Flaws

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    Oct 14, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    Not really sure if this has been discussed but what are your flaws that you aren't afraid to admit?

    For me despite exercising daily I still have cellulite on my thighs and ass.

    A few others

    Kindness for weakness demeanor mainly with my older siblings

    I'm the type of person that can easily be taken advantage of at times.

    Hot tempered

    Pimples


    Feel free to share your flaws here if you have any and don't be afraid to say it. Everbody has one deep down.
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    Oct 14, 2012 11:29 PM GMT
    1) Anxiety - affects me in a lot of ways (work, social situations, etc.)

    2) Idealistic - I hate accepting things which realistically are probably not going to happen.

    3) Too nice - i'm extremely loyal and empathic. It gets me taken advantage of a lot.
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    Oct 14, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    I would say some of mine are:
    Shyness

    Inability to fake a smile (people say I look really bored or intense all the time)

    Occasional Short-temper

    Occasional acne

    Weight

    I'm working on the last one, and the others I'd rather not say. icon_redface.gif
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    Oct 14, 2012 11:59 PM GMT
    Humility is knowing one's faults and loving them, nothing more and nothing less.


    I don't despise my flaws any longer nor do I lust them.
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    Oct 15, 2012 12:11 AM GMT
    MA3000 saidI don't have any.

    Build: Overweight
    Height: 3' 11''
    Weight: 450 lbs
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    Oct 15, 2012 12:22 AM GMT
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    Oct 15, 2012 12:24 AM GMT
    The usual. I'm "too _____ for my own good:"

    generous
    humble
    funny
    overanalytical
    much of a workaholic
    much of a perfectionist



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    Oct 15, 2012 12:55 AM GMT
    Fiyero27 said1) Anxiety - affects me in a lot of ways (work, social situations, etc.)

    2) Idealistic - I hate accepting things which realistically are probably not going to happen.

    3) Too nice - i'm extremely loyal and empathic. It gets me taken advantage of a lot.



    I'm pretty much the same man.


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    Oct 15, 2012 12:58 AM GMT
    1) I tend to over think things. Though on the outside I'm usually calm as a clam.

    2) Loyal to a fault. Even if I feel I'm getting the short end of the stick.

    3) Afraid to axe for help.

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    Oct 15, 2012 1:04 AM GMT
    1. Anxiety/Depression at various times .. the kind when you know it's happening so it's not as bad as it sounds.

    2. Sometimes I care too much for people and almost always get bit back in the ass.

    3. My love for Nicki Minaj and Nancy Grace. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:06 AM GMT
    I'm a hard arsed bastard and pretty ruthlessly cold. You mess with me and it'll probably be the one and only time you ever get that chance.

    I'm a sucker for a nice smile... like seriously, any guy with a nice smile and i'll get smitten.. I hate it cause they can get so much outta me.. until I feel used and then that hard arsed cold ruthless bastard comes out and I cut'em down at the knees without a second thought.

    I've made more then my fair share of people cry when it's come out and while usually I can hold it back other times I don't even realise it until it's done.
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:12 AM GMT
    Nice guy snyndrome I have. People mistake my kindness for weakness. It gets taken advantage of all the time. Also for as much as people say they like "nice guys" or "nice" people in general they really don't IMHO. The "nice" people are usually the people in the world that get used and abused the most. At least it has been my experience and what I have seen happen to others in my life. I still refuse to change though.Also most people (male or female) are not attacted to the "nice guy".

    I am clumsy. I am a bull in a china shop and don't usually realize it. Seriously I am such a clutz. Ever since I was small I fall all over myself daily. icon_lol.gif

    Sometimes I take life too seriously instead of just enjoying the ride b/c life is too short to always be so serious.

    I am very naive. To an absolute fault. Been burned a lot because of it.
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:14 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidI'm a hard arsed bastard and pretty ruthlessly cold. You mess with me and it'll probably be the one and only time you ever get that chance.

    I'm a sucker for a nice smile... like seriously, any guy with a nice smile and i'll get smitten.. I hate it cause they can get so much outta me.. until I feel used and then that hard arsed cold ruthless bastard comes out and I cut'em down at the knees without a second thought.

    I've made more then my fair share of people cry when it's come out and while usually I can hold it back other times I don't even realise it until it's done.


    icon_twisted.gif mmmmm....I love it when you talk rough hahaha
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:23 AM GMT
    David4985 saidNice guy snyndrome I have. People mistake my kindness for weakness. It gets taken advantage of all the time. Also for as much as people say they like "nice guys" or "nice" people in general they really don't IMHO. The "nice" people are usually the people in the world that get used and abused the most. At least it has been my experience and what I have seen happen to others in my life. I still refuse to change though.Also most people (male or female) are not attacted to the "nice guy".

