Flynn saidSo I had someone who I barely knew ask if she could crash on my couch for a week....
Word to wise: nobody moves in with someone for just a week. That is unless they are expecting thousand of dollars by means some lump sum payment and are just waiting for the check to clear. You can't expect someone to have their shit together within a week, even a month. If you're not going to allow the person minimum 3 months to live with you...don't take on the responsibility of offering them a place.
I was in a similar situation, but the person didn't actually move in though. It just became an everytime we went out, he wanted to crash at my house drunk, under the influence, etc. EVERY SINGLE TIME. This went on nearly every weekend for 5 months. Finally I was like you know what dude, you have a car. you live with your parents. Drive your own damn self home. And if you can't, either stop going out or stop getting so damn inebriated when you go out.
Flynn saidwell in the email I did tell her if she is not out by friday I am going to put her stuff on the front porch and lock the door lol
So 5 days notice? I guess that's pretty generous. Normally it's 3 days. But I'm wondering though was she under any impression that you were OK with her staying over? Did you all have this talk before?