First blowjob from a guy....

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    Oct 16, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    I've always heard that guys give the best head, however it wasn't very good. Idk if it was just him, but I would have rather just jerked it. Anyone else had this happen?
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    Oct 16, 2012 9:49 PM GMT
    It's very rare to find someone who's truly great at it. A lot of guys who say they're great at it are mistaking having lots of experience for having genuine technique. Trust me, when you find someone who actually is talented, you'll know it.icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 16, 2012 9:52 PM GMT
    I am superb at giving head. I know the "technique."
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    Oct 16, 2012 10:42 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidIt's very rare to find someone who's truly great at it.[...]
    when you find someone who actually is talented, you'll know it.icon_wink.gif


    Those are understatements.

    If I feel too much teeth I gently remind the guy to be careful. That's probably the only kind of guidance I'll tell a guy servicing me. I'll always thank him when he's finished. When he's good or better I always praise him and his talents while he's servicing me.
    On rare occasions I've just mentored guys, like a lesson, suggesting what and how to proceed to make it a better BJ so the guy will be more proficient. They've been very, very attentive, and thankful!
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    Oct 16, 2012 10:45 PM GMT
    I guess I was lucky - my first was BJ was wonderful. But he was an "older man" (30 to my 1icon_cool.gif. No substitute for experience.
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    Oct 16, 2012 10:47 PM GMT
    ChoklitDaddy saidI guess I was lucky - my first was BJ was wonderful. But he was an "older man" (30 to my 1icon_cool.gif. No substitute for experience.


    As for "experience", some guys just do it a lot it but don't have good technique.
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    Oct 16, 2012 11:19 PM GMT
    There wasn't any teeth, except for once, but that wasn't the problem. And the guy was older... I didn't really want to tell him so I just acted like it was good. It wasn't even "bad" it was just not good.
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    Oct 17, 2012 12:49 AM GMT
    The people who give the best head are the people who enjoy giving head...male, female, or trans.

    As far as getting head goes, not everyone enjoys blowjobs. This may be where the OP is at, or not.
  • Buddha

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    Oct 17, 2012 1:23 AM GMT
    I also hear lots of people saying that "they're so good at bjs", but I personally just think different people like different things. Some maybe just like the deepthroating, some maybe enjoy getting sucked at the tip a lot, playing with the tongue, licking up and down the shaft, or maybe even teeth (ouch).

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    Oct 17, 2012 3:45 AM GMT
    It can also be a style thing... maybe the guy that you got it from just didn't have the style that you'd like. It's the same as preferences from a hand job, really.

    I'd suggest kicking the tires a few more times with other models. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 17, 2012 4:07 AM GMT
    Next time, take control for a little bit and pump your cock in his mouth. It's kinda boring if the receiver just lays there like a corpse.
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    Oct 17, 2012 9:18 AM GMT
    Caslon21000 saidI am superb at giving head. I know the "technique."

    I knew there was a legitimate reason for my attraction to you!icon_biggrin.gif
  • rnch

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    Oct 17, 2012 1:01 PM GMT
    Contrary to what gay porn videos try to teach us; not every guy gets off on bj's.

    It's just that simple.




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  • str8ish

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    Jul 24, 2016 8:21 PM GMT
    I've had good head for both guys and girls but nothing beats a strong firm grip. That's all I'm sayin ;)
  • rrazvy

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    Jul 24, 2016 10:43 PM GMT
    xrichx saidNext time, take control for a little bit and pump your cock in his mouth. It's kinda boring if the receiver just lays there like a corpse.


    Yeah, good advice. A man has to really want to love getting sucked, so he can lead the sucker.
  • Pete36

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    Sep 08, 2016 11:41 PM GMT
    I was a freshman in high school....WOW...it was wonderful
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    Sep 09, 2016 12:05 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidIt's very rare to find someone who's truly great at it. A lot of guys who say they're great at it are mistaking having lots of experience for having genuine technique. Trust me, when you find someone who actually is talented, you'll know it.icon_wink.gif

    Guys I've blown have said it was the best BJ of their life. In some cases, the best SEXUAL experience of their life! When you can make a guy cum twice in a row in rapid succession, without taking him out of your mouth after the first one, you kinda have your proof.

    My secret is simple: it's all done inside your mouth, internal. Not external, like the stuff you see in gay pornos. Porno is staged for the camera, to give the best visual stimulation to the audience. It's not always what's best for the guy you're trying to please.

    Whether the porn is showing fucking or sucking, it's all intended for the camera, not for the maximum pleasure of the participants. So while gay porno vids and mags can give you some ideas, and encouragement, keep their purpose and limitations in mind. Applying them "verbatim" in your own bedroom may not produce the best results for your partner.
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    Sep 10, 2016 6:10 PM GMT
    U know u found a good dick sucker when he gives u out of body experiences when u nutt in his mouth

    ur not even mad when he spits Cus it's so good

    Thx Jose
  • Nakedman1969

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    Sep 28, 2016 3:25 AM GMT
    My first bj was from a married guy and he did a great job his first time, and he told me that I did a good job. But then I had one guy said I did a great job on him and one time I gave him a heckie on the tip of his cock.
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    Sep 28, 2016 3:51 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    It's very rare to find someone who's truly great at it. A lot of guys who say they're great at it are mistaking having lots of experience for having genuine technique. Trust me, when you find someone who actually is talented, you'll know it. icon_wink.gif

    True! I've only met one guy in my life who could blow me well enough that I came. A lot of guys think that licking, and bobbing their heads up and down, will do something for me. It doesn't. You really gotta suck with some powerful force behind it, give me some pressure & grip I can feel. Your sliding lips alone are a big nothing. Other than it feels nice, but not stimulating.

    So this guy & I did a 69. I'm pretty good at giving BJs myself. I've had some guys exclaim (while panting afterwards) that it was the best orgasm of their life, by any means. Even would have guys orgasm a second time, no pause between, without my ever taking him out of my mouth, a first for all of them. Anyway...

    He & I sucked in a 69 until we both came in the other's mouth, at the exact same moment! Now THERE'S an experience. First time ever for me, and sadly the last.

    I consider giving a blowjob an art form. Part of my basic skill set as a gay man. If you wanna play in the big leagues you've gotta be on top of your game. (Is there a pun there?)