Oct 24, 2012 5:47 PM GMT
Do u think because of all ur past hurts & trauma u find it hard to ever get into another serious relationship where u can be free & hold nothing back & be present & live in the moment?
spgem saidIf it doesnt fit in the overhead, u've brought too much!
lilTanker saidoh I love some of the responses in this thread about "no baggage"
Seriously go live life. Stop living behind a computer where you observe others experiences and think you know better.
Baggage comes with life, it's part of how it all works.
And no my baggage doesn't prevent me from meeting the right guy. It keeps the wrong ones at a distance for me though.
Cause if some guy wants me, he's getting everything and he'd better be mature enough and experienced in life to be able to handle everything about me.
cuerpoymente saidI actually wonder this about myself. I had a great relationship in the past and learned a great deal from it. So in some ways, it has greatly narrowed down and helped pinpoint what I need from a relationship (and what I want to contribute to), but that has also made my mind much more closed. I wouldn't say there's any sort of emotional baggage though (even though I can be quite reserved at times!).
My baggage is high-end.
And it smells good.
spgem saidDo u think because of all ur past hurts & trauma u find it hard to ever get into another serious relationship where u can be free & hold nothing back & be present & live in the moment?