Kissing... in a car?

  • morleyq

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    Oct 27, 2012 6:42 AM GMT
    I just don't get the fascination.

    Had a make-out session once with a boyfriend and I remember it being so uncomfortable. Though maybe that was closeted me, fearing that someone would see us.

    Maybe back in the 1970s and before, when seats were benches, it was more comfortable?

    Had another session a few months ago. We moved to the back seat. That was a bench. And still it was too confined.

    Met a guy last weekend and we went to my car and kissed a bit. Yummy, but awkward leaning over the center console. Then the other night we took a walk to a park after a nice dinner. No seats and the ground was wet, so we leaned up against a rustic fence and made out for eternity. It was one of the most wonderful evenings of my life!

    Am I alone concluding that making out in a car is way over-rated?
  • Kagse

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    Oct 27, 2012 1:40 PM GMT
    First of all congrats on the series of make out sessions, secondly, yea I would have to agree. Its great if u need to sneak in some aggressive PDA, but not all that accessible when you want more.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Oct 27, 2012 1:42 PM GMT
    My first kiss with a guy was in my car in 1998... I can tell you I don't remember anything awkward about it. It was just awesome!!!

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  • calibro

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    Oct 27, 2012 1:57 PM GMT
    if while making out you're thinking about a car and not the other guy, then i hate to break it to you, but the onus is on you
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    Oct 27, 2012 3:36 PM GMT
    I've never felt awkward making out in a car. I actually prefer it a lot of the time. I think it's easiest if you sit on the guys lap (facing him) or vice-versa, or if you lay on your back with him on top of you. . . . That is, if you're short enough to do so, like i am. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Justforfun717

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    Oct 27, 2012 3:44 PM GMT
    quite personally i have no problems with kissing in any place my first kiss was in a bathroom icon_redface.gif and i f was kissing some1 i would only think about them not the car or ground
  • Dominican_Gen...

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    Oct 27, 2012 3:51 PM GMT
    Depends on the car. If you drive a compact jeep (like I do) then you are pretty much seating shoulder to shoulder, no big center console to keep you apart. If you drive a large SUV then things get weird.

    However, all else been equal (a good kisser guy you have the hots for), the sorroundings -where you are parking- is more important than the vehicle you are into.
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    Oct 27, 2012 4:47 PM GMT
    I think that's pretty much why guys used to drive pickup trucks with a mattress in the back.

    I have to admit that I once made out in a van with blackout glass in the windows. Right on a city street. With people walking by on the sidewalk. Even though they couldn't see us, it was too weird... couldn't really get into it.
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    Oct 27, 2012 4:50 PM GMT
    Guess you never just happened to have a magic moment that happened to be in a car? Sometimes its just that spark between you two kissing, not necessarily making out, or having sex; that makes the moment. You can't go wrong, if you stop looking for things, that happen to you on their own.
  • morleyq

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    Oct 27, 2012 5:04 PM GMT
    Don't get me wrong. Last week there was certainly a spark kissing in the car with that guy.
    Sufficiently that we got together again.
    But at the park... it was a 5-alarm fire!

    As Dominican said, all else being equal, why be in a car rather than somewhere more comfortable? Is it because of "makeout lane", the 1950s and Hollywood glorification? Because high school kids have nowhere else to go?

    It's starting to get cold outside, but I'd rather spend 5 minutes at that park than 50 minutes in the car. I suppose in a month or two, when we're both wearing parkas and gloves, that wouldn't work too well. By then the ex should be moved out.....
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    Oct 27, 2012 5:09 PM GMT
    morleyq saidDon't get me wrong. Last week there was certainly a spark kissing in the car with that guy.
    Sufficiently that we got together again.
    But at the park... it was a 5-alarm fire!

    As Dominican said, all else being equal, why be in a car rather than somewhere more comfortable? Is it because of "makeout lane", the 1950s and Hollywood glorification? Because high school kids have nowhere else to go?

    It's starting to get cold outside, but I'd rather spend 5 minutes at that park than 50 minutes in the car. I suppose in a month or two, when we're both wearing parkas and gloves, that wouldn't work too well. By then the ex should be moved out.....

    Ohh, I see... you're in the colder weather states... In Arizona I've made out at colorful sunsets in the Rocky Mountains overlooking our home town, and thrown a few thick blankets on the truck beds of trucks and made love during thunderstorms! Oh the fun you can have in a moving vehicle.
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  • Dominican_Gen...

