CUTE GUY AT GYM!!

  • travvfit

    Posts: 52

    Oct 18, 2012 10:35 AM GMT
    The guy at reception is really cute and he said my name as i left which most employees say goodbye and don't remember names. I cam ein today and he seemed nervous as he gave back my card and knocked over a few notes.

    How do i take this out of the gym or even get to the fact of is he gay.

    his working so i cant come out and ask can i?

    HELP ME

    xoxox Travvicon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
  • Kel_

    Posts: 1360

    Oct 18, 2012 12:30 PM GMT
    Seems like he's shy to ask you out. Take initiative, start a conversation next time you see him, and then ask if he wants to grab a drink or bite after work with you.
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

    Posts: 3755

    Oct 18, 2012 12:42 PM GMT
    Your profile says "university gym" so assuming that's where you are it should be pretty easy to talk to him. Go for it. Talk.

    Even if he Is straight it sounds like he'd be a great friend.
  • HndsmKansan

    Posts: 16311

    Oct 18, 2012 12:47 PM GMT
    I agree with the guys above...plenty of things to talk about and if you have some things in common, ask him hang out and get something to eat or a movie. Make it about friendship. You can find out is he is gay later. Remember, he might not even be out yet or may be in self denial.
  • OhioJock

    Posts: 72

    Oct 18, 2012 1:46 PM GMT
    With today being Thursday ask him if he has any big plans for the weekend? Chances are he'll come back at you with the same question and then you have your opportunity to see if he wants to get together.
  • Medjai

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    Oct 18, 2012 1:53 PM GMT
    From the info you gave, no assumptions can be made. However, ask him to hang out sometime. Worst case is he says no and nothing changes, so why not?
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    Oct 18, 2012 2:10 PM GMT
    Wait until Friday, then ask him 'how it's going?' and 'what's up for your weekend?' Good conversation starters, then you can easily go from there.
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    Oct 18, 2012 2:46 PM GMT
    OhioJock saidWith today being Thursday ask him if he has any big plans for the weekend? Chances are he'll come back at you with the same question and then you have your opportunity to see if he wants to get together.
    ...to fuck.
  • mybud

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    Oct 18, 2012 2:50 PM GMT
    ask him if he'd mind scrubbing your back in the showers after your workout....
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    Oct 18, 2012 5:25 PM GMT
    Accidentally drop your card as you're moving away from him, bend over to pick it up, and then give him a wink and a come-hither look as if saying, "You want some of this?"
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    Oct 18, 2012 5:29 PM GMT
    just start convos build a repoire, like you got any good workouts, advice, where you go out at night? and eventually ask is he seeing someone last person he saw etc
    but u should know after a few convos or hang out time lol
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Oct 18, 2012 6:27 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidAccidentally drop your card as you're moving away from him, bend over to pick it up, and then give him a wink and a come-hither look as if saying, "You want some of this?"

    Good idea but lots if colleges have finger print scanners to get into the gym. My college does.
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    Oct 18, 2012 6:56 PM GMT
    Start a conversation. Make a joke about his job or something you might have in common