Drawbacks to orgasming inside?

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    Sep 01, 2008 2:45 AM GMT
    Drawbacks to shooting into the ass...

    Whenever i had sex with my ex and i went in him he said it wasn't that great at all, but many other people say otherwise...or something in between.

    Just curious to see what random people think before I let it be done on me...Thanks for replying/input if you!
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    Sep 01, 2008 3:38 PM GMT
    It's a huge turn on for me.
    I love doing it and have it done to me- of course only with my partner of 12 years.

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    Sep 01, 2008 3:59 PM GMT
    I would say it depends on the guy. Everyone finishes up differently.
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    Sep 01, 2008 8:33 PM GMT
    you can actually feel it when you're bottoming?
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    Sep 01, 2008 8:54 PM GMT
    Jayyp16 saidyou can actually feel it when you're bottoming?


    I did not mean the cum itself, more the way the guy reacts short before. Thats something you can feel, the other not. Some give it all, some get stiff, some just a bit slower a.s.o.
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    Sep 01, 2008 9:25 PM GMT
    i can feel it!
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    Sep 02, 2008 6:49 PM GMT
    Jayyp16 saidyou can actually feel it when you're bottoming?


    I don't think you can feel the actual ejaculate, but you can definitely feel the cock while it's contracting/shooting. Erotic stories always tell how they can "feel the hot –insert cum reference here– coating their insides. I say that's bunk, but if your top has strong contractions, you can definitely feel it. Often, it was enough to make me cross over.
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    Sep 02, 2008 7:27 PM GMT
    awol77 said
    Jayyp16 saidyou can actually feel it when you're bottoming?


    I don't think you can feel the actual ejaculate, but you can definitely feel the cock while it's contracting/shooting. Erotic stories always tell how they can "feel the hot –insert cum reference here– coating their insides. I say that's bunk, but if your top has strong contractions, you can definitely feel it. Often, it was enough to make me cross over.


    It depends on the top. With my husband I cant feel him cum. I did have an ex who I could feel every last drop, not just the contracting/expanding but the whole shooting and even how much.
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    Sep 03, 2008 10:43 PM GMT
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    awol77 said
    Jayyp16 saidyou can actually feel it when you're bottoming?


    I don't think you can feel the actual ejaculate, but you can definitely feel the cock while it's contracting/shooting. Erotic stories always tell how they can "feel the hot –insert cum reference here– coating their insides. I say that's bunk, but if your top has strong contractions, you can definitely feel it. Often, it was enough to make me cross over.


    It depends on the top. With my husband I cant feel him cum. I did have an ex who I could feel every last drop, not just the contracting/expanding but the whole shooting and even how much.


    Same here. My ex was just awesome. I'm normally not a big bottom but he worked. And when he came, I could see through time. icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 05, 2008 8:33 PM GMT
    I love it, I can totaly feel him shoot in me. He cums way more than me though. Another real turn on for me is when my bf is about to cum and he pulls it out and shoots it all over my asshole then shoves his cock back in me for a few more strokes.......mmmm drives me wild..
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    Sep 10, 2008 3:23 AM GMT
    If a guy pulls out and dose not cum in me. I will go soft and not be able to get off!
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    Sep 10, 2008 4:56 AM GMT
    My partner says he loves the way it feels when I shoot inside him. I've never actually had anyone cum inside me so I'm not sure how it feels
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    Sep 10, 2008 8:41 AM GMT
    When I cum in a guy - it is the most amazing thing ever - holding him very close and kind of trembling - as I give him my gift. It also works the other way - I love feeling a guy get super hard and breathe differently at that moment of no return.
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    Sep 11, 2008 12:08 AM GMT
    chillz4thrillz saidI love it, I can totaly feel him shoot in me. He cums way more than me though. Another real turn on for me is when my bf is about to cum and he pulls it out and shoots it all over my asshole then shoves his cock back in me for a few more strokes.......mmmm drives me wild..



    my favorite kind of porn...and my favorite way to nut...all over his ass and then shove it back in for a few strokes
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    Sep 11, 2008 9:44 AM GMT
    i love feeling a guy cumming up inside my ass and i love doing it to a guy to having a condom on is like puting a sock on your cock
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    Sep 14, 2008 1:51 AM GMT
    Hummmm..guess I would not know..
    I would not think you could feel a guy's cum..
    Would think that would be more mental when he cums.
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    Sep 14, 2008 7:32 PM GMT
    My husband says he can feel the heat from my cum especially if I am really turned on and cum a lot but that is because we do not use a condom.

    Since you are asking about doing it for the first time then you will be using a condom and may only feel the expansion of his cock while he is cumming. That feeling alone is usually enough to make my husband cum but actually I prefer that he cum first because I can feel the contractions of his prostrate near to the base of my cock and that feels ever so, so, so good.
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    Sep 14, 2008 7:34 PM GMT
    So there's absolutely no drawbacks? cause that's mainly what i'm asking

    i'm sure/know it feels good but are there any negatives to doing it?
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    Sep 14, 2008 7:58 PM GMT
    Ok, if there is a negative, it depends on what the bottom wants. Some bottoms want the top to pull out and shoot on their chest, cock, back or face . They might want to see the top shoot. Otherwise, I have never had a bottom complain about shooting up their bum, so if there is a drawback, it beats me.

  • Nov 18, 2008 11:23 PM GMT
    if you are a bottom and your bf cums inside you do you hold it in all night, let it leak out gradually or do you 'expel' it somewhere?
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    Nov 19, 2008 1:25 AM GMT
    When I let a top cum in my ass, I usually leave it in me overnight and shit it out the next morning. I can always tell if a guy came alot because im still shitting out cum by the next afternoon.
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    Nov 19, 2008 1:44 AM GMT
    Many men have a little extra swelling & hardening just before they orgasm, which the bottom can feel. Plus there can be changes in the stroke, tensing of the body and altered breathing, and other signs that indicate when ejaculation is taking place.

    Whether or not the bottom can truly feel the ejaculate itself is doubtful. I've never done bareback myself and can't say from personal experience.
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    Nov 21, 2008 5:51 PM GMT
    Of the very few times I've ever had someone cum inside me, one time stands out. This was a LONG time ago, but a very good buddy and I (tested/trusted) were going at it...and when he came...I don't know so much if I felt him actually squirt, but I felt the heat from it, it was awesome and intense and just...WOW...all at the same time =)

    As a top when I've done it...I think it's the best way to cum personally. Nothing more intimate, erotic or just plain HOT than sharing that with someone.
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    Nov 25, 2008 5:02 PM GMT
    Jayyp16 saidDrawbacks to shooting into the ass...

    Whenever i had sex with my ex and i went in him he said it wasn't that great at all, but many other people say otherwise...or something in between.

    Just curious to see what random people think before I let it be done on me...Thanks for replying/input if you!



    I wouldn't do it, the anus drinks up precum and cum like a sponge. Don't know if it feels good or not but it's definitely a good way to get a disease, if that's what floats our boat. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 25, 2008 7:29 PM GMT
    Drawbacks to letting someone have unprotected sex with you? How about HIV, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Herpes, Hepatitis, and Warts.

    Always use a condom....please.