Do you have a crush on your barber?

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    Oct 16, 2012 5:11 PM GMT
    I just got back from getting my haircut and can't get the barber out of my head. He is the head barbers son and he looks to be in his early 20's and extremely cute. Maybe I should have asked him to hang out or something. But anyways do any of you guys have a crush on your barber?
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    Oct 16, 2012 5:23 PM GMT
    I used to even though I don't find him very attractive
    Maybe it's something like teacher/student attraction or something.

    If you're sure he's gay then go on and ask him out.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 16, 2012 5:30 PM GMT
    I'm my own barber
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    Oct 16, 2012 5:41 PM GMT
    can't say it's a crush but the guy I let shave my neck for me... he's freakin hot as!

    Hes this tiny little kiwi and he's so freakin gentle when he's doing it. I almost fall asleep. hahaha letting a guy near my neck with a switch blade and I wanna fall asleep hahaha
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    Oct 16, 2012 6:17 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidI'm my own barber


    this, though I did have the same barber from the time I was 6 until I was like 23.
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    Oct 16, 2012 6:32 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidI'm my own barber
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    Oct 16, 2012 6:46 PM GMT
    No. Mine is a female. I let my hair cut mostly by females. I noticed it now. Odd!
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    Oct 16, 2012 7:33 PM GMT
    Ewww, it's my dad. icon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 16, 2012 7:45 PM GMT
    My barber is a little Russian lady.
  • calibro

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    Oct 16, 2012 7:45 PM GMT
    rareone88 saidI just got back from getting my haircut and can't get the barber out of my head.


    did you try tipping him? they usually leave you alone after that
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    Oct 16, 2012 7:54 PM GMT
    ConQuest saidEwww, it's my dad. icon_neutral.gif


    Worse yet, it's my sister haha.
  • Just_Tim

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    Oct 16, 2012 8:14 PM GMT
    ConQuest saidEwww, it's my dad. icon_neutral.gif


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    Simple answer: No. The place I go to only has girl barbers.

  • Webster666

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    Oct 16, 2012 8:51 PM GMT
    My barber looks a lot like Jake Gyllenhaal, so he's easy on the eyes.
    And, he's intelligent, and fun, and funny.
    I don't have a crush on him, but I love him.

    Ironically, I'm getting my hair cut, today.
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    Oct 16, 2012 9:07 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidI'm my own barber

    Yep, me too...and I love him!

    Now my dentist, another story....cutie!
  • RaggedyMan

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    Oct 16, 2012 9:10 PM GMT
    im not into old asian men.
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    Oct 16, 2012 9:17 PM GMT
    sanjose408 saidim not into old asian men.

    Unfortunate for the old asian man!
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    Oct 16, 2012 9:30 PM GMT
    Yes I DO, actually how did you know?

    He shaves my head every morning..... oh wait, that's me.

    well, same diff. I got if I weren't me, I would be crushing on me.
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    Oct 16, 2012 10:17 PM GMT
    lol as the one doing the barbering ...

    when a gay guy gets in my chair and they show interest in me they tend to b chatty and ask subtle questions for clues about what im into

    "have you been to x bar?"
    "are you married ? / have kids ?"
    "do you live around here? / where are you from?"
    "what kind of music r u into? / do you like x kind of music?"

    i dont pretend to b str8 but i dont lead with my sexuality either so most leave there with the question on their mind ... and they come back for more =)

    you should see them melt when i give a scalp massage lol
    also when i shave their edges and apply the aftershave ;)

    ive had guys stay and chat afterward which is alright if im not busy

    some have called me at the barber shop and asked to hang out or go out, which they then become crushed to know im already with someone, then they dont come back =/

    barbers, if they are gay, tend to b apprehensive about hooking up / dating clients because mixing them (WORK AND DATING) can cause problems later like losing a client or general awkwardness if it doesnt work out
    as my partner puts it, shitting where you eat XD ... do you date ppl where you work? diff answer for diff ppl

    having a good barber isnt someone you find anywhere anytime. sometimes its best to keep a good relationship w your barber because getting personal with them changes that quickly

    if you must press forward with your intentions ...
    1 dont always do all the talking. if there is interest the barber will ask you questions back and also try to figure you out if you're not, u know, obvious about it
    2 you can try to get that barbers last possible appointment on a WEEKDAY, not a WEEKEND because ppl tend to have stuff to do. then you arent being rushed by other clients waiting and you can talk more at ease
    3 you can always just b flat out about it. ive had clients just come out and say that they are gay. however i suggest you dont talk about it too loudly because some barbers are not out to their co workers/other clients and you may press an awkward button
    4 b prepared for a reaction ... maybe hes a homophobe, maybe he will b neutral, or maybe just maybe it will be a positive start to something nice ... but again you change your relationship forever if you start asking him out

    remember a barber is trying to maintain professionalism like anyone else at their job. pushing this is asking them to break that

    ive only broken it once =P great guy, lots in common, muscular/fit, and my partner likes him too. there was an awkward spot but thats no longer an issue. were still friends and keep a client/barber relationship but its not a common occurrence for sure

    my issue is dealing with DILFs and hot str8 athletic college boys ><

    good luck =D
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    Oct 16, 2012 10:41 PM GMT
    Nope, can't say that I do.
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    Oct 16, 2012 10:53 PM GMT
    I can't say I have a crush on him, but I did have sex with him.
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    Oct 16, 2012 10:57 PM GMT
    Erm don't think so. He just makes me look fly that's bout it lmao
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    Oct 17, 2012 12:04 AM GMT
    Sumarokov saidI can't say I have a crush on him, but I did have sex with him.

    Oh wow, lol.
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    Oct 17, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    Yes. I love myself. Frequently.

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  • jwand09

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    Oct 17, 2012 4:16 AM GMT
    Hell yea but his fine lightskined ass is in jail nowicon_wink.gif
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    Oct 17, 2012 4:19 AM GMT
    icon_lol.gifnope.i hate cutting my hair.lol everytime i do i get scared ill fuck up and have to cut it all off.