I am destined to be alone FOREVER.... *sigh*

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    Oct 16, 2012 2:51 AM GMT
    dammit!!

    ok so tonight i went on a "date" with a guy i met on grindr.

    everything was going so well. our conversations were intelligent. we hope both were on the same page with a lot of things. he was a cute guy, he was interested... etc. all was going well until



    we were walking the mall and he says, "you know I'm just looking for friends, I have a guy we've been living together and have been together for 4 years... we are just having a huge fight right now... and we are taking a break"

    *CRUSH*

    *Vodka cocktail #1 in the works....*


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    Oct 16, 2012 2:57 AM GMT
    HUGS
    Forever ends tomorrow...NEXT

    at least it wasn't the third or forth date and you had to hear it from his wife; just say'n.
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    Oct 16, 2012 2:59 AM GMT
    You shouldn't say you're destined to be alone forever.

    You should say you're destined to be forever alone. That's the proper internet grammatical arrangement.
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    Oct 16, 2012 3:01 AM GMT
    That's a willful statement.

    Why not just fall in love with alcohol?

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    Oct 16, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    Well, just cuz he says he has a guy...they are taking a break...so things can't be that good...here's your chance to snatch him up..,,be his buddy for now ...til he can't do without you. If that other bitch can't hold onto his man that's not your problem. You didn't cause the fight. It wasn't good before you even showed up.
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    Oct 16, 2012 3:06 AM GMT
    deltalimen saidThat's a willful statement.

    Why not just fall in love with alcohol?


    trust me sir... vodka and i are best friends.. oh hell, she knows all my secrets..
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    Oct 16, 2012 3:16 AM GMT
    .... 24 huh???
    I know the feeling well ... you're gonna meet a lot of trash along the way to the right guy ... after a few you'll figure out which ones to leave at the curb
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    Oct 16, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
    You just had 1 bad date from Grindr? Try having 3 or 4 of them. I signed up 2-3 weeks ago and only got in contact with 1 person from the site after we met. It's really no different than meeting someone out on the street corner. Although I wish I could expect more, I know the reality of it all.

    Remember you're still meeting strangers from the internet. And it just doesn't guarantee anything.

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    Oct 17, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    FuzzyPecs25 saidYou just had 1 bad date from Grindr? Try having 3 or 4 of them. I signed up 2-3 weeks ago and only got in contact with 1 person from the site after we met. It's really no different than meeting someone out on the street corner. Although I wish I could expect more, I know the reality of it all.

    Remember you're still meeting strangers from the internet. And it just doesn't guarantee anything.



    no not just one. i've had my share of terrible dates.. more then 5.
    that's the point of the thread.. there are no guys..
  • Rawrdo

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    Oct 17, 2012 3:57 AM GMT
    This is me reading your post:
    youngRJ1 said everything was going so well.

    until I read
    youngRJ1 said
    with a guy i met on grindr.


    I'm sure GRINDR has worked for SOME people, but they are generally the exception to the rule. I'd just recommend lowering your expectations a bit and just go with the flow. Thay way if they flake then you're not as affected by it.
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    Oct 17, 2012 4:21 AM GMT
    youngRJ1 said
    FuzzyPecs25 saidYou just had 1 bad date from Grindr? Try having 3 or 4 of them. I signed up 2-3 weeks ago and only got in contact with 1 person from the site after we met. It's really no different than meeting someone out on the street corner. Although I wish I could expect more, I know the reality of it all.

    Remember you're still meeting strangers from the internet. And it just doesn't guarantee anything.



    no not just one. i've had my share of terrible dates.. more then 5.
    that's the point of the thread.. there are no guys..


    Sure there are guys. There are guys I see on here, for example, that are completely great, but separated by distance and time zones, and I can only guess at what it would be like if we all lived in the same city. (I would so love that)

    -Doug
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    Oct 17, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    PS young RJ1, consider that these are only 5 dates or so. You've got lots of time to explore people and what they're like. Go out and keep meeting them.

    Your emotional and social muscles need workouts, too. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 04, 2012 6:29 PM GMT
    You don't know what holds for you in future, so quit worrying over ONE WRONG DATE...just like what one member said - kiss a lot of frogs to land your prince
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    Nov 04, 2012 6:57 PM GMT
    Sorry this happened to you. This really should have been brought up before you even went out.

    Just keep trying to find the right guy. It'll happen eventually.

    Each wrong guy is one guy closer to the right guy icon_biggrin.gif