, 2012 6:18 PM GMT
    1. Arrogant

    2. Judgmental

    3. is only attracted to a specific race but will say I'm not racist it's just a preference...
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    Oct 14, 2012 6:21 PM GMT
    Hameldon said
    #2 a typical American, albeit admirable, concern. I don't think there are many countries in the world in which self improvement is valued as much as it is in the US.

    I think many times people outside of America misunderstand or overestimate the Americans' interest in ambition as a character trait.

    I don't mean I like someone to be hyper-ambitious or money driven. I simply mean I find it disappointing when someone is obviously intelligent and has a lot of potential, but works a low responsibility job into their 30s or 40s because it's just easy and not a lot is expected of them. (And yes, you might guess I'm not speaking hypothetically).
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    Oct 14, 2012 6:24 PM GMT
    89bkbred said

    3. is only attracted to a specific race but will say I'm not racist it's just a preference...


    It's actually a Catch 22. Anyone can be attracted to any specific race/races they want and not be racist, they just can't ever disclose that to anyone anywhere or they will immediately be labeled as racist. Kind of backwards but that's pretty much how it works.
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    Oct 14, 2012 9:54 PM GMT
    1. Is sick (I may still go out with him later, but I try to avoid sick people I don't know)

    2. He sounds or is dressed like a girl. (I don't mind the stereotypical gay voice, which is just slightly higher pitched, but when it sounds like an actual girl, I lose all interest)

    3. Immediatly asks about sex.

    4. smokes

    5. acts like a jerk

    6. makes everything about him

    7. no manners

    Theres alot more, but you get the point. Manners are key to me, and being yourself.
  • tturner2099

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    Oct 14, 2012 9:59 PM GMT
    1. Chews like a horse
    2. Missing teeth
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    Oct 14, 2012 10:02 PM GMT
    Stanking

    Bad breath

    An asshole

    Arrogant

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    Oct 14, 2012 10:12 PM GMT
    1. can't keep up with a conversation

    2. smokes
  • Timbales

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    Oct 14, 2012 10:12 PM GMT
    won't pay me the rate we negotiated
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    Oct 14, 2012 10:23 PM GMT
    I'm a little turned off by guys who make lists about all the things that turn them off. icon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 14, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidI'm a little turned off by guys who make lists about all the things that turn them off. icon_neutral.gif


    That's one way to look at it. For some people though, it might be instructional (hopefully).
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    Oct 14, 2012 10:39 PM GMT
    when he...

    has body odor

    smoke

    behave like a jerk (speaking of manners)

    is dumb as a sack of hammers

    has this "I'm too good for this world attitude"
  • robevans912

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    Oct 14, 2012 10:45 PM GMT
    >is racist

    >is wantonly rude

    >lacks ambition and motivation

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    Oct 14, 2012 10:51 PM GMT
    Timbales saidwon't pay me the rate we negotiated


    You ask for the money upfront and immediately Timmy. In cash. If he doesn't pay you walk out the door.
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    Oct 14, 2012 10:56 PM GMT
    Timbales saidwon't pay me the rate we negotiated


    Pay you? You're the payee and not the payer? The things I learn on these forums. icon_wink.gif
  • Timbales

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    Oct 14, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Timbales saidwon't pay me the rate we negotiated


    You ask for the money upfront and immediately Timmy. In cash. If he doesn't pay you walk out the door.


    I need a pimp.
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    Oct 14, 2012 11:04 PM GMT
    Timbales said
    Ariodante said
    Timbales saidwon't pay me the rate we negotiated


    You ask for the money upfront and immediately Timmy. In cash. If he doesn't pay you walk out the door.


    I need a pimp.


    I'll take care of you Timmy. Promise I won't beat you up too much! Well I mean I'll still have to slap you around a little but it's part of the charm of the profession <3
  • Timbales

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    Oct 14, 2012 11:04 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    Timbales said
    Ariodante said
    Timbales saidwon't pay me the rate we negotiated


    You ask for the money upfront and immediately Timmy. In cash. If he doesn't pay you walk out the door.


    I need a pimp.


    I'll take care of you Timmy. Promise I won't beat you up too much! Well I mean I'll still have to slap you around a little but it's part of the charm of the profession <3


    I'll pretend I don't like it and cry.
  • rnch

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    Oct 14, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    Dormanayevsky said1. Smokes

    2. Drinks profusely. (As in, all the time, alchoholic.)

    3. Is actually a really self-absorbed douche.

    4. Isnt nice to the waiter! (A person who is nice to you, but not nice to the waiter, is NOT a nice person. )




    agree icon_exclaim.gif


    Also, (various) body odor(s) is a huge turn off.


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    Oct 14, 2012 11:35 PM GMT
    is ugly on the inside.
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:48 AM GMT
    Has halitosis. ugh.
  • crownroyal117

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    Oct 15, 2012 1:50 AM GMT
    Sharts.