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    Oct 27, 2012 5:20 PM GMT
    JR_RJ saidOhh, I see... you're in the colder weather states... In Arizona I've made out at colorful sunsets in the Rocky Mountains overlooking our home town, and thrown a few thick blankets on the truck beds of trucks and made love during thunderstorms! Oh the fun you can have in a moving vehicle.
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    Oh the images you just put in my mind!! That is like a WHOLE new level of car-kissing icon_biggrin.gif
  • morleyq

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    Oct 27, 2012 6:07 PM GMT
    JR_RJ saidIn Arizona I've made out at colorful sunsets in the Rocky Mountains overlooking our home town, and thrown a few thick blankets on the truck beds of trucks and made love during thunderstorms! Oh the fun you can have in a moving vehicle.
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    Remind me of this in February and maybe I'll jump in my car and head on out there!
    I wouldn't want to jump to conclusions based on scant data.
  • confidentcrip

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    Oct 27, 2012 6:11 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]MuchMoreThanMuscle said[/cite]Kissing for extended periods of time will not be all that comfortable unless you're able to face one another. Seated side by side is not comfortable after a short while.

    I'd rather stand and face one another and kiss for awhile. Unless someone is able to straddle the other, kissing while seated tends to not be all that great.

    Now...who wants to straddle me? [/quote

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    Oct 27, 2012 6:17 PM GMT
    Generations of TV and film have ingrained in our psyches that kissing in cars is a universal rite of passage that's subversive, thrilling, decadent, even dangerous. I never had the experience until I was 25 and insisted on it. One late winter night in the '80s after years of taking public transportation my boyfriend was driving me down Manhattan's West Side Highway along the Hudson River - when it was truly dangerous, industrial and deserted - when I told him to pull over by a pier midtown and in the freezing cab of his borrowed truck we made out, fogging up the windows in the process! Still waiting to cross being taken to the prom off my bucket list.
  • mybud

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    Oct 28, 2012 2:43 AM GMT
    I like making out in a car...The warmth of each others body pressed up against leather covered seats...fogging the windows while you make foot imprints on the cars ceiling...Something very wrong ....yet sooooo right bout it...
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    Oct 28, 2012 3:02 AM GMT
    oh man...i had this guy whom i had been on like two dates with...and he told me he was eager to get at least one kiss, so he pulled over and we started making out...and then he leaned the car seat where i was and before i knew it he was on top of me icon_lol.gif i had to stop him cuz it was just not gonna happen...he had one of those honda civics and to my surprise it was very spacious, i mean this guy was like 6'2icon_eek.gif
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    Oct 28, 2012 3:39 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidI love big come-fuck-me-trucks --the massive pickups, on a lift package, ready for off-road or whatever needs to be done. And just once I'd love to be sliding up to my mans on that bench seat, stick shift between my legs, and my left hand between his. So jelly of the skanky bitches who get to ride around like that with guys like that....I wanna be that skanky bitch! icon_mad.gif

    You are a skanky bitch...the truck would just be gilding the lily.
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    Oct 28, 2012 3:47 AM GMT
    Dominican_Gent saidOh the images you just put in my mind!! That is like a WHOLE new level of car-kissing icon_biggrin.gif

    Damn right! Hope those hot, sweet, and invigorating! Gay men deserve those classic notions of passion and romance when they should happen, as much as any heterosexual couple. If you can imagine it... you can make it, my friend. icon_cool.gificon_wink.gif

    morleyq saidRemind me of this in February and maybe I'll jump in my car and head on out there!
    I wouldn't want to jump to conclusions based on scant data.
    Remember what you find there is a lot like with what you take with you... if you want passion, romance, and magic... be sure to take some measure of it with your for the whole duration of your stay. You'll be happy you did. icon_cool.gif
  • lostlogic

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    Oct 28, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    Now that I think about it...

    Years ago when I was going on dates with guys for the first time we sometimes kissed in cars and it was awesome. But it was probably awesome because being with a guy was relatively a new experience. Now I don't consider kissing in a car more exceptional than any other kind of kissing. If anything, it's not as romantic as other scenarios could be.
  • morleyq

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    Oct 28, 2012 4:43 AM GMT
    JR_RJ saidif you want passion, romance, and magic... be sure to take some measure of it with your for the whole duration of your stay. You'll be happy you did. icon_cool.gif

    What? You guys don't have that readily available at service stations?
    (I could have said rest stops.)

    I'll be sure to drive via Orlando to pick up some magic.
    I'll have to search through (past) my baggage for passion and romance!
  • Wyatt

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    Oct 29, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    The only time I really "kissed in a car" was when my bf and I were stuck in traffic at about 12 am, it was pretty nice but it's not something to be all hyped up about. Oh and we continued when we finally got home. ;)

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    Oct 29, 2012 1:57 AM GMT
    Kissing in the car is romantic and awesome. Just don't make it sleazy.