Vpmn19 saidHey guys, ive been thinking about it for a very long time now, and I think im going to come out to my best friends soon. The pressure I feel is way to much and I want real people in my life. They know im a virgin and dont mind. Lately I feel like they have been talking about gays in a positive way, but theres still those times theyre offensive. My family knows im gay so I got that support. I guess I just need some advice on how to approach my buddies about coming out? Sorry for the long explanation. Please help.
I recently came out bi to my best friend, he was like totally homophobe tbh but after I told him about me being this way he was totally fine with it like for real, I was sure it be awkward, but he ask me lots questions we talk about bfs snd everything,
the thing is the more you think about it the worse you will imagine it vow you imagine it 100 different ways, front and backwards, the thing you need to be sure of is your friend really a good mate
After tell my best friend I told another very close friend and her first words were "when can I meet him?" And I was dating girls so they didn't even know, they both said if it makes me happy then they are happy,
so i think you need to just say and not over think, few pints, relax the nerves, joke around a bit and I think if he really your best mate he be cool with it
I didn't have support from my fam, they are disowning me and shunning so I'm happy to hear you have that support xD
hope all goes well