Stay friends or forget it? Please help. Confused.(resolved)

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    Oct 25, 2012 2:47 AM GMT
    Topic closed. Moving on.
  • Sparkycat

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    Oct 25, 2012 4:06 AM GMT
    Seriously? You can't figure this out yourself? I would tell them both to fuck the hell off. Stop being such a pussy.
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    Oct 25, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    I would seem like a drama king if I did that, because we never had anything. The only thing I care about is getting my sunglasses and car charger from him, and getting rid of this headache.
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    Oct 25, 2012 4:19 AM GMT
    If I were you I would call your friend who introduced you and sit down with him in a public place (dinner) and tell him what happened. Theres a chance he might not have known everything...or the girl already knows her baby daddy is gay and is just in denial about it...

    But for now don't talk to the guy...It seems you like him, but if he wasn't honest with you about having a kid and a girlfriend or crazy ex girlfriend, you dont want to be with him...

    As for your brother...does he know your gay? If yes, just explain everything to him, if not...i dont know what to say

    Good Luck!
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    Oct 25, 2012 4:23 AM GMT
    Sparkycat saidSeriously? You can't figure this out yourself? I would tell them both to fuck the hell off. Stop being such a pussy.


    People can figure things out on their own but sometimes they need someone's else opinion to be assured. Thanks for not being a dick icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 25, 2012 4:23 AM GMT


    "The only thing I care about is getting my sunglasses and car charger from him, and getting rid of this headache."

    ,,but what about everything you talked about in your first post?


  • FuriousGeorge

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    Oct 25, 2012 4:24 AM GMT
    What's the deal with your brother? I take it you're not out to him?

    Meet the guy and ask him all these things. Find out who she is and how she knew where you live. It doesn't really matter what the answers are though because I'd tell you to distance yourself from him regardless. You say this is a headache, but it's not your headache. Just get up, walk away, and say, "Good luck guys. I'll be down the street having a beer."
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    Oct 25, 2012 4:30 AM GMT
    simple -but brutal answer 2 all these vexing gay questions-just fuck them and forget them-if u cant fuck them forget them anyway.
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    Oct 25, 2012 4:31 AM GMT
    RadRTT saidIf I were you I would call your friend who introduced you and sit down with him in a public place (dinner) and tell him what happened. Theres a chance he might not have known everything...or the girl already knows her baby daddy is gay and is just in denial about it...

    But for now don't talk to the guy...It seems you like him, but if he wasn't honest with you about having a kid and a girlfriend or crazy ex girlfriend, you dont want to be with him...

    As for your brother...does he know your gay? If yes, just explain everything to him, if not...i dont know what to say

    Good Luck!


    I didn't know he was closeted, I never asked him his orientation for some reason.
    It's just awkward when your family ends up in the middle. Don't want him to think I'm snatchin daddies up like its cool. My brother knows, I just don't wanna bring it up anymore.
  • FuriousGeorge

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    Oct 25, 2012 4:39 AM GMT
    Just tell your brother. If he already knows you're gay and he's any kind of brother, he'll just laugh it off. You didn't do anything wrong. It's kind of a funny story, really. Just say, "Yeah, I was going out with some guy, and then his crazed girlfriend came after me! Fucking weird, man." End of story.
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    Oct 25, 2012 4:39 AM GMT
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    Sparkycat saidSeriously? You can't figure this out yourself? I would tell them both to fuck the hell off. Stop being such a pussy.


    People can figure things out on their own but sometimes they need someone's else opinion to be assured. Thanks for not being a dick icon_wink.gif


    This. I always read posts like these and roll my eyes, today I'm rolling my eyes at myself.

    meninlove said

    "The only thing I care about is getting my sunglasses and car charger from him, and getting rid of this headache."

    ,,but what about everything you talked about in your first post?




    I can fix everything else later. I just figured 1/25 replies would have useful feedback anyway. Thanks to those of you who read the thread (I hate reading through long threads myself) and replying and all.
  • unhooligan

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    Oct 25, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
    I'm sure if you told your brother about it, you guys would have something to laugh at later in life. Also get your friend who introduced you to the guy to get your shit for you if you'd rather avoid another possible scene.