WHAT'S THE BEST WAY, YOU'VE FOUND, TO MEETING AND DATING GUYS?

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    Oct 14, 2012 7:41 PM GMT
    At this point in my life, I'm truly shying away from quickies, and all I seem to meet are young guys who are too immature to date, and only end up being quickies, or single uneventful dates.

    I've tried it all, online, in person (bars and clubs), through friends (parties), the gym, grindr, scruff, craigslist, and even discretely through work, but it seems I only seem to be into the hot straight guys (a common problem amongst most of use here)....

    How do (or have) you personally met guys for dates?

    Have you ended up in the stage of having quickies instead of a second date?

    At this point, I've been doing my best to filter out guys who are into the insta-sex, and instant gratification. It's too easy, and not fulfilling in my life. Check out my profile, please let me know if you think I need to change anything on it for some more clarity? Thanks!

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    Oct 15, 2012 1:09 AM GMT
    I'm only able to do the online thing. And I get no attention in gay clubs. Meeting a guy around here in public and we hit it off, that doesn't happen at all for me here.
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:10 AM GMT
    ADZ75 saidAt this point in my life, I'm truly shying away from quickies, and all I seem to meet are young guys who are too immature to date, and only end up being quickies, or single uneventful dates.

    I've tried it all, online, in person (bars and clubs), through friends (parties), the gym, grindr, scruff, craigslist, and even discretely through work, but it seems I only seem to be into the hot straight guys (a common problem amongst most of use here)....

    How do (or have) you personally met guys for dates?

    Have you ended up in the stage of having quickies instead of a second date?

    At this point, I've been doing my best to filter out guys who are into the insta-sex, and instant gratification. It's too easy, and not fulfilling in my life. Check out my profile, please let me know if you think I need to change anything on it for some more clarity? Thanks!

    -Alex icon_redface.gif

    I think your profile is fine.
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:23 AM GMT
    Thanks
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:28 AM GMT
    I haven't found a good way. Never been into the hookups. I don't really have a plan for meeting guys right now. I wish there was an easier way.
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    Oct 15, 2012 7:08 PM GMT
    Do you find you work too much? or your personal interests are not as social as being on a team or religious group, or for me, a local geeky group that loves Doctor Who and other Sci-Fi and fantasy shows, movies, or books? It does make it so much harder to find someone to date that way... How to overcome those challenges? I'm stumped, and going to start a new thread on this topic too!