    *rolls eyes*

    I'm not attracted to weak guys... getting used, taken advantage of, that's being weak... that's usually from having a low self opinion. Everyone has something to offer but some people don't realise what they have and so let people in and wont let them go so get used and abused.

    It's also my experience that these people are the ones who use others and aren't that nice. so it looks like this stupid little circle.

    The people I consider to be my real friends, they are all strong and confident people. They may not be loud, or bold or out there. Sometimes they wont stand there ground over something and other times they will. But no one walks over them, no one uses them and they are some of the nicest caring kind good people I know. But they'd never call them self nice.

    Kinda tired of hearing people call them selves nice.. nice guy... ooooh no one wants to date a nice guy... oooooh noooooo... bla bla bla *vomits*
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:28 AM GMT
    Without a doubt, my number one flaw is Panic Disorder. I've suffered with it for my entire adult life. Not so much of a flaw to other people, because I'm damn good at hiding it when I'm having one, but it's a huge flaw for me.
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:30 AM GMT
    "Kinda tired of hearing people call them selves nice.. nice guy... ooooh no one wants to date a nice guy... oooooh noooooo... bla bla bla *vomits* " -lilTanker

    I like this.

    I always did things nicely and told people what they wanted to hear because I liked to indulge in the real flaws, manipulation and control. Today I didn't indulge.
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:40 AM GMT
    deltalimen said"Kinda tired of hearing people call them selves nice.. nice guy... ooooh no one wants to date a nice guy... oooooh noooooo... bla bla bla *vomits* " -lilTanker

    I like this.

    I always did things nicely and told people what they wanted to hear because I liked to indulge in the real flaws, manipulation and control. Today I didn't indulge.


    Well said

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    Oct 15, 2012 1:48 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said1) I tend to over think things. Though on the outside I'm usually calm as a clam.

    2) Loyal to a fault. Even if I feel I'm getting the short end of the stick.

    3) Afraid to axe for help.



    That's me, almost to a tee. Except I don't like to "ask" for help. icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:59 AM GMT
    My biggest flaw is undoubtably my innability to love myself.

    Towards myself, Im the most critical person ever. I say horrible things, and I am merciless against how I percieve my own body and appearance

    This is definately somthing Ive been trying hard to improve on, both in my mind, and in making myself healthier.

    Its amazing how a pattern of thought can really become a habit, and a habit can become an obsession.

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    Oct 15, 2012 2:10 AM GMT
    i have a big ass...icon_eek.gif im sorry but it's really hard to shop for jeans when your waist is 29 in. and you have a big butt icon_evil.gif
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:10 AM GMT
    1.) Anxiety (work)
    2.) Road Rage (I can keep my anger in check, but when im driving it comes out icon_eek.gif )
    3.) Shyness
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:14 AM GMT
    1. I have Aspergers syndrome. It's well managed, but I sort of have to tell someone this after a while because I do have some behavorial quirks that are a bit odd. I don't tell this right away though as people can label too quickly.

    2. I'm sexually inexperienced. I don't like saying this, but at least for my standards I am. I've done most except anal sex, but the thing is each thing was only a few times or only once.

    3. I have very strong emotions. This often fall on deaf ears though because I control them well.

    Those are the three major ones anyway.
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    Procrastination
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:22 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    David4985 saidNice guy snyndrome I have. People mistake my kindness for weakness. It gets taken advantage of all the time. Also for as much as people say they like "nice guys" or "nice" people in general they really don't IMHO. The "nice" people are usually the people in the world that get used and abused the most. At least it has been my experience and what I have seen happen to others in my life. I still refuse to change though.Also most people (male or female) are not attacted to the "nice guy".

    *rolls eyes*

    I'm not attracted to weak guys... getting used, taken advantage of, that's being weak... that's usually from having a low self opinion. Everyone has something to offer but some people don't realise what they have and so let people in and wont let them go so get used and abused.

    It's also my experience that these people are the ones who use others and aren't that nice. so it looks like this stupid little circle.

    The people I consider to be my real friends, they are all strong and confident people. They may not be loud, or bold or out there. Sometimes they wont stand there ground over something and other times they will. But no one walks over them, no one uses them and they are some of the nicest caring kind good people I know. But they'd never call them self nice.

    Kinda tired of hearing people call them selves nice.. nice guy... ooooh no one wants to date a nice guy... oooooh noooooo... bla bla bla *vomits*


    qft
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:27 AM GMT
    I tend to over-analyze things if I don't pay attention to how much I'm thinking about something.
    I can be overly idealistic and want to take on all of the world's problems, especially when I feel that people aren't being treated fairly.
    I can sometimes be too much of an environmentalist.
    Even though I've gotten better, I still have occasional self-esteem isssues.