Oct 24, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
***Please Read*** I need guidance and Advice***please
I mentor two brothers and Ive been doing it about a year now.
Im afraid for one of them and I think hes on the verge or either dropping out or possibly getting arrested ect.
It started around 3 monthes...ironically thats when I was at my closest with him and it took me a long time for me to earn his trust and become close with him.
At that time he started hanging out with a punk ass drop out and from there on out hes been slowly going down hill.....he pushed all his real/good friends away and stopped doing things he was talented at.
On top of that he pushed me out of his life to some extent and started being rude and inconsiderate to me very frequently.
So as of a month ago he has been hanging out with another teenager who has a VERY BAD PAST and has not left this other teens side for the last month/month and a half.
Hes been drinking every weekend and is back into smoking pot on the regular. The Punk he hangs out with lets him and a lot of other kids to come over every weekend and drink and do drugs at his house and from what I know his mother allows it and even buys the alcohol.
When school started up he seemed preoccupied and has since missed too many days and has gotten into trouble at school such as swearing at teachers,walking out of school and not doing tons of his homework.
2 weeks ago We had a long overdue Heart to Heart on his bad decisions, school, his hobbies but most of all HOW HES BEEN TREATING me. he said he would change his life around and change the way he treats me.
He blew me off 3 tmes within the last week to hang out with that PUNK an basically went against everything he said he wouldnt do after our long conversation.
What scares me is that thi punk ass kid hes hanging out with Just dropped out as well As the Punks brother....And I have a gut feeling they are going to persuade him to drop out or even influence him.
I feel like hes slipping away from Me, His family to some extent and his realt friends...I dont know what to do?? but without sounding cheesey my heart is killing me right now because I cant watch/let this happen.